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I really like this girl...
Hey guys, my name is Levi,Im 16, male, 5'11-6' about 155 lbs. I posted here last summer about a girl and i tried to follow what some you people said, and well let's just say, it didn't work...Yeahhh anyways, I met this girl beggining of my sophomore year, "this year", and she is a freshman, completely gorgeous, she plays softball and from what I know we have a lot in common. I talked to her the other day driving home from school on my cell and she said she likes guys who where athletic and confident blah blah, and I can say im both, I lift weights and I play two sports, the only problem is that im afraid to ask her out sometime, she's really intimidating because I've never met a girl like this before and wow, I really wanna get something going. I always here her talking to her friends about how she wants to find the right guy, with a low drama relationship, and im pretty much looking for the same thing. I mean I want it to be fairly serious but I don't want everyone and thier mom involved. How should I approach asking her out, "should it be on a date? A trip to block buster then to my house? With friends out to eat somewhere casual? She seems to be really easy going, and she isn't stuck up and self centered like most girls I know, please help me out...
Levi
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do u want my brilliant answer...do it. Don't let rejection stop you from doing what you really want to do. It also seems that this girl would be perfect for you and take it from us girls when a girl talks about what her type of guys are and it describes you to the max, then she really wants you. She sounds like a grt GF tooo!
don't whimp out, she wants confidence, give her confidence
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Thanks guys'.
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Something like this happened to me once. I thought this guy was COMPLETELY out of my league when I met him at college so I never did anything about how much I liked him. Two years later he's my best friend and it turns out he likes me too...and oh yeah, he now has a long-term girlfriend. See how easy it is to miss an opportunity and kick yourself for ages after? Exactly. If you like this girl you should definitely go for it. Ask her casually if she'd like to go for a coffee or for something to eat with you one day after school - that's the best way to get to know someone, in a relaxed and familiar environment. And if she says no? Yeah it will suck. But it's NOTHING compared to the feeling of having missed your chance. Go for it ;)
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I'm pretty much in the same situation as you, like i really want to get things going with a guy (cuz im a girl) and your ideas sound really good like the movies and dinner, those are always the cutest dates but just act casual about it and be yourself, dont try to over impress her
i hope i help...at least this is what i would like a guy to do for me
-Janelle-
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You should loosen up.
Your idea is awesome. You should ask if she wants to go out sometime ask to pick her up from home and drive to block buster let her pick out the movie go back to your house and watch it at the end of the movie ask her out. just be like i really like you.
Idk if you like the idea but i tried
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