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The names Julie. i`m 15 years old and love too give advice so just ask me a question and i`ll try to help [:

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i am a 13 year old girl, and i tried my boyfriend's ciggarette the other day, cuz i just wanted to try. he didnt force me into it, i just wanted to try ; like i just said. so then the next day i craved for one soo badly and i bit my nails which i never did before. and i just want some kinda smoke in mah lungs now ! am i addicted already ? what should i do ?

it sounds weird that you would get addicted with one puff but i guess its possible. it sounds like your addicted, if you feel like you HAVE TO have one then buy the chewing gum to quit or eat regular gum whenever you feel like a smoke

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how do u become popular and have alot of friends

i think that you cant really "become" popular. i think it happens when your little and just start school. it you make tons of friends then you'll probably become popular. for now you could just be the best person you can be.

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in my class ther's this guy who sits behind me who's really hot and he blows on my neck and flirts with me but im not sure what to do. i mean he has this huge reputation for like having sex and i want to keep my virginity at least for freshman year! he's a year older and im pretty sure sex is all he's interested in but i really like him and he's really cute! i don't know how to handle this...

just go out with him but if he pressures for sex just say no

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I've been seein this guy for about 6 months now {he's 28} were not officially together {which is not the problem}, but he never asked me out like that, but I do go hang out at this house & we go places together, I've even met some of his friends. I know his last g/f really hurt him so he said he wanted to take thing's slow, which I understand. problem is, we go to the movies & he doesn't even acknowledge the fact that I'm more than a friend..not even holding hands. This has happened twice. We do kiss each other goodnite, when I leave his house, but no kissin while I'm there! lol Am i just stressin something that doesn't need to be stressed or is this just as much a issue as I think it is? {btw, I'm 22} thanks, I'll rate HIGHHH

he said he wants to take things slow... i guess he just meant really slow. if you dont think its worth the wait then move on

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okay ill start at the beging, a while back my b/f and i got into a fight and he thought i broke up with him even though i didn't so a few years went past and i still had feelings for him and well now one of my best friends just broke up with him and it turns out he likes me too and i dont know what to do cux she still likes him and really wants him back but then again so do i, and im super confused cuz she told me not to go out with him but i really really want to so plz help me thanks

if you really like this friend and dont wanna loose her then wait a few weeks or ask her if its ok if you go for it. if you are willing to hurt your friendship then go for it

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I have a project to do for school in social studies, and I was wondering if anyone could help me. I need to know 10 pros and 10 cons for either Gun Control or the Death Penalty. If someone can find out the pros and cons for me, I would really appreciate it. Either one is fine. It's due on Tuesday, so I really need to find out fast!!!!!!!!!! Thank you very much!

no offense but it your project. YOU should be looking it up instead of asking other people to do it for you

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I've always been one of those sneaky gurlz, (16~f) doin everything on da down low. My mom dont kno about none of my boyfriends, nor does anyone else except my sister, and she just recently found out.

Me and dis n*gga have known each otha for a while, we had kindergarten together. So we always been coo i guess, never really talked tho. Now it's like...we're always together. He calls me every night n everything. Everyone keeps saying we're too friendly...

Someone wanna define too friendly for me?

too friendly is going past "just" friends

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is there any way to change your password once you have an account? if so how? thanx. x0

just go to profile settings and change it

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I like this guy I'll call him Brian, when he had a girlfriend he always flirted with me, but Friday his girlfriend broke up with him then he was at a dance I went to and we barely spoke. I kept trying to talk to him but he barely said a word. I'm wondering why he didn't talk to me. Also there's a rumor that he likes me, do you think he does. (Sorry that its long)

he might, ask for his sn online, then you could talk more

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I want to workout my legs. i have no idea how though. im not even sure how to do squats right. pleez help! ( i also want ot kno a website that tells you if u are underweight/overweight... i used to have it but i lost it)

just go to toneteen.com or look on goggle

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hi there i have a problem i fell for a guy online but im married and i think it was a thing i was going throw when i fell for the guy online now ive tryed to give him hints that i dont want to be with him just friends is what i want now but i even left this guy a e-mail telling him not to wait for me it could be years before i ever leave my husband but i dont want to leave him now we worked things out but the guy i fell for online said he will wait for me how do i tell him that i dont want to be with him please help

just say im married and im definately NOT leaving my husband. i would perfer if we didnt talk anymore. if he continues to try to contact you, block him

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Okay well I am 13 years old. I think I am one of the fattest people out their! I weigh about 105, and I am about 5,1 ½ .. There are like 4 people who tease me, and call me fatt because they know it gets to me, and I cry all the time. About 1 week ago I tried making myself throw up. It hurts, but I don't care. I am also on a diet. So the food I eat is healthy still get's vomited out. But oh well. But my two best friends ones a guy who I like love with all my heart, and one is a good girl friend of mine are so pissed that I do this, and tell me not to listen to what people think =/ They said if I continue to do it they'll refuse to talk to me.. Urg! I wanna lose a lot of weigh for summer, and stuff and this is a pretty good way to do it but I dont know because I dont wanna lose my friends anymore =/ .. Ekkkk what to do?

first of all i dont think your fat, if you dont believe me go to nhlbisupport.com/bmi/bmicalc.htm and type in your height and weight and it will tell you if your overweight/underweight or normal. Second dont make yourself throw up!!! thats what bulmic's do (dont mind my spelling) if you find yourself still throwing up see a doctor. your friends want whats best for you

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OK in a flyer for ECKERD (its a drug store)they advertise a disposible camera with a photo CD. Does this mean my pictures can be saved on the CD? Can i make one of those online photo books i always see? How do i go about this?
Thanks for answering

to make an online photo book go to www.picturetrail.com

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I want to loose wait but I crave candy and sweets all the time I do sit ups but I dont loose allot of wait plz help wut can I don

im going to tell you the secret to loosing weigh...ready? EXERCISE! exsercise exercise exercise! try joining a gymand go there 3-4 times a week. then just watch what you eat. you cant eat junk food if you dont own it, so stop buying it! if you go to nhlbisupport.com/bmi/bmicalc.htm it tells you if your overweight/underweight or normal

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i was over at my friends house for her birthday and my boyfriend called my house my siter answered the phone and said he was going to dump me! she told me he said that it was because i was too young but were only a year apart and also b/c he thinks i like this guy which i dont. i dont kno what to do i call him back and everything was fine what do i do? do i tell him i heard what he said or... idk HELP!

just tell him u heard what he said and reassure him that you dont like another guy and ask him if there is another reason that he wanted to dump you b/c if your olny a year apart...

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Okay,I'm goin out with this guy.And im starting to get sick of him pickin on me insted of loving me.Like the other day at a game he was like hittin my leg,i know hes just kidding.But its getting on my nerves..

just say " i would prefer if blah blah blah" good luck

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i just thought about this, and figured i'd ask it.


i guess i've never really seen past what happens after college. i've always i guess thought that after you got your degrees, they just handed out the jobs to you at graduation (i didn't REALLY think this, its an example). so where do you find your job? are their listings for them in the newspaper? i mean like career jobs, not just teenage quick cash sort of things. do you keep your ears peeled for the mentioning of a job?

there are tons of jobs in the newspaper, you could probably even look online

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My parents might get a divorce. And i feel like i should do somthing to try and save their marriage. Is there anyone who has gone through the same problems that i am and can help?

iv gone through it too... theres nothing you can do...besides if you think about it, it might make you parents more happy, maybe you'll be happier too, dont you get tired of listening to them fight?

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my computer has a porn virus and it says uninstall so i click it and it STILL pops up and it wont ever uninstall. so can any one help me to get rid of this disgusting porn virus

if you go to www.panicware.com you can download a pop-up stopper. just click download and pick the one you want. it also has links to get rid of adware and spyware. if you click back to home and look to your right it says top support links, under that it says Still getting pop-ups?, click that and it has links to get rid of spyware and adware. good luck

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lately I have been having dreams and then the next day what happened in my dream happens. Can anyone help me?

that happens 2 me sumtimes 2... i think its fine

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