Iam a girl with black hair and gray eyes. I like to go to the gym to workout because it relieves stress. I like to help people no problem whatever they ask I won't judge people I'm just a person willing to give you some advice that's all. I think its important to have a good education and a good carrer in life. I want this world to be peaceful which is one of my biggest dreams!I'm back!I apologize to you all for not being able to help you guys in need for help whatever help you ask for just write me in my inbox,I'll answer as soon as possible.
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Location: Brooklyn,New york
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Age: 17
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When i shave down there, i get little bumps. How can I spot that? Or Make it less visable? (link)
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Instead of shaving you should use a machine to shave there like Bikini Touch which is painless,risk free of getting a cut,easy to do, gives no bumps,and even can take it traveling.They sell it on pharmacies it may be $9.99 or $14.95 which are both good prices.As far as the bumps just leave it alone it'll go away by itself from shaving.
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well is it wrong to go out with your friends ex but what if you went out with him before she did
I will rate a 5! (link)
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It is not wrong if you go out with him if you went out with him before and since it's her ex.But if that's not the case, you're going out with your friends ex you should tell her if it's okay if you don't want trouble in your friendship.But if your in love,she does not accept it you must choose your friendship or the love of your life.
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I have a friend who is over weight and is always saying Im so fat!! Even though she kind of is I dont want to be mean so I say no your not.I dont want to keep lieing to her but I dont want to just say Yeah you are.How can I just make her stop saying she is fat and ugly without hurting her feeling.I rate high..PS If we say something mean to her she freaks out and says omg I cant belive you just said that. (link)
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What you could say is that she needs to get into shape , to stay fit,and healthy.Recommend that she should go to a gym to workout and go running on the machines they have and go somewhere like Bally Total Fitness which is where I go so I could stay nice and fit.But you cannot tell her she's fat of course because you don't want to hurt her feelings and how thoughtful of you!What is best for her to go to a gym near where she lives so she doesn't have to travel far.
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My life really sucks. The guy i like has this really popular and pretty girlfriend. All the people at school make fun of me. I do not have alot of friends. My family doesn't seem like they care for me too much. I even sometimes think of suicide.
At school all of the people make fun of me. I am no dork but people make fun of me the way i dress and just plain make fun of me. On my school lacrosse team people always make fun of me. Not to brag but i am probably the best person on the team and yet there are still people making fun of me of the things i do. On my soccer team some of the girls make fun of me too. I do not have alot of friends either. My dad always bothers me to have someone come over and he asks me the number of people i called and its only about 3 because i really don't have alot of friends to call. My family is always yelling at me to. I try to be nice but then my sister makes some smart remark and then my parents expect me to be nice to her. And they think she is like the perfect angel child that does everything right. My sister even sometimes makes fun of me by saying i have no friends. Suicide is also something i think about and life is something i want to take away because it really sucks. Please add some advice to this column. It would really help. Even if it is just about one thing. Please help. (link)
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Don't give up your life it's not worth throwing your life away what you could do is dress really nice by observing others of how they dress you could go to stores like Old Navy,Macy's,Sears,Mandee,other nice clothing stores that are fancy.How do your friends dress?If they dress nice then ask them for advice as well for some more tips and you must match so others won't comment anything bad about how you look.If they keep bothering you ignore them or just tell them to look in the mirror because there not perfect either, they should definitely get an attitude adjustment and tell them that they make fun of people because they have nothing else to do which is just sad they should get a life!Don't worry about people like that in the end they will suffer,fail, and you will succeed!
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i have three daughters who always seem to suffer from headlice, the doctor has gave me some shampoo to treat it which is very good but i can't seem to get rid of the little white eggs, could you please suggest some-thing, thanks. (link)
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There's a treatment by Quantum which uses coconut oil,isopropyl alcohol,ylang ylang oil,anise oil to fight it,includes a metal lice comb.Or buy something called a lice meister that goes through hair easily without pulling or tearing hair which collects nits,and lice as it goes.Two other things you could do is put your daughters a towel under their hair so that a portion of the towel is exposed beneath the end of the hair.The other thing you could also do is use fingernails or tweezers to remove any nits by the comb or use safety scissors to snip out individual bearing nits repeat if necessary.
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k,i've been dating this guy 4 about 3-4 weeks. I like him, but later this week, he said he was busy n' everything, he ignored me, n' everytime i'm oL he said like.. hey, u hav to go to school 2morrow,, don't sleep to late, then if i say no, i dun wanna go 2 sleep rite now, he will be like.. ok.. i want to play, tell me if u're bout to off.And i was like, ok if that's wat u want.. i dunno wat to do.. i like him.. n' sumtimes i kinda jealous w/ his friends, coz he really cares bout his friends, n' always talks bout his friends.. sooo... wat do i do? (link)
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You have to speak to him saying to him why does he spend his time talking about his friends when you too should be talking about other things and having a good talk.If he does talk about his friends all the time then he cares about them more than his relationship with you or he doesn't have something better to talk about.You too could go to a therapist to solve your problems or come up with ways to compromise in other words which will benefit you too.Like for example he wants to go to the movies at 8:00pm,you want to go skating at 8:00pm on a tuesday then you too agree that you will go to the skating on that day,hour,you will both go to the movies the next day at 7:30pm.So that is what I mean but you must both agree remember that!
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Could someone please help me with all my questions?! I'm almost completely clueless.
So the law where I live is that you can become emancipated when you're 16. When I turn 16, I want to be emancipated. I live in Maine, so if I were to get emancipated, could I just move back to Florida and buy a place down there or something? Or can you not legally buy an apartment or anything without the parents like co-signing the paperwork? I mean, I do have the money to move down there. I have a trust fund, but that's not legally mine until I'm 18. If I got emancipated, would it still 18? Or 16 when/if I get emancipated?
I pretty much have it planned out. I'd move to Florida, finish the rest of sophmore year, junior and senior years at a high school down there. And buy a place to live down there, if that's possible at my age, and get a job there. (link)
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If you become 16 and you're emancipated then move back to Florida you still won't be llegally 18 because it's a different state which will have a different law so it won't count.What's best if you wait until you're eighteen to move there to buy a house there as well I know it's a long time but it will be worth it in the end.Trust me.
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sumtimes i just cant stand my family..its like they dont even want me..im thinkin about running away!!!...should i? (link)
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Don't run away your family will be very upset and think about your parents of how you will like break their heart.And the only thing you'll be doing is running away from your problems instead of facing them,coming up with a better solution.Why do you say your family can't stand you?You need to have a talk with your family tell them how you're feeling of how they treat you until you can all settle your differences.Some people feel that way you could always count on your family than friends because they will always be there.Walking would help you take off your stress and thinking about how you want to solve problems even a psychiatrist would tell you that.Think about good plans you want to make to try to keep this off your mind for a while or things that make you active.
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Is there anyway possible that I can lose three pounds to fit in my dress in 10 days. Please help asap (link)
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No it's not possible you may see diet pills but they lie about losing the weight that way so don't buy them because all they want to do is make money and you will result with nothing but plain pills that don't work.But I heard about fat burnig pills search for them,find the right one for you because there are some that work,others don't but remember in order to see results you must use it correctly.Or go running everyday for like half an hour or an hour which is better.Eat every three hours so your metabolism could break all the food you ate,for breakfast drink skim milk or drink it with cereal.For lunch eat chicken without the skin or fish or tuna fish with lowfat mayonnaise or brown rice.For dinner eat fruits and vegetables and drink at lot of water and no fruit juices because it builds up sugar which fat stores in your stomach.Do some push ups and situps to flatten your stomach.Good luck with your wedding!
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do you guys no ani good sad songs i can listen to? tx ill rate ya high. (link)
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I know some like "Tell me the meaning of being lonely",I want it that way"by backstreet boys,"My all,"Never too far"by Mariah carey,"All by Myself","Titanic" by Celine Dion,"My reflection"by Christina Aguilera, "My sacrifice"etc....There are more you could go to search engines to search for more sad songs.
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I really im in love with this boy, but he has 3 g/f`s. yea, he's a big player. i have tried and tried to get over him, but i just can't. I dont think he would really like me, because he likes darker girls like mexican girls. What should I do. (he has no clue i like him, and I wouldn't want to tell him, because I'm embarassed he'll reject me. :\)
Thanks! i RATE 5'SSS! (link)
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What I would really advice you to do is to go look for some other guy if you know he will not like your skin color which is just ridiculous over a color there is a saying with that"don't judge the color of it's pages",if you wind up being with him he's going to hurt you badly if you know he's a player don't get into illusions he's like a rock with no feelings what so ever how dare him to be dating three girls at the same time!You won't have a future with him at all.Please get over him if you see another guy who you like get to know him,become his friend,if he's the one tell him your feelings but make sure he likes you too before you decide to do that.Counseling could help you to take your frustration out over this guy.
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okay first off im sorry this is long... okay im 13 and i have been going out with my boyfriend for 2 and a half years.. i know thats long lol.. anyways .. this year we're going to be going to dif. schools.. he'll be in middle school and ill be in highschool.. hes in 6th im in 7th...well .. i love him more then i could explain. but my boyfriend.. eric thinks ill find someone else at the highschool... i know it could happen.. but it wont because i love him.. and hey who knows he might meet someone else.. and im just so worried things wont work out for us.. what do u think i should do..? i rate all 5's !!! THANKS! (link)
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Just because he's in a different school doesn't mean he will cheat on you if that's what you're thinking if he really loves you he will never do that.Try to visit him to his school but don't cut classes your education is very important.Also tell your boyfriend if he can.Or see each other after school have long conversations,have fun with him when you too have free time,have you ever heard a saying" long distance doesn't separate two people who are in love with one another" well it's true.Get things clear,straight that even if you are going to be in different schools it's not going to change for what you feel for him, and for what he feels about you.Be positive!
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Over the summer I lost a few pounds. I wasn't big before or anything I just kind of toned down. Well, a few guys have noticed and commented to me. My boyfriend gets really jealous when anyone (by one I mean guys. I don't know what to do about it. It isn't that big of a problem to where we need to break up but it upsets me when I see him like this. Today, I saw one of my really good guy friends that I didn't have a chance to see during the summer. We talked for a few min. and he asked me if I lost weight and I said yes and he told me that I looked great. My bf was standing with us and when my friend said what he said, my bf walked away. Does anyone have any idea what I can do/say to him? I'm 17 and he's 18 if that helps. (link)
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What you should tell your boyfriend is that he's the one you care about,just because your talkin to a friend doesn't mean your doing something bad,that he should trust you because it's important for a relationship,and that if you saw him talking to a friend who's a girl you won't start to get jealous,and that you would trust him.Have a long discussion if you have to but make sure you go to a place you can talk without your friends there.Another thing you should definitely tell him that you really want things to work out with him and want to save your relationship with him.Try not to worry the attitude of his will pass.
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I got my hair cut really short for school (don't ask why) & so I need some hair styles from guys with short hair, could you please tell me what these are & how I can do them? or is there a site that I can go to?
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Go to www.Askmen.com and write in the search box short hairstyles for men or go to www.hairstyler.com and scroll all the way down to write your search down.
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HI um im the gurl that asked about the advice name! and i have another question? well my name is rachel any suggestions to do for an advice name with that! (link)
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Yes I do, like RachelFoundation or Racheltownsville or Rachel inspiration 101 those are good suggestions for an advice names.
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Hey, I'm 14.f and something has been bugging me. So many people have been starting to have sex, and i think its like, pathetic, how can teenagers, want to give blow jobs and hand jobs, i mean hello, its kinda weird for 13-16 year olds to do that at this age in my opinion. Does anybody out there agree with me that this stuff is stupid at this age? There have been so many questions on here about sex and hand jobs and everything and i think it is plain out pathetic! Teens shouldnt be worried about that kind of stuff at this age. Does anyone out there agree with me at all?
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I don't like to judge but I can only say that teens at that age shouldn't worry about having sex because they are just teens in my opinion they should worry about more important things like about a having a good career in their future.
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Hi ummm i am thinking of changing myy advice name! Any Suggestions??? Thanks!!!!! (link)
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You could change it to mystery106 or heartfullfiller100 or devil 18 or angelville you choose!And you welcome!
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My boyfriend and I have this game I guess you could call it. We ask eachother questions to get to know eachother better, or just to know random facts about the other person. Most of the questions are like "What attracts you to me most?" and "What do you like most about my personality?" Stuff like that. My question is does anybody have any questions I can ask him? I am completely out of questions! Thank you! =] (link)
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You could also ask him what is the best thing that ever happened to him?Embarassing moments?Funny moments?Helpless moments?Which is your ideal place for a romantic date?What characteristics must a girlfriendof his have?I sure hope I helped.
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I'm turning 16 and I am getting a car for my birthday. My dad wants me to get a new car, but I'm not so sure because I've heard that a new car loses a certain amount of value right as you drive it off the lot. I want a Jetta, and so what would be better: a new one, or one that is 1 or 2 years old? (link)
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You should get a new car with a guarantee so in case it gets damaged you could replace it.A used car is not good because it may be damaged or may not be working well .So take my advice you won't regret it that is for sure!Enjoy your 16th birhtday!
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Ok, im 14 years old and im a boy.. i still havent gone threw puberty. All the other boys in my class have. Well most of them. Can anyone tell me how what when boys go threw puberty? (link)
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Boys go through puberty from the ages of 10 to 16 years old.You may notice body size parts changes of arms.legs,hands,and feet.You may also feel a little clumsy going through these changes.You will get taller,shoulders will become broader,and you will gain a lot of weight.Several boys experience swelling under their nipples if you go through this experience you have nothing to worry about it's just a temporary condition.Your muscles will get larger this could be a good time to build muscles by lifting weights of course.Skin may get oily and you might sweat more.Your private area will get larger also.Masturbation is normal it won't do you any harm many boys and girls masturbate.
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