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SO my bro's 2 years and I'm the only child besides him my mom has. My grandma potty trained me and now my grandma, who was talkin care of him, is now gettin over a stroke. My brother is always always ALWAYS taking out his pampers unless we put on a jockey shorts or a pants. This mornin...he like number 2'd and it was on his hands and everywhere and omg it was totalll gross and I think it's time for himm to potty train. we have no experience in it so I wans wonderin: if ya'll got ne sites? Any tips? How to start and how to teach him?

I had to help potty train my lil' brother. A good idea is try putting fruit loops, cheerios, apple jacks. Any circle cereal in the toilet and tell him to aim and try to hit them itll get them excited to use the bathroom. But here is a website.

http://www.babycenter.com/refcap/toddler/toilettraining/4684.html

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this is kinda gross i gues but w.e.okay so i have had discharge for like 1-2 years now and it went like on and off for a while and then came back and i dont know like am i ganna get my period soon or something. so like how long do people ussally have it for before they get there period....is that even natural to have discharge for like a year and half?

i believe it is natural and discharge wont go away. You should start your period soon girls usually have discharge for 2 years before the start their period.

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well im going to disney world in the spring (june) and i need some ideas what to bring. anything special or special clothes that are better than otheres

like i def know im wearing a bathing suit but i dont know what else to wear and bring that would benefit me the most because i dont want to bring my whole closet but i dont wanna go in like jean shorts and find out they dont work and not have any other kinda pants


and i live by kennywood and go there everyyear so its not my first expieirnce at an amusement park!

I went last june.

Bring shorts
tank tops
shirts

Nothing that will keep you hot because you will problly be burning up. Disneyland is very crowded during the summer and lots of people plus the heat will not be too great..

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i always get swearmarks and they are so embarrasing.. does anyone no how to prevent them or get rid of them or something?
thankssss

Probly need to use different deoderant. I use adidas gel it works really well. and you can buy it everywhere.

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is there anyway to slow down your period? like i got it on saturday and i really really need it to be down by friday cause im going away. please help!! ill rate super high!

Your period should probly be done because thats 6 days. If its longer wear a tampon but there really isnt a way to slow down your period.

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hey!can a girl with my problem answer this and a guy who actually knows what he's talking about?? i'm 14 and am a DD, i have a huge ass, and just so i can get the best advice- i happen to think i'm really pretty! (so not conceited) but i feel like guys only like me for that and i don't do anything with guys so i don't have a rep or anything but i'm completely embarresed about my boobs and i hate wearing....shirts in getneral. even through my sweatshirts you can see them!!! don't tell me to be happy with what i've got because its notpossible. i've tried every kind of bra, nothing makes me look smaller than a D or a C. what can i do?!?!?!?! THEIR HUUUUGEEEEE!!!!!! can a girl with my problem answer this and a guy who actually knows what he's talking about??

I wear shirts with the built in bra they work wonderful for me. Or you can try a Sports bra.

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Iam 16 years old and I was wondering how old do I have to be to move out without a parent's permission in the state of georgia so I can move in with my boy friend?

Thanks in advice.

18 most likely thats the age you are considered an adult. Your only 16 why would you want to move in with yourboyfriend? What would happen if you two Broke up? You probly wouldnt be able to go back with your parents. Think about it are you ready to move out at such a yound age? I hope i helped good luck.

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Ok, so right now I have a 50% in math. Which is failing. I have to bring it up to a 70% by April 4 and I don't know how. I went three times already to ask my teahcer for help and it doesn't work. I stink at memorizing things. I really don't want a tutor because the one my mom would send me to is my crush's mom! I'm in level one.. taking algebra and it's just so hard. I have A's in all my other classes but this one. My teacher only counts hw and quizzes. What should I do??

Explain to your teacher that you don't understand what is going on and ask her if you could come in a fter school to get some help Or ask someone in the class to explain algebra to you so you can get caught up. Algebra was a really hard course for me too. If she only counts homework and quizzes. Always do your homework like every night and do really well on it. So when it comes to quizzes youll know what is going on. If you need any more help leave on ein my Inbox.

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okay i wear a regular tampon for like 8 hours and when i go to take it out it hurts. what should i do ?

Either do not keep it in for 8 hours. Because That is the time limit to actually keep them in so try taking them out more often and changing them. Or go dont in the flow like if you use Super go down to medium or lite. And you have to take them out in the same position you put them in. like if your put one foot on the toilet you have to put one foot on the toilet to take it out. Thats all i can think of if it still hurts stop using them for a little while

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Well, I'm having a celeb-themed party soon where you have to dress up as a celebrity, i'm really looking forward to it, but i need to gets something that looks like a red carpet, wont rip when people walk over it and isn't too expensive. I'm really not sure what I could use though. Does anyone have any ideas?

You could get red Fabric from walmart or a craft store.

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Hey there. =]

I looked in your info thing & it says you work at CVS. Can you tell me how old you have to be to work there?

THANKS! =]

Depends on where You live but one of the girls i work with started at 15. So if your 15 you can try but They may have you wait till your 16.

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okay so everyone at school calls me a slut n even my friends. like i no there jsut kidding and all but it really bugs me and i want it to stop. ive had sex with 4 people.. is it THAT slutty? im 15. i dont no wat to do i just wish it never happend. i just want to earn respect from my friends and clear my bad reputation. ]

any ideas?? it would be greatly appreciated

Actually To tell the Truth that is pretty SLutty.
4 Guys im 17 havent slept with any. The only Way to get Respect is Earn It and you probly need to stop having sex. Your only 15 Thats like asking for the label "slut" Sorry its probly not waht you wanted to hear.

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I want to become a musician!!!But I dont know how to start,continue,or end lyrics!!!I need to know some steps on making a song!!!(I alredy have an electric guuitar that I can play the song on!!!)

Im sorry i cant help you with this because i have no experience with musicc. But here is a website im not sure if itll help you.

http://www.tutorials.com/09/0917/0917.asp

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i can't describe these annoyances that i experience daily so i'm just going to give examples of what happen

*yesterday my mom came out of the bathroom and the door closed behind her but i could only here that it hit the door frame and didn't like lock all the way so i'm sitting there holding myself against the couch until i couldn't stand it any more i had to go and pull it shut

* my brother asked for some gum (it was orbit) so they have rows of gum right? well i was having the hardest time deciding which piece to give him.. i just closed my eyes and grabbed one and it happened to be on the back row... well after i handed it to him i had to take the last one from the front row and fill in the missing space in the back ?????????????

* other weird stuff is like i'll be sittin gher and just HAVE to say a certain word or pronounce a certain letter.. just with my tongue like L or the R sound, not out loud just with my tongue and in my head

how strange is this? i've noticed stupid stuff like this before but now its like everyyy day!! it's so annoying! are these signs of ocd? i feel like some freak. : / please help, and if you do think its ocd.. where do i go from there? how do i like break this habit? even while i was writing this i had to delete certain letters and retype them just cuz i had to i didn't make a mistake i just wouldn't feel right if i didn't do it. : / ugh this is so stupid and frustrating but i don't want it to get worse please help!!

Theres a chance it could be Ocd Or it could just be habits. If it takes up more then an hour of your day then there is more of a chance of its being ocd. Person below me said it runs in the family. It can But not all the time.

For help you could ask your family doctor about it. Need anymore help drop in my inbox because i kinda know alot about ocd because im doing it as my school project.

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just gonna come out wit the question i wanna kno. when using a tampon do you use the first whole or 2nd whole? sorry im a moron :-( but im going to FL and i dont wanna wear pads the whole time im 15 so yah know i think im old enough haha.

but please answer..

Theres only one Hole it will fit in. Theres your peehole and the 2nd one. so it goes in your 2nd one. If you feel alot of pain trying to get it in then you either got the wrong hole or your doing it wrong.

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I cant stand my dad any more. He drives me insane! i have this problem with people making noises when they eat, talking when im doing homework/reading/watching tv and then blowing their noses like in the living room. All of which he is WELL aware of and he keeps doing it. I cant even stand to be in the same room as him anymore. Is this a sign of OCD or something like that? How can i learn how to chill about these things?
Thank you! I'll rate high

I dont think its a sign of ocd because ocd is like rituals and obessesions. I hate all of these things but maybe he is doing it because you dont like it and it pisses you off. If your doing homework and hes doing it thats kind of messed up. Dont let him know its bothering you and eventually he'll stop if not talk to your mom aor a sibling about it. Sorry if its not what you want to hear.

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hey that was helpful advice u gave me but didn't go the way i planned. well today i tried asking her out but she said no. maybe it was becuz all my friends were around and they kept saying go give her a hug i didn't giv a hug but she said no to me. so should i ask again but only bring my best friend. plus she was hiding her face when i came out to her. im also afraid that i think she is madder at me now.

Maybe wait a week see if she talks to you if you continue to ask her out itll get kinda annoying.

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What type of questions do they ask you in a job interview? I'm applying for a job at a bunch of fast food places.

Here is a wonderful website it'll give you probly exactly what you are looking for and these are the types of questions they will ask you. And since you are trying fastfood your prob. need to know how to do simple math.

http://www.gettysburg.edu/college_life/career/PDF/interviewing.pdf

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Started when i had a crush on this girl. she didn't know that until an accident... i started writing her a poem and then hid it away in my desk untill the right time. after a few days i forgot about it. i asked my best friend if he had seen a little paper but when i pulled out my books he saw it. i told him i was going to give it to her myself but i was too shy so he was going to do it for me. but then i changed my mind and took the poem before it was given to her. i threw it away but when i turned around and left someone got it and gave it to her i turned away in embarrassemnet and i saw her read it. she smiled but also freaked out. then after a few days my classmates started making fun of and embarrassing us. man i feel so guilty of making her life a living hell. so then i e-mailed her saying im sorry but then the word got out and it made things worse i think. my friends suggested i should go out with her but im too shy and afraid that she is mad at me and if i ask her out it could make things worse but i do want to ask her out but im shy.we were going to have a dance in february but it got moved to april. i could apologize to her at the dance but she might avoid me. also i think she is mad at me. but sometimes during some embarrassing times i sometimes see her smile or sometimes i get the feeling that she also likes me. what should i do???

This is kind cute in a way it made me smile. When she got the poem and it made her smile its a good thing maybe she freaked out because because her friends were around or something. Im not sure but Maybe you could try and go up to her in the hallway and small talk with her ask her if she is mad at you. If she says yes then be like im sorry about what has gone on i dint mean for it to happy the way it did and you coul try and make it up to her some way. If she says no then try and ask her out. Thats all i can really think of but i wish you luck and tell me how it gooes.

kim

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I'm applying for Baskin Robbins, and I was just wondering if there's a higher chance of me getting a summer job if I turn it in this month as opposed to turning it in the week before summer starts. Because I told my friend I was going to apply tomorrow, & she just told me to wait until the summer to apply.

Also, does anyone know any other place I could apply that hires 15 year olds? (Something like restaurants/fast food/etc)

When you fill out the application it asks when you are available to start. just put you want it as a summer job.

umm
Grocery stores hire at 15 such as: shaws,albertsons,winn dixie,publix,hannaford
mcdonalds, burger king, some subways might depending on were you live.

Hope i helped.

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