How do u make a girl relize that u be a good boy friend for her. I'm a person whos there for her and i like her in the past and she knows this. Our relationship is shaky. We were friends long ago, then she didn't talk to me for awhile. She tells me alot and tell her aboout my life. We know a lot about each other, well atleast i think we do. we share the same circle of friends and we see each other a couple of times of month or so. Most of our friendship is online. But i like it to be more....
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? A.Good.Lie answered Tuesday July 27 2004, 10:27 pm: Ah, the old "Best friend but more" situation. Gotta hate that, haha. That is quite possibly one of the THE oldest relationship problems. But it all works out for the best, don't worry.
Now, according to you, you know this girl like the back of your palm, or something close to it. But, what that is saying to me is that you 2 are great friends (And if not, then that's a tad bit weird, haha). Are you really willing to give up that good of a friendship if something goes wrong? That's the one thing that I ALWAYS question myself on before dating someone. Sometimes the best way to go in a relationship is being friends. Nothing's better than a great best friend.
But, you can't really make her "realize" this kind of thing. Maybe you should start trying to have some of the same things in common with her. Find what what she likes. Music, Movies, Sports, anything. Having something that you both can talk about is always a plus, and would probably open up some doors for you a bit.
But sweetie, you cannot force feelings! (I will never get tired of saying that, haha) If she doesn't think of you like that, then just let it be. Like I said before, it sounds liek you guys have a great friendship, and in the end, friends are the ones by your side, not girlfriends/boyfriends.
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