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im 15/f. ok, please dont judge me but i seriously need help! my boyfriend went away for a week and i was at home bored. but then one of my mates was having a party so i went. but i had a lot of stuff going on in my life so i started drinking to forget them. i know i shouldnt have but i did and i got really drunk. i dont really remember much but i do remember sleeping with a lad at the party. i dont think he used a condom either because he was really drunk too. should i tell my boyfriend or not? do you think he will forgive me because i really do love him? it was just a mistake!
Help me please!

If you loved your boyfriend i think you should tell him because if you dont your keep secrets from him, and if he finds out buy someone else then he will ask you why you didnt tell him and he will be even more upset, I think that he wont be able to forgive you for what you did. If it was just a mistake sometimes guys cant see it as a mistake and take it personally, which means he wont forgive you.

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I have naturally straight hair, but I like to wear it curly. I just bought my first curling iron, and I think the heat is drying my hair out. Did I buy the wrong product? Or am I just using it incorrectly?
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I think your just over using it, cut down on the curling, Some times it can put your hair in a really bad way. So cut down! all curling irons make hair dry.

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I'm getting a hair straightening iron for 20 bucks. It's a ceramic ConAir with gold colored plates. Will it work as good as an expensive one, like a CHI?

Sometimes the cheeper straigteners can work better. But CHI is a very good make.

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my dad was going out with this girl for like.... 3 years...they've been going on and off for a pretty long time and they just broke up! now, he is ALWAYS moping around and ALL of this stuff! i will ask him what is wrong and he will always say..."nothing just depressed." i mean im really concerned...what can i tell him without him freaking out on me?

He wont freek out if your going to miss him, Just tell him that you'll go see him because you love him and your going to miss him.

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my cats name is jack...and he drools...alot...is that normal?

No not for cats its very unsual some times cans do drool, because i have a cat. And he was like that but he stoped. Take him to the vets and get him sorted out.

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im 13 and ive never had my period but ive ad the white stuff that comes before it for like 2 years. is this normal? and how long after the white stuff does your period come? thanks a lot.

Yes its very normal, its about 1-2 years with discharge before you get your periods. But you will always have white stuff. When your of your periods.

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i am a 17/m and i really want to do something sweet for mine and my girlfriends anniversary. i already have a dinner planned out but i want it to be more sexual. I am not a virgin and i know she isnt either but i want to know things that girls like guys to do to them, even sex if thats what girls like. Thnx, i rate high

Cook her a romantic dinner, After that go watch some sad movies and then, take her upstairs, if she doesnt like it she will stop, just be gental.

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Sometimes I get urges to go up and hug a guy, is that normal?

Yes thats normal. when your a teenager sometimes people develop feelings like that but they soon go away after a while just keep your cool.

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What if someone said something offensive about you and you had a disablity, and ur friends and family didnt do much to defend you? I have the right to be mad right? I have the right to be mad at my family for not defending me right? what should i do?

Yes you have a right to be mad at both your friends and family, Tell them that when that person offended you not one of you stook up for you. And that its not my fault i have a disablity, I though that you would understand that. When you have said that walk away then they well see that they have hurt you, buy not standing up for you.

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can anyone give me really good beauty tips anything that they might know? thank you so much in advanced :)

What for?
hair: When washing hair make sure you rub the shampoo right into the tips and roots of your hair and it will make it look healthyer. when you use conditioner dont put to much on because if you do it can get quickly greesy. And comb it through when conditioning for smooth reasults.
If you straighten or blow dry it, Some times it can make your hair become dry if you do it to often. Try and straighten it not as much (thats if you do straighten it)

Skin: buy a facial wash, and rub some with water and rub on face, leave for 5 seconds then wash of. That will give you smoother skin. Drinking lots of water can help skin look health and it can make you feel healthy. After getting out of the shower buy some cream so that way when you get your face will feel smooth and healthy. If you wear make-up get some facial wipes that remove make-up because keeping make up on all night it means that it doesnt allow your skin to breath.

Make-up: If you have blonde hair try light pinks and blues that will bring out your eyes and also purples.
If you have brown hair try creams,golds,browns that will also bring out your eyes.
If you have ginger hair light greens and dark greens.
Anyother colour i dont no!

eyebrows: If you pluck them get a walm cloth and rest it on the eyebrow your going to pluck first because it make the eyebrown numer! Then our of repeat again with the cloth on the other eyebrow and that put a cold one on and it will make the redness go down.
If your going to wax your eyebrows its better that you go to a hairdressers and its all done.


Carrots
Maintain the outer layer of the skin to prevent premature aging. What you'll find in is the same as you'll get in Retin A.

Cheese
To ensure a happy smile, add a slice or two of hard cheeese into your diet. Choose Swiss, cheddar, or gouda to block bacteria in the mouth and prevent cavities.

Citrus Fruits
Hold the skin cells together by forming collagen. Collagen cannot be added to the skin topically, which is why fruits and fruit juices are such an important part of the daily diet.

Cranberries
Keep urinary tract lining healthy.

just eat health that can do wonders for your skin. and your health.

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every time i try to answer a question on this website,its says chatspeak problem please answer in english and i do. does this happen to anyone else,i answer in perfectly good english i even did spelling and grammar check.is this happening to anyone else?what can i do?

IF you use slang, advice doesnt like it so its alrigh to use some but. If you use loads they wont send it until is full words.

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14/f
summer is coming up and i am going to be swimming ALOT. i got my period at the very end of last summer so i didnt have to worry about swimming. but now that this summer is getting closer i am considering tampons so i can swim whenever i want. my questions are what brand of tampons are best and should i start now so i will be more confortable or will it matter?

thank you.

Tampax, There ment to be really good.
Have a good holiday

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ok im really hungry and im home alone. there really isnt alot of food in the house but we have tostito corn chips and i wanna make some kind of dip with them. if you have any easy dip recipes for tostitos with stuff that can be easily found in the house please give me one!! i have alot of mexican shredded cheese but thats really not enough to make a good dip. i have some more stuff on hand..just any dip recipe for tortillas would work. thanks!

Get some tomatos, some onions and some pepper or seasoning, and fry the onions. When you have done that fry the tomatos, and mix them together so its like a tomato juice. And mix the onions with the tomatos and add seasoning.

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Okay well about 3 months ago i met my boyfriend. And its really werid how we met because he liked my friend and i tried to hook them up but she didn't like him. So, he came over to my house and we were just hangin out and then after that we talked on the internet and he said that im beautiful and he had alot of fun and that he REALLY really likes me... so we went out that nite. I told my friend that were going out and she was happy for me and everything. Well this is my question now that you have the background... I don't like having my boyfriend around my friend cause i feel uncomfortable knowing that he used to like her!! i love him alot and he does to and were in love but i still feel that way is that right or should i stop worrying cause hes with me and not her.... HELP!!

I think you should stop worry. Your life is great right now! lucky you, Anyway your friend is happy for you and doesnt mind that your going out, and doesnt like that guy. Your boyfriend love you so dont worry.

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I am 13 years of age and I had my period two times last year. Only two times because it started at the end of the year. I've only had it two times because I haven't had it this year yet. Is that normal? Is that supposed to happen? Is it healthy when you period does that?

Hi dont worry about it at all because most girls that first start there period can be irregular, Dont worry at all it will come soon.

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Me and my boyfriend have been together for about 4 months. I love him so much but when ever he says I love you to me I dont belive it. He knows I dont. He kind of gets angry because I wont belive when he says it. Why wont I belive it? Is there something wrong with me?

mabe its because you expect more from him, and that you some how feel like you dont feel them say! way as he does. Just trust him from now on.

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I want him and I love him so much but I'll never really have him. He has a gf and doesn't see me as ever being material. But I want him and he's a player so he would. So should I enjoy him?
And say "screw his gf" and just do whatever I want with him, cause I really really want him!!!

If you want to go on!!!!

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I have a friend who was going out with this one girl. he's 18 and really loved her. they even talked about getting married! Then one night at a party he did a lot of things with another girl at a party, and after that she had sex with someone els. He was so mad that he cheated on his girlfriend with a "slut" and when his girlfriend found out she was puking and screaming. Now my friend wants to kill himself and im scared. Besides going to an adult, how can i help him?

Tell him that everyone makes mistakes in there life and it cant be helped sometimes. Just tell him that what would happen if he killed himself there would be more sadness than there is now.
That his family will have to pick up the pieces, Just be there for him when he needs you.

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i like this guy a lot but he doesnt like me and i no it. i get really jealous when he says who he likes because i feel upset that he doesnt like me. hes the type of guy who only likes girls who are hott. but he has hurt me so much he has made me cry like everyday cuz it seems to me tht he doeant care bout how i feel i dont no what to do or how to feel im so confused i no ur all gonna say just move who cares bout him but i cant i like him so much and i dont no how i can just stop please help i dont no wat to do.

Mabe its his way of making sure that hes understood and that your just friends nothing more! guys are awful sometimes. Just leave him to it!and walk away and find some other friends to hang around with. If he asked why you dont hang out anymore tell him that you realised that you want to spend more time with other friends.
Just be honest with him, if he cant handle that then hes not worth having as a friend.

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me and this one guy were like such good friends ;) now hes changed and now he always ignores me its so wrong

Forget about him, hes been childish! move on and find some other friends.

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