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ok, i really need a strapless bra but i cant find one anywhere. and i dont mean the kind thats just like, a strip of spandex. i need one that actually works! my sister got a good one from limited too, but they sont have them anymore. does anyone know where i could find one?
thanks

Walmart thats where i get all mine.

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17/f
ok well i was dateing this guy and he ended up joining the army and he told me he loved me and would never ever forget about me well last christmas he came down to see me and he gave me his cell # so i called him a few days ago because i had not talked to him for like 2 weeks and he did not answer so i text him and he text me back and said who is this so i said it was me and he said oh u dose that mean he dose not like me any more because i think i love him and i know he loves or loved me because befor he left he gave me a ring and told me when we get back we would get marryed but now he wont even talk to me what should i do i mean ever since we have not talked i feel like i lost a part of me what should i do

If he loves you And he told you to call you then when you sent the message. Maybe he didnt know your number? Im not sure.

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Hey everyone..my junior prom is sort of coming up and i wanna start lookin for a dress..does anyone know if the dresses are usually floor lenght or does it not matter..and where are some good places to look for unexpensive dresses?

Any length you want it too be you prob. usually see people in floor length. I get my dresses at dillards, sears, jcpenny, the body shop, fashion bug.. They all have cute ones.

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okay, so, my dad is totally changing his views on everything now, and I don't really know how to talk to him like I used to. I mean, I could tell him anything, and now its just kinda weird. He won't let me read Seventeen until he cuts some "articles he doesn't want me to see" out. He says that I am not allowed to date (whereas in 4th grade I had a boyfriend and him and my stepmom would always be like "did you call him yet" and stuff). Him and my stepmom used to ask me how to have kids on the sims, i am not even allowed to make my sims kiss now (which I do anyways, but still). They used to be so cool and all, but now they are so overprotective. I don't go to school (homeschooled) so I don't have those kind of problems. They think that I will fall into all these stupid fads and trends and sex and drugs (yes, i love fashion, and music, and yes i do try to impress people and stuff, but only to a reasonable extent). I like this boy, who i like, just met about six months ago, but I have only seen him a couple of times. I know that he likes me, but when we get to know eachother more, and if he asks me out or something, what do i say, i mean "i have to ask my dad" or "i'll think about it" will sound like i am a baby or he might think that i don't like him and he might just look for someone else. I don't think i could do something like have a boyfriend behind my dad's back, and how can i have a boyfriend in front of his back? How do I tell my dad I like this guy and he likes me? (by the way, don't say "well, this guy hasn't even asked you out yet, and he might not ever." i am asking in advance so that when anyone does, what the hell do I say to my dad and future boyfriend?) thanx i rate :) (srry this was long, don't even answer if you're going to give some retarded answer like "hmmm...idk umm.. DON'T HAVE A BOYFRIEND!") thanx again

Well Maybe you could talk to or dad before this boy asks you out so when he does you know what to say. I dont know how old you are so. For your dad changing so quick did you do something that you shouldnt have and your dad found out? You could ask him why he is being so over proctected of you and why he wont let you play sims fully. And the magazines if hes going to cut out articles you maybe shouldnt buy them because that kinda destroys the point of having a magazine.

Idk if i helped you much but i tried And that counts right? I woulkd just talk to your dad.

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Hi, I'm a 14 year old female, turning 15 this month. I really need a job for the summer just to take some time off of my hand and so that I can earn some money. I would really like a job at a restaurant or fast food chain or something, so does anyone know any places that would accept someone my age? I know McDonald's and Burger King hire 14+ but there are no more spots for hire since everyone goes there to work. Or any suggestions? (Babysitting isn't really a good option -- I am a huge pushover and I'm horrible with kids/pets.)

Well if you have like a place in town with a bunch of stores in a row you could go to each one and ask for an application. Fill out like 2-3 applications and turn them in someone is bound to call you. But here is a couple stores that i know hire at 15. In Some states.

shaws
alberstons
rowes
cvs
arbys
subway

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My friend has been taking pills that some, or many of you, are familiar with. The street name are "triple c's" or "skittles". I think theyre called 'Coridicin Cold and Cough' or something, and what gives people their 'high' is the dextrophine or something close called that. Well, She steals them out of walgreen every day and swallows about 16 of them every day or every other day. I, myself, have only taken 6 in my life and I learned it was a very stupid decision and that I will never take them again! But my friend on the other hand, I think, is becoming very dependent on them. Shes been doing this for about a month or two, every day taking more. She keeps telling me and herself that she'll stop but she just won't. She is my best friend and im really concerned about her health and what permanent effects these pills can have on her. So what i need is some info and/or sites that give me the dangers, etc. of taking these pills. Thank you guys so much i want to help her.

You need to help your friend. You need to tell someone she can get serious hurt/die. Maybe telling someone would make her mad at you and she wont want to be your friend anymore but what if you didnt tell anyone and she dies from overdose? You will prob feel even worse for not telling.

Tell someone you trust. parents hers or yours. guidance conselour at school. The police.

I hope i helped, but do the right thing :)

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where can i find Dove Face Care Essential Nutrients for skin so healthy it glows Cleansing Cloths, for Regular skin by Dove? it was at drugstore.com,but does that mean it would be at cvs/brooks/wallmart or stuff like that? im not sure,thanks for the help :)

Cvs sells them for sure
i work there.. Walmart prob carries them too

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Hello
I am a 15 year old. I'll be 16 soon.
I have been having my period since Nov. 2004.
I've had it every month from the 19th to the 29th
This month i didn't get it.
It's never been this late.
I got all the cramps, and the upset stomachs before it.
It just never happend.
My mom didn't get hers either this month.
This is the 1st time it's happend.


I WILL rate high.
THanks

I wouldnt be to worried this happens to every girl. It happened to me and i flipped out. if you dont get your period this month then maybe you should go get it checked out but i think youll be ohk.

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I heard the song on the radio that says

She's the prom queen, I'm in the marching band.
She's a cheerleader, I'm in the stands.
Blahhhh don't know the third line.
She's miss America, and I'm just the girl next door.

What's the song called?! I love it, but I wanna know what it's called.

Thanks.

Saving Jane- Girl next door.

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Ok, heres my question. Around October, I found the blog of an Australian girl on the Internet. She'd kept the blog for about a year before I read it. I started noting it and we added each other on MSN. Now we're pretty good email friends, strange as it sounds, I always seem to have tons to talk about to her. We never set out to email, it just started out kind of accidentally.
Anyway, she recently found out that a friend of her fathers is opening a chain of coffee shops and has offered to send her over here (England) to work there. She's always wanted to travel and is really thrilled by this. Anyway, she's going to be in a town about 2 hrs on the train from where I live and obviously she suggested meeting up. Well I have absolutely no reason to doubt she's genuine (ie. not a dangerous rapist) except for the fact she's an Internet friend. I've swapped photos with her and read her friends blog, and I'm planning to speak to her on the phone before we meet up, and it'll definately be somewhere crowded in the middle of town. I'm not telling my parents about her, although I'll tell my friends. My question just is - are there any other precautions I should take to be 100% safe? I'd really really appreciate a detailed answer,
Thanks so much in advance,
Me :):)

I would deff. take a couple friends with you just to be on the safe side. And meeting in a crowded place is great idea. Just be safe :)

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hey, i have been looking into bowdoin college in maine, and their website and all, but what i can't seem to find is what the scool is best for (i.e. performing arts, sciences, etc., etc.) can anyone please help me out?

thank you, everyone willing to help.

Ohh awesome bowdoin college is right up the street from me. Its Mainly an art school.

-theater
-performing arts
-drama
-visual arts.

But heres a site. hope i helpedd

http://academic.bowdoin.edu/academics/

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first off is there anyway to get an STD if you dont do anything sexual? cuz my friend has never done anything like that and apparently she has an STD...how does that work? T H A N K S !

If one his/her parents have an std. Or kissing another person that had std of the mouth

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I was wondering if there is a website to keep a ten year old occupied on. I would like it to have no pictures or videos or music and the most obvious one no porn. Also no viruses and adware/spyware. Oh and no games.

Yeaa you've got to be kidding. I dont actually think there is a site out the like that.

Actually heres one:

http://www.geocities.com/gordonbathgateexperience/annoying.html

Other then that site youll prob have to put your kid in a box with and dictionary.

Sorrry i didnt exactly give you the answer your expecting but i dont think very many people can.

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My boyfriend is way too clingy! he is driving me and my family crazy! Every night he calls me at least 30 times and if I don't pick up he keeps calling and leaving me annoying messages! All he thinks about is me, and I'm not even sure he actually has any friends. I tell him NOT to call sometimes and he does anyways, so I have to unplug the phone because it bothers my family alot. I like him, but man, he needs to stop being so clingy.

What can I do? // How can I set him straight? He never listens to me, so what should I say? Should I break up with him?

I know exactly where your coming from.
i was in a relationship just like that. You should prob. end it Asap because if you continue on with him things will just get worse.

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Tomorrow i have an algebra test and there are a few things on the reivew that I don't understand:

One problem is: One of the zeros of a polynomial is x=1. Use this fact to completely factor: 3x^3 + 4x^2 - 5x - 2. I don't understand how to work it. Do I just plug in 1 for x and solve it that way?

And the other two I don't get say, 'Solve by Factoring' and the problems are: 6x^2 + x - 40 = 0 and 2x^3 - 3x^2 - 18x + 27 = 0.

And the last question is: How do I write an equation in standard form with zeros: -3, 1, and plus or minus 2i?

Thank you very much!

Im not going to be much help because i didnt do so hot in algebra but the first one i believe you plug the 1 into all teh x's and solve it that way.

Sorry.

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I want to get my teeth whitened at Brite Smile but I can't find any websites that tell me how much it costs. I guess it's the "If you have to ask, then you can't afford it." thing, but anyways, anyone who can tell me how much it'll cost tell me please!!!

http://www.britesmile.com/learn/price.asp?tf=0&pc=

I couldnt Figure it out but i got that you can try calling that number.. Sorry not much help

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hey i was just nairing my arms and i think i got a burn on them..is that even possible.

p,s= i only had it on my arms for like 4 minutes

its possible it could have burned you. Your supposed to do a sample test before you do your whole arm. Or maybe 4 minutes was too long.

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Did anyone put rhinestones on their ipod or phone? Is it a good idea or not cuz i dont want to mess up my ipod or phone. I have green, clear, and blue rhinestones and i have a blue ipod so I'm tryin to think of some designs or patterns to put it in any ideas? thanks!

i have never tired it before but i heard that the glue sticks to the phone and when you even try to take it the rhinestones off the glue stays and makes it really sticky.

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I'm 5'2" and I weigh around 120 lbs. Is this normal? I really think that I'm overweight and I'm really self-conscious about it, but people tell me that I'm thin. I don't necessarily think the extra fat shows too much, since I get complimented on how I look a lot.

Also, I'm a bit of a shy person. I find it hard to talk to anyone I find intimidating or higher in social status than I am. Also, I have troubles with boys because I'm so shy.

One last question. The guy I like liked me a couple years ago, and I didn't like him. But for the past 2 1/2 years, I've liked him and I don't know if he likes me. I don't talk to him because I don't see him that often, and I don't know what to do.

Thanks.

Seriously your only like 5-10 pounds over.
I was told to figure your right weight out like this.

5ft-100pds
5'1-105
5'2-110
5'3-115
5'4-120
5'5-125

and so on.

You really shouldnt be afraid of people higher then you. You can talk to anyone you want to talk too. Any guys you want to for the guy that you like maybe you should just strike up a convo if you see him just wave or say hey.

If you need any more help you Can IM me at rhschoolbabe07

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Hey guys, my name is Levi,Im 16, male, 5'11-6' about 155 lbs. I posted here last summer about a girl and i tried to follow what some you people said, and well let's just say, it didn't work...Yeahhh anyways, I met this girl beggining of my sophomore year, "this year", and she is a freshman, completely gorgeous, she plays softball and from what I know we have a lot in common. I talked to her the other day driving home from school on my cell and she said she likes guys who where athletic and confident blah blah, and I can say im both, I lift weights and I play two sports, the only problem is that im afraid to ask her out sometime, she's really intimidating because I've never met a girl like this before and wow, I really wanna get something going. I always here her talking to her friends about how she wants to find the right guy, with a low drama relationship, and im pretty much looking for the same thing. I mean I want it to be fairly serious but I don't want everyone and thier mom involved. How should I approach asking her out, "should it be on a date? A trip to block buster then to my house? With friends out to eat somewhere casual? She seems to be really easy going, and she isn't stuck up and self centered like most girls I know, please help me out...

Levi

You should loosen up.

Your idea is awesome. You should ask if she wants to go out sometime ask to pick her up from home and drive to block buster let her pick out the movie go back to your house and watch it at the end of the movie ask her out. just be like i really like you.

Idk if you like the idea but i tried

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