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party delema!!!


Question Posted Sunday May 15 2005, 9:36 pm

for my sweet 16 im inviting 100 people and we are gonna party in a big party room at this hotel. afterwards we are swimming in the indoor pool for an hour..problem is on my invitation it invites everyone to come to the pool after, and a few of my friends think its a good idea to only invite a certain amount of ppl to the pool so it isnt crowded and it will be funner. Problem is the invitations are printed and ready to be handed out tomorro..i would have to redo all the invitations and only select my close friends to come..im worried people will be hurt and it will cause drama. what are your opinions? should i invite everyone, only a certain amount of people? my mom says not to "discriminate" and that everyone should go to the pool after. im stuck in the middle of my mom and my friends because both have valid points

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iSLAND_iNTHE_SUNx0 answered Monday May 16 2005, 12:53 am:
I think you should just leave the invitations. I'm sure not everyone is going to swim anyways. Just make sure your close friends are able to get in first. If it starts getting crowded, I'm sure security will come down and stop more people from coming in. If people get mad, just tell them there was nothing YOU could do about it.
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Bob_the_Sword_Test_Dummy answered Sunday May 15 2005, 11:34 pm:
o__o Can the pool handle 100 people? I think you should invite everyone but I think your friends are insecure about how they look in a bathing suit in front of people they don't know. And who says everyone is going to swim anyway? Maybe some kids won't want to swim.

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russianspy1234 answered Sunday May 15 2005, 10:44 pm:
is the pool big enough to accomadate 100 people? if so then theres no dilema, invite everyone. if not, well then youre stuck and you should only invite a few best friends, the problem is when you start inviting one person out of a group of friends but not another. you should also only invite girls to it, that way no guys will be hurt. is the money the problem? because if your renting out a hotel pool i can assume youre rich (at least compared to me) but yeah it really would be better to invite everyone, and theres no gurantee that everyone iwll come.

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