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Hey all! I'm 15, almost 16 *August 5th* and I go to Utica High School. It's a decent school, but living in Michigan is a downer seeing as we have the most sporadict weather ever. But, I still love it. I wouldn't move if I had the chance. =) Anywho, I love Forensics, It's my biggest hobby I probably have. And no, it isn't CSI or any of that stuff, it's Competitive Speech, but not like debate. I do the drama portion of it. Haha. I also love to sing. It's my dream to grow up and sing for a band for be solo, far fetched, but I can dream dammit! I like anybody who can make me laugh, and hate people who are 'stuck up' and 'serious' all the time. People need to learn to let loose, you know? I'm also a Christian, because God is effin' cool. He's cooler than you, remember that. Also, highschoolers really need to remember : "Save yourself for the one God saved for you." There are so many sluts in my school, it isn't even funny. Rather sad if you ask me. Other than that, I'm a pretty normal teen.
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im 15 year old male.
okay i got a prob. I like this one gurl and she asked me to go to the movies with her. When i went to her housr to pick her up her friends were wit her. i kinda wanted to be alone wit her. well in the movies we were about to kiss wen her friend intterupted. 2 weeks later we go alone i try to kiss her but she shyly pulls away saying not here. I no she lkes me.
Wat do i do? WAt do u think hapened in between those times.
PLEASE ALOT OF PEOPLE ANSWER I NEED AS MUCH HELP AS I CAN GET
She may feel more comfortable with her friends around her. You need to give her time to prepare, and get ready for an 'alone with a guy' date. Some girls are uncomfortable with that. You need to get to know her more, and that fact that she said 'not here' when you kissed, probably sugests, that she isn't ready to kiss either. Just get to know her better, i'm sure she didn't change in the time inbetween. But, give her time to mature and get ready.
The best of luck, dear.
AskMegan
whenever anyone starts to kiss me i always freak out cause I don't know what to do and I pull away, what's wrong with me?
You're not ready to kiss. You have to be emotionally and phsically ready to endure a kiss, as simple as it seems, Yet, it can have a big impact on someone. You should wait it out, and see if you can feel comfortable kissing this person, you have to have the right person, or the kiss will be ackward. You're probably not ready to kiss, thats OK. Many people arn't. Heaven knows i'm not.
The Best of luck, dear.
AskMegan
One day me and my friends were hangin out and this gurl came up to me and smiled. WEll that day she hung out with us. The next day at lunch she sat by me and we talked. the next few weeks we got closer. And we started to kiss and go out. Well one of my friends likes her and i dont want to hurt him. To make matters worse i over heard him and her talking and she really seemed to like him.
Im confused should i bring my game up and not be friends or should i let him have her and still be friends. I dont want to give her up
Are you willing to lose your bestfriend, who you've probably longer than this girl, over 1 girl? I'm sure he'd be more hurt, if you left him, then she would, if you left her.
Thing is, you have to talk to this girl. Ask her who she likes-you- or your friend. It seems kinda odd, that she'd go after you, then go after your best friend. But, you never know, she could be really good friends with your bestfriend. You have to talk to her and ask her if she likes you, like that. And than ask you friend to ask her if she likes you friend like that. And if she says yes to both questions, than both of you should forget about her because thats kinda slutty, if ya ask me.
Just have good communication, and have a nice chat with this girl, and ask her what is going on.
The best of luck, dear.
AskMegan
my best friend and my ex boyfriend have done stuff before and they still like each other on and off. and thats the same for me and him, but i want to do stuff with him but i dont want my best friend to find out and get mad. should i do it or just forget about him?
What you should do, is not sneak behind your friends back, and do stuff with this guy, because if she finds out, that'll make your friendship look like trash. Respect her, she has feelings to.
Communicate. Talk to your friend, and ask her if she plans on doing any more 'stuff' with this guy. If she says no, he's fair game. If she says yes, then maybe it'd be best to find another guy.
Truth is, your friend will probably find out, and get mad, so maybe you should just forget about him all together. I mean, if he's your ex boyfriend, he probably isn't worth you and your friends relationship.
Best of luck, dear.
AskMegan
kay im 15 and kinda have gurl probs.
1) every time 1 tries to kiss me i shy away because im scared that a might do somthin wrong
2)im afraid to go on a date again because i might do somthing wrong.
3) i dont no y but there are alot of hot gurls in my area and im ntimidated by alot of them
PLease help me!
Before you start dating, you have to trust yourself. You have to belive that you can get a girl, and have some confidence!
Try to locate a girl, that you're sure you'll be able to make steady choices on, and maybe you won't end up in 'kissing' situations. Let the girl know, that you're shy-they like that-and that you're nervos.
The fact that hot girls intimidate you, is that you've no confidence for yourself. You need to understand that girls like confidence, if you go up to say-Amanda-and ask her for a bite to eat after school, with a big smile on your face, who knows? She might actually say yes!
Just have a lot of confidence for yourself, but not so much that you look concided.
Oh, and maybe to make yourself feel better, go on group dates, with an expierenced dater. Examine what he does, and get to know the girl better, so you're not uncomfortable to be alone with her.
Best of luck, dear.
AskMegan
Dear Askmeg.
I think my dad is gay.no really, I saw him with a teacher at my school my dad is the princapal.
my parents have been married for 24 yrs. I dont know what to do should i tell my mom?
This is a hard question, what did you see your father doing with the teacher? Maybe it was a misunderstanding? I think, telling your mother right now would be bad news-it could cause some problems that might be able to be avoided.
Talk with your father first. I think, the best way is to ask him if he loves mom, and if he still wants to be with her. I know it'll be hard to get a conversation up about homosexuals, but you'll have to do it eventually.
Talk to the teacher you saw him with-ask him if he thinks your dad is a good leader for the school. If the teacher does something to sugest that your father is more than friends with him, then maybe it is time to tell your mother.
Tell her of your suspitions. "I saw dad with a teacher today..*tell her what you saw* and ask her what she thinks. Then, she can have a talk with him, and you wont have to ask him if he is a homosexual.
The best luck to you and your family, dear.
AskMegan
all of my friends have sex now, im 14! and i dunno i can't ever have sex with anybody if they ever ask me, and i know many people are going to tell me to wait n stuff, but i love my boyfriend and i really want to have sex with him!! but i can't im too afraid, or im just uncomfortable w/ my body, how can i do it??! please gimme sum help!
That fact that you're to afraid, is a dead sign that you're not ready. Wait untill you're not afraid, then you'll know what to do, and be able to have sex. Don't do it because all your friends are, wait untill you're phisically and mentally ready.
I like the icon on your site..the Jesus one..do you know any sites that I can find christian icons? thanks
Yes, go to www.iconator.com and go to the search bar. Type in "Jesus" or "Christian" or something to that affect. Jesus will get you a lot of icons.
Good luck.
Me and my bf have been together since april but were close friends since june'03. My mum met him Sept'03. Everything was good. She liked him a lot. They would get on really well. Then in April I told her me and him were going out. Her attitude turned completely. She wont talk to him when he comes round. She says hes wrong for me and she says she can see straight thru him and tell that he has a bad character. They have argued. He wont come round anymore so Im usually not at home coz Im with him. She keeps saying 'I bet you're having sex.' Just like that, really spitefully. She keeps making comments. She says if I dont break it up she will. She says stuff about the country he is from even tho my dad is from that country. My dad gets on with him even tho my mum says it hurts him to see me with 'that boy'. My little brother doesnt like him coz my mum says that he makes me cry.
Anyway both my boyfriend and my mum say bad stuff about eachother. My boyfriend says he hates her and makes fun of her. All the stuff they are saying to me is hurting me inside because they are both ppl I care deeply for and are important to me. Its making me really unhappy. I havent really showed it to them. I have only metioned it to them once each. They both said stop feeling sorry for yourself. My mum says if youre so unhappy with him then break up with him. When I told my bf he said sort it out with her. I dont know what to do. Im really unhappy.
18/f/UK
What you need to do, is sit them down together, and have a talk. Ask you mother, to tell your boyfriend, what she thinks about him. And ask your boyfriend to say the same about your mother.
Then, when they're talking bad, say, "Okay, mom, why do you think my boyfriend is so bad? What has he done to be so bad" And then to your Boyfriend say "Okay, why do you think my mom is this" ect, ect.
Then, when you've gotten some answers out of them, tell them calmly that you're not going to let them screw up your judgement about the other person. Tell your mom, that if your boyfriend is so bad, you'll figure out yourself, and that she should respect your judgement.
Good luck, dear.
AskMegan
me and my boyfriend have been togeather for like 4months almost. and we have sex like EVERYDAY and i love it and all but i mean he thinks thats all i want..and sometimes i think it is to but i do love him a whole lot...but the thing is hes gota KID yes a KID. and my bf is only 17(IM 16) the girl it was wtih lives in a diff. town adn shes a hoe. but neways...im just scared..i dont wanan get pregante and the fact that he can get girls pregnate scares me...and u know hwat if the condom breaks or somthing cuz im not on BIRTH contorl yet..i will soon hopefully..but ya...i dunno..im just scared..what should i do!?!?! i love him tho!.
Simple. Don't have sex untill you are on birth control. And if you can't stop, make him wear 2 condoms.
I really dont know what category to put this under but anyway.... i started my period in July and my boobs aren't big! I mean i atleast want them to be a size B!! I am 13 years old! But do you think they will grow? **help**
P.S.-I rate high! ;)
They'll grow darlin. Thats about the time mine started growing, and I'm a 36C now!
You see, I used to go down to my cousins house and I would stay the night there because one of his friends moved in with him because his mom is a crazy bitch, so he was like and adopted cousin. But now my cousin still lives at home and my adopted cousin moved out with his girlfriend, who is really nice and all, but now i barely see him. I used to be able to call him on my cell phone because he had a cell phone, and my home phone cant get long distance, BUT NOW my damn phone is turned off because my dad had a cell phone and he used his ALOT so the bill was like $400 so now he has to pay this, or i cant call him, so now i feel bad about not calling him, or even going down there. I cant go down there becaue of my knee sugery i had recentally. I just love my adopted family members so much and now i cant even see them or talk to them....WHAT SHOUD I DO
This is going to be a short answer, because i'm at school, but I think msybe you could call him on a different phone? Like your friends phone or something?
Thats all I could think of, or help your dad raise the money to get his phone fixed.
hey ive never been kissed, but at my friends party we're playing 7 minutes in heaven. i really wanna get my first kiss from the guy i like (whos invited, but has a g/f whos not) so i dunno what to do!! if u could help i rate =)
Thats really bad if you kiss/makeout with someone who already has a girlfriend. It could cause him to feel guilty, and maybe get into trouble with his girl, which is totally mean.
You should respect the fact that he has a girlfriend, and don't kiss him.
AskMegan
y do they call a red wing a red wing((its not a wing?)) i get the red part but i dont get the wing part?? plzz tell me if u know((im so0o confused))
If you're talking the team, From Detroit Michigan, if you look, it IS wing.
We Just Moved Into A New House And We Bought It. So My Mom Said I Can Paint And Decorate My Room However I want. I Dont Know What I Should Paint It Though. My Favorite Colors Are Pink And Purple. And I Love The Playboy bunny. Does Anyone Know Where I Could Get Playboy bunny stuff? Or Pink Stuff For Your Room? Thanks.
You should pain one wall pink, then the other purple, then the other pink, then the other purple. And in the wall of your choice, paint a huge playboy bunny. I don't know if this store is avalible where you live, but try Spencers. That store has tons, and Claires, The Icing, Hot Topic, search stores that sell things that rang from emo-punk-goth and semi-prep.
Good Luck Bunny!!
AskMegan
I met this guy I really like at a football game this past Friday.. Well.. he called me Sunday and asked me out. Since he asked me out.. we talk on the phone for HOURS at a time. I mean like 3 and 4 hours for each call.
Im really starting to like him ALOT! Is it possible to fall in love with someone u barely know?
Yes, it's possible. It depends on your feelings for the person.
Don't take this the wrong way, but it may just be a 'highschool relationship' but, you never know.
It depends on if you could actually see yourself with this guy for the rest of your life. You cannot be sure it is love yet-wait it out. Get to know him better, and see how he really is when he opens up to you.
Example, he might just be acting a certian way right now, to get you to like him. When you know him better, certian things he can't hold back will spill out. He'll become who he really is, and you may not like that.
I don't think you actually love him, it's probably just a crush. Just get to know this guy better, and maybe when you're a little older, you'll truly understand if it's love-or lust.
Hey, I cant find the name to this song, whats the name and the artist. The lyric i know is: All i can say is that my life is pretty plain, i like to watch the puddles gather rain.
Thanks!
"All I can say is that my life is pretty plain
I like watching the puddles gather rain
And all I can do is just pour some tea for two
And speak my point of view
But It's not sane, It's not sane
I just want someone to say to me.
I'll always be there when u wake.
Ya know I'd like to keep my cheeks dry today
So stay with me and I'll have it made.
And I don't understand why I sleep all day
And I start to complain that there's no rain
And all I can do is read a book to stay awake
It rips my life away, but it's a great escape...escape...escape
All I can say is that my life is pretty plain
Ya don't like my point of view
Ya think that I'm insane
It's not sane... It's not sane
I just want someone to say to me.
I'll always be there when you wake
Ya know I'd like to keep my cheeks dry today
So stay with me and I'll have it made.
End"
"No Rain" - Blind Melon
How far can a dog run into the woods?
Halfway. After that he would be running out of the woods.
lol
I knew that! Why'd ya have to give the answer!! Lmao!! You better be giving 5's!!
Lmao
ok @ school like everybody wheres makeup and stuff and i want to too. not just because everybody is wearing it but because i feel ugly. but i dont know anythin about it!!! so can you tell me whats the best kind of like foundation or powder?! what is pressed powder?! and dosent makeup wash off in the rain?! thank you so much and i rate really good if that matters to you! thanks.
Pressed powder, is like a little compact with this smooth makeup in it. It's not cream, it's soft, powder, put it wont get anywhere if you turn it upside down.
Since you're a beginner, i'd go with a simple cream foundation, and a pressed powder to apply over the cream (after it's on your face) Pick a good brand of make-up like cover girl.
Dont use mascara untill someone shows you how, it can hurt!
Eyeliner is key. You apply it to the very edge of the bottom lid of your eye. It's awesome.
Use light colors at first, to get used to it. Like a nice light pink, and then apply some clear lip gloss over it.
Blush, use a nice soft color that contrasts to your skin.
Eyeshadow, creame or powder, whichever works for you. White is very poular, but use something to contrast with your outfit.
Good luck!
AskMegan
Haha, you got that story about the rubber duck off an e bay thing how it was possessed. I know cause I'm just as big as a loser and I read it as well.
=)
Yeah! Haha I did!!