k,i've been dating this guy 4 about 3-4 weeks. I like him, but later this week, he said he was busy n' everything, he ignored me, n' everytime i'm oL he said like.. hey, u hav to go to school 2morrow,, don't sleep to late, then if i say no, i dun wanna go 2 sleep rite now, he will be like.. ok.. i want to play, tell me if u're bout to off.And i was like, ok if that's wat u want.. i dunno wat to do.. i like him.. n' sumtimes i kinda jealous w/ his friends, coz he really cares bout his friends, n' always talks bout his friends.. sooo... wat do i do?
sunnyville answered Wednesday August 17 2005, 6:32 pm: You have to speak to him saying to him why does he spend his time talking about his friends when you too should be talking about other things and having a good talk.If he does talk about his friends all the time then he cares about them more than his relationship with you or he doesn't have something better to talk about.You too could go to a therapist to solve your problems or come up with ways to compromise in other words which will benefit you too.Like for example he wants to go to the movies at 8:00pm,you want to go skating at 8:00pm on a tuesday then you too agree that you will go to the skating on that day,hour,you will both go to the movies the next day at 7:30pm.So that is what I mean but you must both agree remember that! [ sunnyville's advice column | Ask sunnyville A Question ]
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