can u get pregnant if u hav sex on your period??
yes you can get pregnant anytime. but why would you want to have sex during your period? just think about that. have fun!!lol.
*~~~shana~~~*
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all my friends think my one guy friend is gay and i think so too..but he deny's it when we say nething about it..what do i do ??
well first of all you have to believe what he tells you. you don't know if he's lying or not. so just listen to him.
*~~~shana~~~*
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how long should u wait to french when u already stared regular kissing
well whenever you feel ready. it will come natural. hope i helped!! *~~~shana~~~*
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ok me and my bf have been going out for like 2 months and it seems like were like best friends instead of boyfriend and girlfriend... is that a good thing?
yes it is. or it's not. i dunno. well the best relationships start out of friends. but talk to him and ask just where you two are romantically.
but you may just have to give it a nudge. go for it!! if you need anything else just ask.
*~~~shana~~~*
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ive never made out or even kissed a guy and my first time might be coming up soon.wat do i do, do i use tounge, if so how much?
this is the million dollar question. no one knows for sure. if it's your first time start with dry kissing where it's just lips on lips then after you two have done that for a while. whenever it feels rite go to tounge. it will come naturally. so don't worry!!
hope i helped you. *~~~shana~~~*
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i'm thinking about asking my parents for a Lap-Band procedure. it's where they make like a .5 inch incision and stick a rubber band that can be inflated around the top part of your stomach so that your food slowly trickles down into the bottom part of your stomach, filling you up faster. it's a lot safer than gastric bypass because there's no cutting or re-routing involved. have any of you heard about it or even had it? please help me! i checked my BMI and it's 53.5! i almost cried!! thanks.
alicia:-0
PS. oh, and the reason why my BMI is so high is because i a 325 pounds and i'm 5'5". it's mostly fat. maybe a little muscle, because i'm not that strong at all. my goal wight according to ediets and weight watchers should be in the 120 range. so it's more than just a few pounds. also, the site for the center that i want to get this done at says that there are over 8 million americans that need to lose over 100 pounds, and over 95% will fail without some sort of weight loss surgery. check it out. www.wishcenter.org.
dear weigth loss,
i think that the procedure would be a good thing.
but only if it's something that you truly want and you are willing to sacrifice for. it's easier
to get it off when you are young. and also if people lose weight when they are our age it reduces the risk of alsteimers. so i think that if you want it you should go for it. but just be sure that you are willing to deal with the after affects. good luck and keep me posted.
hope i helped!! if you need anything at all just ask! *~~~shana~~~*
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I had sex about 6 days ago, and i didnt use a condom! im supposed to start my period sometime this week, or at the end of the month! WHat do i do if i dont have my period, i wouldnt kno what to do because i dont talk to my parents about this stuff..pleez help me!!!
dear help!,
you can't get an abortion. you should never have had sex if you weren't willing to recieve the possible consequences. it's not the baby's fault that you weren't thinkin. how could you live with
yourself knowing that you killed your baby? but most of all you need to go talk to your parents.
and they have adoption clinics for your baby. go to one of those insead of an abortion clinic.
*~~~shana~~~*
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what is the best age for making out? and any one have tips on what do wit da touge?
dear making out,
there isn't any age. but whenever you feel ready.
just do it. but as for the frenching then it will
come naturally. so when you feel ready go and have some fun. lol. hope i helped.
*~~~shana~~~*
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okay this is prolly really dumb but im just wondering when you have sex is the guys penis supposed to go all the way into a gurls vagina? and when you firt have sex does it hurt alot?
as you can tell im not really experienced.
please help me asap
dear this might,
first of all are you sure you are both physically
and emotionally ready for sex? and then also it's not supposed to go in all the way the first time. and yes it will hurt. so be careful. and always be on the pill and use condoms.
so have fun!! lol. and be careful!!
*~~~shana~~~*
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hey chickz so ive been so-called "dating" a guy for like 3 weeks, and iv liked him for about 10 months... i used to think he was soooo hott and i was dying 2 get with him, but he had a girl.. so they broke up like 4 months ago, and then he asked me out 2 months later.. after 2 weeks he broke up w/me cuz he still wasnt "completely over his ex, and not ready for a relationship yet" he sed he still wanted 2 be with me later tho.. then i told him 2 make sure hes completely over her.. he asked me out again just 2 weeks later, and told me he'd liked me since september when we met.. well he had a g/f from july thru like march, so he liked me while he had his last serious g/f... so that makes me wonder.. is he gonna like other ppl while we*re goin out? that really bugz me.. should i keep goin out with him? i know 2 follow my heart, but my heart is confused right now
dear b/f probs,
well i think that you should go sit down and talk
to him. just ask him and be honest. so that's all
you can do. hope i helped. *~~~shana~~~*
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arite..well when i was about 5 or 6 or maybe even younger ihad a best friend and he was a boy..he lived around the block frum me but directly behind my house!! i juss used to hop the wall and go walk in his house...our parents wer good friends too....i went EVERYWHERE with them and we wer best friends...we did karate together, we juss went eveywhre...swimming lessons, soccer, erything...we wer best friends...and i had a lil brother who we never really liked to play with wed hide frum him, lock him out, nvr invite him newhere etc....and then one day we wer about 7 or 8 i think idk...but my brother n *chris* the guy friend...got in a fight about POKEMON...how dumb...and it juss caused a big argument!! i wasnt allowed to see chris and r parents stopped talking...but now r parents talk alot over the wall and chris mom juss had a baby so id use that as an excuse to go see chris but we nvr really would talk...wed say hi...but nothin else.,..and he is shy around gurls so hes nvr really had a gf...and i was his best gurl friend!!!!! and he was my best guy friend it wuld b s0o0o awesum if it was like that now...and hes s0o0 hott now and im not bad lookin either...and his mom always says she wants us to b friends agen n stuff bc we nvr really got in a fight but it messed ery thing up...it wuld b s00o awesum to hav a best friend thats a guy...who i could talk to...who lives s0o0 close wat shuld i do?...im goin over ther to see the baby tonite i think....wat shuld i say?? hes really shy...and hott...but wat shuld i do?/ plzz help!!!! i miss him!!! it wuld b awesum!! omg plz help me on sumthing i shuld say to him
dear my best guy friend,
i think that you should just tell him the truth. be honest. you obviously like him so go for it!!
hope it all works out. *~~~shana~~~*
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i want to tell my ex-boyfriend that i still have feelings for him even thought i know nothing will happen cuz he has a gf that i'm sure he loves but how do i say it??!!
dear ex,
well just tell him that you still have feelings for him. just be honest. *~~~shana~~~*
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i got this huge pimple that just showed up overnight, does anyone know how to get rid of it fast?
try using oxy. it usually clears it up fast. if you want i can get u the name of the product that seems to work the best. just drop a message in my inbox if you do. *~~~shana~~~*
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This year my mom gave me a budget for school clothes, only 500 dollars. Last year I got twice as much and this money includes clothes, shoes, accesories, bras and panties! I'm spending my money wisely but what should I spend the most on and where should I go?
I spent 200 bucks today and didnt get hardly anything... I went to Buckle, Hollister, and Gadzooks! I need fashion HeLp please!!
dear 500 dollar,
first of all people don't see your bras and panties. so get some but don't spend all ur money on them. secondly, 500 dollars is twice as much as i get. you don't have to go to these expensive stores to get cool clothes. accesories get mostly earings and bracelets and necklaces.
shoes get comfy but fashionable. if you get high heels don't get really high heels. be ur self with a little new summthin summthin. don't go to the most popular stores cauz there will more than
likely be some one with the same or close to same
outfit. so when you pick out outfits be urself.
hope i helped!! *~~~shana~~~*
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I've been with my boyfriend Steve for alomost 2months now. I haven't seen him in over a month and by the time i get to talk to him it'll have been a month. Lately I've been talking to my best friend Chris a lot. He's really sweet and nice to me. I really like him now. And i'm more open with him and i can talk to him easier than i can talk to steve but hes going to high school next year and im going into 8th grade and so is steve. Chris just got dumped by one of my best girl friends and shes mad at me cause she thinks i called her a slut and i didnt. I told chris i liked him when he was still going out with my friend. about a week after she dumped him he said he liked me back. we were playing truth or truth and he asked me if i would dump steve for anyone. And i said why do you want me to. And he said yes. I said i dont know if i would cause i hadnt talked to steve in so long. I'm really confused i dont know what to do. Should i dump steve and go out with chris? i mean it might make my friend mad cause she gets mad at stupid things. Or should i wait till steve comes home and talk to him cause i also feel like i barely even know him. who should i choose? what should i do?
ok. calm down. breath. first of all you have a screwed up problem. lol. it happens alot. i think that you should wait until steve comes bak and talk to him. you can't dump him when he's so many miles away. it just wouldn't be fair. i think that you know the answer already. you just don't know it. so do do that true love test because that's crap but it will giv u giggles.lol. so just wait until steve comes bak. and talk to him. just be honest. you'll know what to do. as for chris if he really likes you he will wait for you. so just be patient.
hope i helped *~~~shana~~~~*
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i am 14 years old and my knees are always killing me when i do anything. i went to the doctor and he said that i was probley just goin through a gorwth spurt and my knees were just catching up or sumthing like that. but the doctor told me that in the winter...and now its summer and my knees still hurt...what do i do?
o ps my doctor said the ligaments were stressed...what does that mean??
dear hurt knees,
stressed ligaments means that you are usin your legs too much. i would think that you have arthritis. it's nothin big they mite put you on a
tiny pill called vioxx. i have arthritis everywhere. it's a big or little thing. just depends. so ask your doctor if you mite have arthritis. and don't use your legs so much.
hope i helped. *~~~shana~~~*
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i dont no if this is in the right catogory but anyways..i was wearing a wrist band because i thot they made cool braclets and i guess ny best friend thot i was cutting myself cuz i didnt want to take it off.she told some people and guidance one of the guidance councelers[not mine] told her students that my counsler saw the cuts on my wrist even tho there wasnt anything. rumors were over the WHOLE school and everyone treated me like i was some kind of freak.schools out now so i dont have to talk to all of them but i still dont have trust in my best friend and i dont no if people think i cut still even tho i never did! what do i do???
-rumors hurt-
dear rumors hurt,
just to let you know i think that freaks rule!!!
well first of all rumors hurt but if you told them the truth that's all that matters. it's hard
but as long as you know that it's tru that's all that matters. you cant change the way that people think so you just have to tell the truth and leave it. it will all blow over but you just have to giv it time. you'll see. if you need anything else don't be afraid to ask. hope i helped. *~~~shana~~~*
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hmm summers fun but doing the same thing over and over bores me... hmm does ne1 have some fun things to do..gimme some unique ideas..
-blu-
dear blu,
i like to go to the fair in the summer. play games and stuff. well have you tried goin on a hike while camping or summtin. it's fun. so good luck hope i helped. *~~~shana~~~*
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i am a 13 year old female with a 34-36B bra size. i have stretch marks and everything. they seem to keep continuously growing and i dont know what to do about them. do you think that is too big of a size for a girl my age, and what can i do to keep them from growing?
dear boobs,
im 15 and have 44dd bra size. you can't help how big yours grow. it's a little big for your age but i was a whole cup size bigger when i was 12.
so don't worry. when you get older you may want a breast reduction tho. because after a while your breasts start gettin too heavy.lol. so don't worry for now. but you may want to start goin and gettin breast exams tho. just talk to your mom. hope i helped. if you need anything at
all just ask. and don't worry rite now!!
*~~~shana~~~*
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Hey, just wondering...what is 'moonshine'? I know its some kind of really strong alcohol, but does anyone know exactly what it is? My boyfriend wants to try it & I'm worried what will happen if he drinks too much of it!
moonshine is homemade alcohol. it's very strong. and it's very gross.lol. but i would tell him not
to. it can hurt someone who isn't used to it. it was banned during the 1930's or so.
hope i helped!!! *~~~shana~~~*
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