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hey, does anyone know where i can talk to any austrailans aged 16-19? friend making websites etc would be helpful :)
thanks lucee xx
ps will rate and give comments xx

myspace! you can type what you're searching for, and for where they live type in austrailia.

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k im pretty athletic i play basketball, soccer, softball and i dance - but like i always feel fat - my stomach is sorta flat - but my lower stomach is kinda out there anyone know anything to make my stomach flat??

do about 200 situps a day. i know it seems hard, but you'll get the hang of it and all that fat will be gone.

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i'm 13yrs.old and a girl. is it bad to feel.... well happy if a guy makes comments about your boobs and butt or touches it?

no! it's a good thing, it's a compliment!!

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someone, anyone tell me what this guy thinks. i love him, and i can read what he says. but im wondering if theres somthing 'inbetween the lines'? help, ill rate & all that jazzzz < 33

me: will you go out w. me?
him: no
me: whatt, why?
him: complicatedd
me: just dime
him: i hate you. END
me: what
him: that was SUCH a joke
him: tard
me: but..
me: but i like love you
him: so suck it
him: bye
him signed off at 5:51:56 PM.
him signed on at 5:53:27 PM.
him: so to set this straight, benny dared me, i dont like you, i like jenna, ask anyone, get out of my face and stopo being such a clingy little 4 year old
him: so stop following me, and stop obsessing over me, just stop, youre WEIRD.
me: what
just too radical: want me to spell it? W-E-I-R-D
me: fine w.e
him: i know you care
him: youre crying arent you
me: s what if i am
him: thats so sad
me: really?
him: i mean sad as in loser as in, pathetic puppy
me: as in suck it
him signed off at 5:56:57 PM.

he obviously does not like you. it's alright though, because hes a jerk!! find a better man, hun.

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I might make out for the first time tommorrow, and I'm really nervous. I need help. Any tip would help.
thanks.

http://www.theromantic.com/kissing/frenchkiss.htm

good luck. it's no big thing. = )

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"If a stopped clock suddenly chimes, there will be a death in the family"
It happened to me 2 times. I don't know...
Do you have any experiences like that?
Or do people make them up?

well did anyone die? i don't think it's real, some coincedences but not on purpose. people just make things up when something weird happens.

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i love downloading ringtones... what are some good songs? im outta ideas

my humps
be my escape
dance dance
sugar we're going down
dirty little secret
soul meets body
badd
chaotic
shake
get down hit the floor
do somethin
since youve been gone
outta control
hollaback girl
belly dancer

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My 14th birthday is Saturday. I'm having about 15-20 people over. What fun things should we do? What good movies, games and other things are fun to do?

twister. truth or dare. kareoke. poker. pool. any card games. dance party, blasting music. some good movies could be mean girls or any funny movies like that.

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who sings that song that goes,
take me away take me far away from here i will run with you dont be afraid call my name and we will stare into the sun we will run

fefe dobson-"take me away."

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My friend lets say (jesse) jesse smells pretty bad everyday. Like a bad smell as if she doesnt take a bath. How do i tell her she has an odor i dont want to hurt her feelings but i dont want people to talk about her behind her back
seriously.. shes recently had staph too?
does that mean youre not clean? ermm help

buy her perfume, bodywash, and lotion for christmas with something else so its not obvious she smells. dont straight out tell her that is kind of rude.

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Is the 1st season of 7th heaven out on DVD yet?

yep!! you can get it at target or best buy or any other movie stores.

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does anybody know a good brand of men's deoderant(stick, not spray, please)?

mitchell or bath and body works has some good ones for men too.

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I have really curly hair so I straighten it twice a week just about. Is that really bad for my hair. Like i know that its bad to straighten your hair but how bad is that?? I have some straightening stuff thats my sisters that i use before i do it i guess it supposed to help...

not bad at all. two times a week will barely do any damage to your hair.

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im asian and i curl my eyelashes and put mascara on so they look longer and curled ..what are some other tips i can do so they look longer and thicker?

curling your eyelashes only causes them to be thin, because they make your eyelashes break. (then they won't grow long). try using maybelline volum express. you can always try fake lashes too!

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I need some dressy pants for chorus and the concert is coming up in about 2 weeks. Where can I get some dressy pants cheap? I know Forever 21 has some but where else?

kohls, charlotte russe, rampage, target, and maybe old navy.

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ok these girls have partys were they have sex and finger ea other and stuff well they told me it was just somthing like a girls night out just to hang and watch movies so i went and i didnt no that they fingered ea other and stuff but worse guys were there so somone brought beer and i got drunk and they got it on camera of me taking of all my cloths and i guess they video taped it when a guys fingered me and they put it on this like web page and every thing like you could see really clearly like him fingering me they got up close oh my god i wanna move schools everyone thinks oh my god every ones like so i wounder if i can git up in ur pants and say all this shit but do i just wiat until they stop talking about it or i dont know just what do i do?

well why did you do it if you didn't want people to talk? people are always gonna talk about stuff. it will be done with soon, but you're just going to have to live with the consequence of getting drunk/other things happening. pretend you don't care, and wait for it all to blow over.

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hey my mom said i can choose any kind of car for my 2nd car. my last one i wrecked. since ill be getting a new one when i graduate. i want to get just a nice car now. and be able to get a fucking sweet car then. what would you get. ps im a 16 girl. so a girl car.

any bmw.

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m/15 i like this girl and we talk on aol sometimes but a lot of times we have long awkward silence. i always try to ask her questions about things but i can't think of a lot of questions. can you give me some ideas? thx

how shes doing
how her day was
what she was up to that day
if she wants to hang out sometime
tell her you like her
ask her out. = )

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okay, i have dirty blonde hair that is long. i wanna cut it shorter with choppy layers. also, im thinking about getting side bangs. do you think it will look good? here is what i look like. www.myspace.com/tara_xoxo

that sounds really cute! i think you should get it cut like kristin's from laguna beach. here is a good picture...

http://photos1.blogger.com/blogger/348/1706/1600/Kristin.3.jpg

is that kind of how you want it?

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