He didn't actually go IN you, right? From what I got out of that, it only seems like he let them touch or something like that. Everything's fine just as long as he didn't cum inside of you. If he did, no matter how short of a session it was, you could be pregnant.
But modern science is a genius, so no worries. If, indeed, you are pregnant, there's a couple of pills you can get to stop pregnancy. Yes, they're like, $200, but you should get your boyfriend to help you out. After all, it'd be half his fault.
But it seems like no interaction was made, so I doubt that you are pregnant.

If you don't want it spreading, then is it really worth it? Like, you know it's going to spread somehow. And then what will you do after it does. Deny it? What will he think?
I think that you should wait to get a real boyfriend. Maybe then you won't be so afraid of spreading news.

Of course. That white/clear stuff that comes out...yeah, that ain't cotton candy, haha.

If you almost gagged, then you should definatly stop for now. Tell your boyfriend that your uncomfortable with giving him head for now. Do anything to stop. You can't be afraid to let your boyfriend know what's happening. Because if you do do it until you gag, chances are you're gunna throw up. And if you're still giving him head while you're throwing up, well...lets not get into details. It just really won't be good. If your boyfriend really respects you, then he'll understand why you have to stop for now.
But which would you rather do, stop when you start to gag, and feel a bit embarrassed (which will go away)? Or would you want to keep doing it to pleasure him, and then vomit on his you-know-what, and then him getting REALLY upset (and I mean really)?
Just say something. If he's worth keeping, then he won't be upset.

Does it really matter what he's like around everyone else? You're not everyone else. Just as long as he's not an asshole to you, it should be good. I mean, if you love him, it really shouldn't matter to you what everyone else thinks about him, it only matters what you think about him. If you think that he's a great guy, then totally go for it. Some day you're gunna realize that the only one who's thoughts should really matter are your own.
And on the Bob issue, just tell him that you'd rather be his friend. Simple as that!

CVS, huh? Interesting...
So he was having a bad day. People are allowed to have them every now and then. You shouldn't take it to any offence. And like you said, you're a cute dork. EVERYBODY loves cute dorks, so why would he be any different?
But if it was because he heard you asking about him, and he decided not to be friendly, that's just stupid. And bratty. Would you really want to keep wasting your time on someone who judges you after having a single conversation with you?
That's probably not the situation, but I say you try to find out. Don't go in the VERY next day, though, wait a little so he has time to cool off if he did, in fact, have a bad day. And if he still seems a little pissy, then he's not worth it. Move on and find a guy who won't judge you by just one conversation.

Alright, depending on what kind of system you have (AOL, AIM, MSN?), it would come out differently. I have AIM, so it would probably only work for that, but we can try anyway...
Okay, first copy the URL. Then you can simply paste that into your profile. Simple as that.
But if you wanna make it a bit cooler, then you go into "Edit Profile" and there should be alittle button that says "Link". When you press that, a little box should come up with 2 spaces to type. The first space to type should say "Type URL" (that's where you paste your URL). The second typing space should say "Hyperlink Text". All you type in there is what you want to show up on your profile. Like, if you want it to say "Click here for some great advice", that's what you type.
There might not be enough space on your profile, so you might havta delete some of the things already on there.
Hope it works for you!

So the guy that used to like you and gave you all of his attention now has a girlfriend and you're starting to like him? That would be a great mind game.
I think I know why you like him. It's because he has a girlfriend!
1) When he used to hint that he still liked you, I'm guessing that he gave you a lot of attention. Well, now that he has a girlfriend, she's the one getting all of the attention, and you're missing it.
2) The OLDEST rule in the book. We want what we cannot have. Because he now has a girlfriend, you can't have him. Simple as that.
It's perfectly normal. But trust me, if he still likes you, and dumps his girlfriend for you, you probably won't feel the same for him. Life's little emotions are weird like that, but all we can do is roll with them.

The Dashboard Confessional, Thrice, and Get Up Kids concert was pretty insane, so you might want to try to see one of those bands live.
Also the Linkin Park concert is coming up. It's called "Projek Revloution" or something. I'm not really a huge Linkin Park fan, sorry. But yeah, that sounds liek it's gunna be big.
I would say Warped, but I mean, you might get a better chance at actually SEEING the bands if you go to their concert, not the Warped Tour.
Hope I helped!

Every girl probably has a different opinion about that. I knew one of my ex's for about 4 days before I started dating him, and I fell completely in love with him. I think that you should try to get to know the girl some, just to have stuff to talk about and such. But I don't think that you should try so hard at it that it becomes this steel-walled friendship. Because if you like this girl, and want to date her, then she'll probbaly say that she respects the great friendship you 2 share. So I think it's better to learn something new everyday.

Middle school years are great. You meet a ton of new people, you get a bigger atmosphere, and you try to be smarter, haha.
You should go out and hang out with some new people. After, what's life without meeting new faces? If your best friends get jealous or get mad at you for having new friends, then you have to ask yourself if they're really good friends. A good friend would be open for you to meet new people. Just imagine, if you get a new boyfriend, and you want to hang out with him a lot, would they get mad?
A real bestfriend should be able to understand that you want to open your horizons to people.

Bases? You mean, the physical bases? Lets see, this may be debated by others, but by my beliefs they are:
First Base--Kissing, tounge action, that whole thing
Second Base--Wondering of the hands,if you get what I'm saying
Third Base--Oral. If you don't know what it is, please don't ask me, because I really don't feel like describing it.
Home--Sex. Plain and Simple.

Please describe the question a bit more next time. It'd be appriciated.

Ah, the old "Best friend but more" situation. Gotta hate that, haha. That is quite possibly one of the THE oldest relationship problems. But it all works out for the best, don't worry.
Now, according to you, you know this girl like the back of your palm, or something close to it. But, what that is saying to me is that you 2 are great friends (And if not, then that's a tad bit weird, haha). Are you really willing to give up that good of a friendship if something goes wrong? That's the one thing that I ALWAYS question myself on before dating someone. Sometimes the best way to go in a relationship is being friends. Nothing's better than a great best friend.
But, you can't really make her "realize" this kind of thing. Maybe you should start trying to have some of the same things in common with her. Find what what she likes. Music, Movies, Sports, anything. Having something that you both can talk about is always a plus, and would probably open up some doors for you a bit.
But sweetie, you cannot force feelings! (I will never get tired of saying that, haha) If she doesn't think of you like that, then just let it be. Like I said before, it sounds liek you guys have a great friendship, and in the end, friends are the ones by your side, not girlfriends/boyfriends.

The one thing about the heart is that it blurrs things up sometimes. You're not shy; no one is. Some people are just more unsure of themselves than others.
Try to sit next to her. It's not like you're gunna suddenly grope her, right? It's just a place to sit. She can't really deny you a place to sit. That's not civil, haha.
Why would you get caught up in your words? Just be yourself, act like the way you did before you had feelings for her. Tell some jokes, bring up some memories, just be calm. Nothing bad ever happened from talking to someone. Lightening won't strike you, you won't have 7 years bad luck (despite what some peopel say).
Good luck!

You definatly shouldn't let him treat you like that. That is such an unhealthy thing to do, you shouldn't be putting yourself through that kind of hell. I say you tell him off. Tell him exactly what you told us.
Why do you keep saying yes? I don't think it's because you're weak or under his spell. You may be a relationship addict. That is somewhat of a bad thing, it means that you depend on someone else to make you happy, and therefore, always go back to the same old boyfriend, even if he is a jerk.
But stand your ground. You can't let yourself be controlled by someone who doesn't deserve you.

Is this the same girl I told earlier today to play hard to get? If so, I'm really sorry I didn't specify how to.
To play hard to get, you have to get your mind set on pretending. Even if you REALLY want him back, act like you don't. Act like you're always thinking of another guy, and even throw some guys name in a conversation at some point. Act like you couldn't care less if he wanted you back, that you're completely over him. That should get him super jealous and rearing to go.

Woa, slow down Buckaroo. You're going a million miles an hour and I'm only going 50, haha.
Okay, we'll handle one issue at a time, seeing as though there are like, 3 in that tiny paragraph.
The telephone. It's not a big deal. Trust me, a lot of people are bad at talking on the phone. I, for one, am. I actually don't talk on the phone, I just sit there nodding my head until the person says bye, haha. Blame the system, man! The AIM system. People are getting so sucked into talking over the internet, they've totally forgotten about the phone or writing letters. But trust me, the phone is no problem. It's just like talking to her when she's standing right infront of you.
You're doing the exact same thing that can cause pimples and depression. Stress! You're stressing out about what's going to happen if you and this girl break up, when you haven't even asked her out yet! That can't be healthy. Live life one day at a time. If she says yes to your question, then you shouldn't really be thinking about what's possibly going to happen if things don't work out. Care about the time you spend with her. But if she says no, then don't stress over it (See? That word's bad!). Yes, you will be a little disappointed in her answer, but the joyous thing about the world is that there are SO many more people out there. So you take some time to mourne over her, then move on.
And the friendship problem. If she was ever a real friend to begin with, then she'll STILL be your friend, so don't worry about it.
You can't force feelings, sweetie. Trust me, I've tried so many times. I just hope it all works out for you.

There's really no way of breaking up with someone without hurting them if they really like you. It's just one of those things where someone's gotta get hurt. But the most harmless way that I can think of is just saying something like, "It was great hanging out with you, but I just don't think we have enough in common to carry on this relationship." And always say that you still want to be friends, even if you don't mean it, because that always lightens the blow.

There's always gunna be those sudden turns in life where you have to make a choice. There's either the dull side, or the risky side. Now, the choice won't really mean anything unless you take a risk. Risks are what makes the world go 'round.
Do you like this girl? Do you have fun with her? If so, then hell, sure, good luck to ya! But you always have to consider her feelings as well. I'm not saying not to act on your feelings, but if, by chance, she doesn't feel the same, you can't hold it against anyone. You can't have a grudge, can't be mad, none of that 5th grade stuff. That would only spoil whatever you guys had to begin with. And no one likes losing what they had in the beginning, trust me.
So my advice is to go for it, if she feels the same, great! Have a merry life together. But if she doesn't, don't go locco. Just pack up and move on.
This brilliant answer is brought to you by Risks:
"There's nothing better than a good risk"

Well, was he the one to bring up the idea of hanging out soon? If so, then he must really want to see you. Maybe he's just trying to be nice and try to be your friend, so don't push anything when you guys do hang out. Actually, try to do the opposite. Play a little hard to get. Because the one thing that guys want more than anything is the one thing they can't have.
But yeah, I think you have a pretty good chance of getting back with him. You guys have a history together, and history is always a plus.

So, I decided to start this up again after having it idlized for over 2 years. I would have made a new site, except I really like the name that I had. So yeah. Here I am now. A.Good.Lie is back.


I'm a cosmetology major. I love art. And music. And..yeah...

I'll update this later.

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