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i wanna ask this girl out tomorrow but i am afraid she is going to say no...but im going to b in norhtcarolina for a week and a half so the only way im going to b able to keep in contact with her is to talk to her on the phone...and im not a good talker on the phone...but i love this girl and i wanna go out with her...but if she says no then i understand but i am going to b a little sad...like if she says yes this can b a birthday present...if we break up which i hope doesnt happen...but if it does then i dont wanna loose the friendship i have her...like maybe if we break up we can b friends that hang out a lot and then if we like eachother...which i love her and always will...then maybe we can give it another shot...i don wann loose her friendship but i wana go out with her...wat should i do?
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Woa, slow down Buckaroo. You're going a million miles an hour and I'm only going 50, haha.
Okay, we'll handle one issue at a time, seeing as though there are like, 3 in that tiny paragraph.
The telephone. It's not a big deal. Trust me, a lot of people are bad at talking on the phone. I, for one, am. I actually don't talk on the phone, I just sit there nodding my head until the person says bye, haha. Blame the system, man! The AIM system. People are getting so sucked into talking over the internet, they've totally forgotten about the phone or writing letters. But trust me, the phone is no problem. It's just like talking to her when she's standing right infront of you.
You're doing the exact same thing that can cause pimples and depression. Stress! You're stressing out about what's going to happen if you and this girl break up, when you haven't even asked her out yet! That can't be healthy. Live life one day at a time. If she says yes to your question, then you shouldn't really be thinking about what's possibly going to happen if things don't work out. Care about the time you spend with her. But if she says no, then don't stress over it (See? That word's bad!). Yes, you will be a little disappointed in her answer, but the joyous thing about the world is that there are SO many more people out there. So you take some time to mourne over her, then move on.
And the friendship problem. If she was ever a real friend to begin with, then she'll STILL be your friend, so don't worry about it.
You can't force feelings, sweetie. Trust me, I've tried so many times. I just hope it all works out for you.
<3
~A.Good.Lie~
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