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My name`s Amy, you probably know me as naimee. I`m sixteen years young, I`m a junior, & I live in San Antonio, Texas. =]
I hate thirteen year olds who think they`re in love & ready to have sex. I hate people who steal my advice and think they`re cool, you`re not.
I know a lot about myspace/xanga. [HTML] I know tons about weight loss and computer stuff.
If you ask for my advice, I`ll try my best to help you, and if I can`t give you the best advice ever, I`ll give you someone awesome to askkk!
I`m never on AIM, but when I am, my SN is: naInErZzZ.
Thanks yall!
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I have an appointment with Planned Parenthood today for birth control without a pelvic exam. If I'm almost 20 and have a decent income, how much should I expect to pay today? Also, is there anything I should bring with me? Anything I should expect at my appointment? Thank you. (link)
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HI!
You don't need to take anything. Just make sure you tell the truth about your sexual experiences & stuff. I'm 16, and when I went to planned parenthood,
I had to pay $52:
$17: The actual pill itself.
$35: For the consultation!
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so my ex boyfriend and i still flirt, and talk about having sex, but we are joking because i have a new boyfriend and I am happy, but do u guys have any flirty things that i could say. Or a way to jokingly hint sex?
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That's just not right. I mean, I don't think you should be with your current boyfriend if your flirting with your ex behind his back. That's just unfair.
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Last night my boyfriend of 7 months broke up with me. I have had other boyfriends before and the breaking up wasnt so bad. But I wasnt ready for this one. I cried for like 3 hours straight on the phone with my best friend. I finally got to sleep around 2 oclock. I am having such a hard time...I dont know what to do . I really loved him and obviously its too late to get him back now.. so please dont suggest that. What can I do to feel better. It's so horrible.. nothing this bad has ever happened to me. I'm a happy-go-lucky kind of person what will people think when I'm moping around school on monday ???
I cant eat, i cant sleep and later today I have to sit through a broadway play with my mother. I'm going to die...HE was so wonderfull..
OMG HELP! (link)
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My boyfriend of 7 months just broke up with me like a month ago, as well. I understand EXACTLY what you're going through. & Of course I'm not going to tell you to get back with him. I don't know if you're still talking to him. But, if you are, you should definitely stop doing that first off. The problem I made was I kept talking to my boyfriend after he broke up with me, for like 3 weeks. Then a week ago, I just realized, I don't need him. He obviously didn't need me, so running back to him about all my problems isn't going to help any. You can find qualities in him that you loved, in other people. Like your best friend. The weekend may suck because you know, you don't have him around and all. And, you're laying around, watching tv, playing on the computer when you could be hanging out with him, so of course he'll be on your mind all day. But, when you go to school on Monday, and your hanging out with your friends, and when your in class, he'll probably be in the back of your mind. It'll take time, definitely. I mean, my ex boyfriend broke up with me a month ago, and to this day, I'm always wondering things I could've done different.
Seriously, though. Your feelings for him will soon deteriorate, you may not want that to happen right now. But, it'll be for the best. If you ever feel like calling him, or something - talk to anyone but him. You'll eventually find someone who will make you feel better. Try talking to more guys. That always helps me, because I know that if a guys there for me, then someone atleast cares. You know? Take care & things will get better, I promise.
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i did something totally embarassing on friday that makes me never want to go to school againn. okay well we were reading some boring paper thing in science and it was about organisms and how they pollute water or something like that, i don't know. well my teacher passed out a worksheet and we had to write down the answers to the questions from the text, and by mistake (i wasnt paying attention) i wrote down "orgasm" instead of "organism". when my teacher was correcting the papers and she came to mine, she just literally burst out laughing and that freaking asshole TOLD THE CLASS that i wrote that down. i died of embarassment, seriously.. i cant even face that class anymore. what can i do?!!?!?!?! pleasee helppp. thankk you. (link)
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That was totally wrong of your TEACHER. She should've never done something like that. It's just not right. I mean, I could've understood it if if maybe your classmates were grading your paper & told everybody because some kids are immature like that. But, a teacher? NO NO! That's not right. You need to tell her she was in the wrong, and now you can't even face that class without being COMPLETELY embarassed. You have to act like you don't care. Pretend you did it on purpose or just pretend like you don't care. If anyone says anything to you, just laugh at it. It'll be more like a joke rather then it actually happening as a negative thing.
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Okay, a few questions here about tanning. If you go to a tanning PLACE.. then.. okay.. lol here:
[1] What do you wear?
[2] Do you go in a room alone?
[3] Do you lay down in a closed thing or what?
[4] Will other people see you?
[5] About how much does it cost?
[6] Are there any age limits? (link)
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Hey. Ahh, tanning is so amazing.
[1] I personally wear nothing except the little sticker heart they have. I think it's better to wear nothing because if you wear your bathing suit you'll have major tanlines & that's just no fun. You won't get a disease from a tanning bed, that's why most people wear suits when they go in there.
[2] Yeah. You go in the room alone.
[3] Well, they have the ones that you stand up in too, depending on which one you choose. The tanning beds don't actually CLOSE. The top comes down, but it's not like hard to come out of you know. All you have to do is push open & you're out.
[4] Other people won't see you.
[5] Some places go day-by-day. Which is you get tokens, and you put them in the tanning machine on which ever day you decide to go. For one token, it's a dollar. Other places you have to pay monthly. I go to Tanfastic. I believe it's only in Texas. But it costs $40 a month. It also depends on what beds. Because, they'll have the beds that don't get so hot, up to the beds that get EXTREMELY hot. They'll give you all of this information when you actually go & see the salon.
[6] This also depends. Most places will need parental permission if you're under the age of 18. Some places don't though.
Call the place, so you'll have a better idea of what they want & what not. Have fun.
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i have a few cuts/little scabs above my lip.
ive had them since yesterday (monday) and its only been a day.
ive been putting some neosporin on them.
how long do you think it would take for them to heal?
its embarrasing lol. =/ (link)
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Yeah, I'd give them AT MAX a week. But, the best way to get rid of them is not to do ANYTHING. Maybe wash your face with soap & put moisturizer everywhere except over/on the scabs. The scabs need to do their work, and the best way for them to do it is to be COMPLETELY DRY! If you don't mess with it at all, it'll be gone faster then you can even imagine.
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do they ask you if you masturbate at the gynocologist? (link)
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No.
& even if they did, which they wouldn't you could lie & say no, because they can't tell anyways.
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is it wrong to kiss a friend if they know it means nothing and that its just for fun? like hooking up at a party. i know alot of people do it but is it considered slutty or just a teenager-like thing to do? (link)
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There's absolutely nothing wrong with that. The only people who would think it's a "sluttish" thing to do, is people who don't get any lovin'. :]
I like kissing friends. It's really different & has a different feeling rather then kissing like a significant other. I'm pretty sure you know what I mean. :]
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friend is depressed.
help? (link)
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The only thing you can do for your depressed friend is to be there for him/her 24/7. The reason most people are depressed is because they're unable to share their feelings with anybody. Reassure them that you'll be there for them no matter what. Tell them if they ever need to talk you'll always be available. Listen to everything they say, even if it bores you have to death. Just so you know what to refer back to if they have more problems, you know? :]
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what does sex with no strings attached mean? and please don't give me a link...
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It means that, you have sex with someone, but you aren't in a serious relationship, or you don't want to be in a serious relationship with them. Basically like friends with benefits. :]
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hi, well im 15, and male. im going to do work experience in may, which is organised by the school, and i might have to go for an interview. im probabaly going to get a resterant. So, what do i wear? should i remain casual, or smart? because im only 15, do i need to go there will a full blown suit, cufflinks and all? thanks in advance (link)
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Haha. Well, this is kinda different because I'm a girl. But, I had an interview at Six Flags, for like a games team member job. Not like an important high level job or anything. I went to be interviewed and I wore like a dress, to look nice & everything. & I felt SO out of place. I ended up getting the job and everything. But everyone else that was getting interviewed was just dressed in jeans and a nice shirt.
Since you're 15, I would definitely suggest that you don't dress in anything a 15 year old wouldn't wear on a regular basis. Like, if I were you, I'd wear a nice pair of jeans, and a cute button up vertical striped dress shirt with nice shoes. You'll be dressed casual, and you'll look very smart.
Good luck & I hope you get the job. =]
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Hey everyone. I've decided I'm ready to have sex; however, the guy I desire to do it with doesn't want to use a condom and he wants me to go on birth control.
1. Can I get birth control at 16 without my parents knowing?
2. If I was put on birth control and we had sex without condoms and he ejaculated inside of me...is it at all possible to get pregnant?
3. Is it possible to get pregnant from swallowing sperm?
4. Do condoms protect against STDs? (link)
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Wow. Well, either way you should use two methods of contraception. The pill does not completely prevent you from getting pregnant. So, without a condom, you`re putting yourself more at risk just being on the birth control pill. Maybe you should tell this guy that, and ask him if he`s ready to be a dad, if he says no, then tell him he needs to use a condom.
1. Yes, you can get the birth control pill without your parents knowing. I suggest you do this by going to like a Planned Parenthood. If you go to your regular doctor, the pill will show up on your insurance & they would find out.
2. Yes, it is VERY possible.
3. No, you can not get pregnant from swallowing sperm.
4. Yes. =]
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My friend was too embarassed to ask herself so she asked me to ask for her. She had unprotected sex a week or so ago and she's supposeed to get her period soon. how long does it take until you know you're pregnant? will you know by her next period (which is in like 4 days or so) or will she still get her period and miss the next one? (link)
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Well, in four days - if she doesn`t get her period. She should get a pregnancy test. & Test herself somewhere around the 15th of Jan. She won`t get a period anymore if she`s pregnant.
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I'd rather have guys anwser this.
but
If you call a guy beautiful or gorgeous, is it kinda weird for them or something like that.
But would they rather be called handsome or cute
or just all of it is fine.
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I`m a girl.
I call all of my guy friends beautiful. & Also, my boyfriend. It`s just a nice word. It can work for both sexes. Although you wouldn`t hear a guy calling a girl handsome. Beautiful is like unisex. None of my guy friends think it`s weird. I always see them in the hall & say, "hiii beautiful!" And like, it`s not like people look at me weird because of it. =] They like it.
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My friend Mimi (size 6, but looks like a 4) went to a flea market and a woman was trying to sell her jeans. The vendor says to Mimi in a sheepish voice “I have jeans I am selling. You are a size 10, my daughter is a size 10.” That night when Mimi went home she told her friends what the vendor said and her friends said to her: “The vendor just wants to sell her jeans, she would say the same thing to a size 2.” My question: Do you agree with Mimis friends? (link)
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I read the feedback you gave to queenhearts & I`d just like to point out, that`s totally rude. You`re asking for someone`s opinion on your stupid problem that NO ONE in their right mind would care about. Then you tell her she`s DEFINITELY WRONG? You can`t do that. That`s physically impossible for someone to be "definitely wrong" when they`re giving their opinions.
You`re stupid.
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how do u grind with 13 year old catholic girls when ure 13 (link)
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WHAT!?!!?
Go up to her & grind her.
If you have a hard time doing it, then don`t do it. Maybe you should get to know these girls before hand, and then you might feel more comfortable with them? Hell, Idk.
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well i like this boy in my class and he said he liked me so i told him that i like him too and then i was sick for a week and the day i go back to school all my friends run up to me and tell me that he told "B" he liked her so i asked him wat was up and he said he likes us BOTH so out of jealousy i've been rude to her and yesterday he asked if i still liked him (even though he still likes "B")and i blurted out NO!! PLEASE HELP AND THANX
love,
massie girl♥ (link)
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OK.
I`m sorry. But that was SO confusing.
Out of jealousy, you shouldn`t be rude to anyone. That just goes to show how immature you are. You aren`t even mature enough to be in a relationship with anyone just yet. No one can tell you his feelings. The only person that can, is him. So ask him for your damn self.
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I really like this guy and have for going on 2 years now. We've known each other for a while but we didn't really get to be friends until 3 years ago. He was in the hospital and I and another friend of ours went to visit him, but he was in surgery so we just left a note and our present for him with the nurse. Today my friend Lisa told me that when she saw him this afternoon, he told her he was glad he was in surgery when we came. Am I wrong to be completely offended by that? (link)
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He might`ve meant it like, he probably didn`t want yall to see him looking like crap or something. Unless he meant it in the way you`re taking it, then of course you have every right to be offended by that. He probably was just making a joke to cheer himself up, don`t be mad or anything just yet. Find out why he said what he did & you`ll understand a lot better. =]
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Ok...I'm 15/F and I was wondering if it would be a good idea to tell my mom that I want to go on birth control just in case something happens between me and my boyfriend. Or should I go on it when I am positive that something is going to happen? And do you think it's ok for a 15 year old girl to lose her virginity or do you think I am too young? Thank you. (link)
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I think that whenever you know your relationship WON`T change is when you should begin having sex. There`s no set age. You can`t go into having sex saying, "after this I`m going to love you.." because you should already love them. You know?
I think it`s a very mature decision of you to decide to go on the birth control pill. I`m sure your mother will think so as well. You should definitely do this now! If you think that there is any sort of possibility & you really LOVE your boyfriend, you should do it ASAP. It takes a while for the pill to kick in as well, so you`ll have a headstart. =]
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im 14 i lost my fist born over the summer and im pregnant again it broke my heart when my daughter died i refuse to get an abortion what can i do (link)
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Just hope everything will be fine. That`s all you can do. Why do you refuse to have an abortion? You`re 14, I don`t think you`re capable of making a decision like that. Haha.
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