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This kid Brandon, my cousin's friend,and i think he is totally hot! But the problem is that he's 15 and I'm like 13, and a little bit, he flirts with me like, a lot. Does anyone know signs guys can give when they like a girl? He's gone wayy to far on me trying to touch my chest and stuff, and I'm not into that. But its like when he has other girls around, im not even there. what should i do? and now he moved to arizona for the summer, skipping the rest of school this year.now i dont when hes coming back, but probably in august, and i know i'll see him. he is also a trouble-maker, egging ppl's houses and stuff, breaking windows. (etc.) how should i act?

OMG that kid is bad! Well..girls do tend to like bad boys *rolls eyes* XD I don't think you should go out with a guy who makes you uncomfortable. Touching a girl's chest just means that he's a pervert and only wants a piece of ass, but that's my opinion. I would think he's the type to flirt alot.

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what color eyeshadow brings out dark brown eyes on a girl with dark brown hair and tan skin?

I say green, like dark emerald green.

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I dont know what to do! My scale says I'm 123,and my mom says its accurate,but I think I weigh a lot more! I'm 13, and i dont know what to do. And i wanna wear a bikini this summer. Any suggestions about exercising?

It also depends on your height. I think all girls feel like they're too fat.

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I am really into the style of Ashlee Simpson, but sometimes she's a bitt to extreme, and I like Kelly Clarkson. Should I follow their clothing style? Where can I find not really expensice clothes like that?

It's your choice. Maybe you can mix and match. You know, anyone can look like a million bucks without even having to buy a million bucks. Try thrift shops or cheap clothing stores like Ross, Value City, etc.

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I have naturally straight hair, but my cuzin (Nikki) ahas straight also, but she somehow gets it superr straight! She wont tell me how she does it. And i dont have enough money to buy a new straigter. (i have one but it works for freakin crap)

Brush your hair on each part 1000 times.

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for my sweet 16 im inviting 100 people and we are gonna party in a big party room at this hotel. afterwards we are swimming in the indoor pool for an hour..problem is on my invitation it invites everyone to come to the pool after, and a few of my friends think its a good idea to only invite a certain amount of ppl to the pool so it isnt crowded and it will be funner. Problem is the invitations are printed and ready to be handed out tomorro..i would have to redo all the invitations and only select my close friends to come..im worried people will be hurt and it will cause drama. what are your opinions? should i invite everyone, only a certain amount of people? my mom says not to "discriminate" and that everyone should go to the pool after. im stuck in the middle of my mom and my friends because both have valid points

o__o Can the pool handle 100 people? I think you should invite everyone but I think your friends are insecure about how they look in a bathing suit in front of people they don't know. And who says everyone is going to swim anyway? Maybe some kids won't want to swim.

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does anyone know where theres a place i can find fake belly rings and stuff?

Hot Topic? Claires?

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do most girls shave their pussys?

Well it depends on what type of girls. Girls who swim have to shave their pubic hair.

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I've never gone to a dance before. I am going to a dance party next weekend but I don't know how to dance. Don't say "ask one of your close friends" Reply..I rate..thanks

Take dancing lessons or ask one of your friends to teach you. You can also look at alot of music videos.

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My Bride's maids and I bought their dresses today. I fell in love with these dresses right when I saw them. I showed them to my father today and he said that he did not like them at all. I felt horrible once he told me because I like them so much. Now, I don't know whether to keep them or to get ones that my dad also likes. What do y'all think?

It's your wedding duh! He's your dad of course and his opinion is always something that needs to be considered but it is your wedding! But if you feel the need to please your dad..on your wedding, try to find a dress that everyone loves.

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I am 18yr old girl in my second year college.i was a victim of child marriage 4 years ago.my husband died in a road accident 2 years ago.but i have tried to be normal after that and happy with good friends until last month.my professors(3 of them) have started to misbehave badly to me passing objectionable comments.one of them even proposed me and said he was in deep love with me.i even went to the extent of complaining to the principal who warned all 3 of them severely.neither the pricipal nor the professors know about my past life till now.in between all this,i fell in love with my batchmate who refused my love for sure.my love is very well known to those professors too.

now im in my home town for my 6 months training.a week back i recieved a call from mr.x(one of those professors) who had proposed me and asked if i was a widow.i was shocked for a moment as to how he came to know about it but finally had to accept.after that his approach has totally changed.he says that my love was just a lie to avoid him,that i was flirt and he started to link several of my senoir boys with me..this made me burst with anger and i scolded him for having abused me and hung up the phone.later he started msging me using very bad language....

im really hurt and depressed about all that had happened.the worst thing is this particular professor will be handling my subjects when i return to college after six months.so im afraid if he will be a threat to my career in case i proceed with any further actions..my parents are not aware of any of these incidents..

please help me..im desperate

I think you should inform the dean and the police of this. I'm sorry this had to happen to someone like you.

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I have got a friend, David, and I like him more than a friend. I reeeeally like him. ALOT. I was windering, how can I get him to like me too? Oh yeah and he said that he likes one of my friends but he doesnt act like it, it doesnt look like he likes her. Is there any signals on how I can find out if he likes me more than a friend? How can I get him to like me more than a friend?

Time will tell dear child..And maybe David is a little shy and awkward that it gives off that he's not really interested in your friend.

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Hi, im 13, and i REALLY want my belly button pierced. Im not scared of the pain, because people say it doesnt hurt. But the problem is my mum. She says I cant have it. But i REAAALLY want to. Can i do it at home somehow? Please help me I want my mum to say yes, so I can have a belly button ring. Alot of my friends have it.

DO NOT DO IT AT HOME EVER! NEVER EVER! Show her how responsible you are and do a little more chores and stuff.

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I went to the Beauty Salon to get the tips of my hair cut off to make it look straighter, SHE CUT OF 2 INCHES! .. my hairs above my shoulders now and I hate it, any hair styles to cover it up some how??
I'll rate high!!! :)

..Maybe she cut it off so your hair will look straighter? I say you should layer it and flare it out a little and add some highlights or colors. Or you can get extensions.

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ok well, my friend, i really like him alot, but were like best friends, so i dont wanna mess that up. but anyway, last night i came home, and i wasnt at school yesterday. So i was online and he came on and usually i IM him first, and i was typing to him, but he IMed me first, and he was like... I MISSED YOU SO MUCH TODAY! and i was really surprised because i didnt think he would say that because i thought he was mad at me and i'd been thinking about it all day while i was away, and no matter what me and my friend were talking about his name always came out of my mouth. So anyway then we were talking and he was like, listen to this song i found today, and he made me listen to let me hold you by omarion and bowwow, and he was like, when i heard it i had to have you listen to it. And then i had to go and i was like, im gonna go, im dead tired. and he was like, go to bed, and that kinda surprised me because usually he's just like w/e bye. i know this sounds kinda gay, but does this mean anything?

No it just means he's caring. I think you over analyze it too much. But you never know.

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i just downloaded netscape 7.2 so i could go on launch.com but i need 7.1!! >:O i cant find it anywhere to download 7.1! anyother good websites to listen to music to though?

warez at warezclient.com

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ok, im caught between to guys & im currently with one of them. theyre friends-not too close but i feel like im kinda comming between them.
the first guy, my bf...well we have some communication issues. meaning we rarely talk & when we do its not for very long. its our first relationship, were both shy at times & he doesnt get out much (unlike me) he hasnt kissed me ever or gone on a date with me in a long time.
the second guy...i got him together with his ex.(she dumped him b/c she was into girls.) we take martial arts together & were together alot then he said he likes me. we talk online all the time even if he said he likes me b/c honestly, im attracted. i cant really say i am b/c im with his friend. he says a lot of sweet things too and since i have doubts about the 1st guy, i cant help but take it in positavly.
well yesterday he told me he wanted to kiss me after we talked for a really long time. its really weird cuz neither one of us agrees with cheating but for some reason, its almost impossible to avoid.
please help me! i dont wanna do anything stupid! thanks!

I don't think people should be in a relationship that is going nowhere becuz that is just a waste of time. And why should the second guy's ex care? She is into girls now.

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Ok. Just yesterday I got my driving permit, and I'm a little nervous about driving on the bigger roads. Afraid I'm going to forget to look for signs, miss turns, etc. Anyone got any ways I can just chill and do everything I've learned without /over/doing it? Or maybe I should just start small for awhile, drive around in college lots or my own neighbourhood?

~fellow Advicenator

Practice going around your neighborhood alot. And go to shops that the roads are familiar to you. You should practice in parking lots for your parell parking.

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Here’s the thing I’ve never been kissed (15/f), but there’s a guy I like so if I get a chance to kiss him I want to really impress him. And I don’t really even know the basics. I know many people say it’s good to just “go with the flow” and that it will happen naturally, but I’ve also heard many people talking about their first kiss and how bad it was and everything and how the other person didn’t like it at all. And I know it will really mater to him, because he is really hot (can get any girl he wants, but is not a player) and is a perfectionist, so if it goes wrong I will make a really bad impression and might never get a second chance. Plus he is two years older so I suppose he’s had a lot of experience. I really need someone to walk me trough everything. I am going for something that includes a French kiss, a kiss that he will remember in a good way that will sweep him off his feet.

But..you don't even know if he likes you back. And if it just happens that he feels the same way, why should be care how you kiss like? I would think it was pretty shallow. And once you have kiss, even if it is a bad one, doesn't mean it's gonna be the last.

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Hey. Today is my friend's b-day. He's turning 16, and we've been friends for about 12 or so years. (yeah, it's a lot lol) Well, I kind of don't know what to get him. I'm not sure what he likes. My friend and I have this suggestion. There is a pic of me and him when we were about 4, and since I have doubles, we were thinking about getting a nice picture frame to put it in. Is that a good idea? I'm pretty sure he's the kind of type who would think it's cute. He's kind of a ladies man lol. Do you have any other suggestions? Thanks.
x3 Erin

Get him something funny. I think your present is kinda cheesy but if he is a ladies man then he'll like anything you give him. Tho money is an always open options and him being 16 and all, I'm pretty sure he wants to buy something.

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