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I'm danika :) i'm 17 and i've been an advice columnist for almost 2 years i'm not on here a lot anymore but feel free to leave me and inbox and i'll get back to you asap

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my friend just told me she was talking to my boyfriend ont he hpone and he told her he didnt really like me anymore =[ and i kno shes not lieing cause like i dont kno you can just tell and cause the way hes been atcing . and knowing him he won't tell me this for like a week and i dont kno what to do

you need to take control and tell him about what you herd.. and ask him what he doesn't like about you so you can change it... because if he won't talk to you for a week you need to talk about it
to him or else your never oging to talk about it you know? well if i can do anyting else let me know... hope i heleped

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i really need help .. ok

now just now i was talking to my boyfriends friend and he was like h/o your boyfriend has to talk to you and i was like ok. and i waiting for about 5 mins and he just randomly signed off. and like earlier i looked in his rpofile and it said nothing.. so im so confused. what should i do.

don't worry im sure everything is just fine... maybe if he was over his friends house he was didn't have anything in his profile because he didn't have time to put stuff in it .. and if he is at his house.. maybe he was reduing it and took everything out or something.. i think it's all fine that your over reacting just a little.. so just talk to him and ask him why he signed off and stuff.. im sure theres a good explaination for it

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how do you kno if your cherry as been popped..does it hurt..bleed..do u have to have your period?

no .. you don't have to have your period... it shouldn't hurt... but yes it should bleed.. and if i does hurt.. it will only hurt a tad bit hope i helped if you need anything else let me know

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hey.. im jw how to get a backround onto my advice column from www.nuthinbutnet.com. could you help?

i would be glad to help!! let me see if i can tell you how to do it here and if i didn't help and you need further instructions leave me an inbox and i'll go into more detail.. okay find the background you want.. right click and scroll down to properties and click.. then highlight the url and go to your column settings and paste the url into the Page background image (URL): section of your column settings if that's not what you wanted or need anythign further let me now

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what is a "flamer"? my friend called my other friend that and they got into a huge fight! what does it mean?

it's someone who is gay hope i helped let me know if you need anytign else

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14/f
Is this just life?
Like almost all my friends has a boyfriend and i have not even had a good relationship with a guy. i feel like im not too good enough for other people. Is there going to be someone there? Is there any way i could do to make someone like me? Please Help!!!

make sure your not chasing them and being overly obsessive about them because that turn a guy off.. try and play hard to get .. they like the chase.. you can't really MAKE a guy like you... i mean it's okay if you don't have good relationships with guys.. i'm sure one day you'll find someone who is really intrested in you.. but don't worry about it... and you gotta give yourself the confidence to talk to guys so you CAN develope a good relationship with them.. hope i helped and if you need anyting else just leave me and inbox

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i was wondering if it is ok to have your horse as your best freind

of course! there is nothing wrong with that... i mean you can tell your horse AnYtHiNg and it won't repeat it.. and you can even sometimes see in there eyes that they can feel your pain and they are listening to you and understanding you 100%! hope i helped if you need anything else just leave me an inbox

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hi this may sound stupid but was is a dildo and vibrator used for?
thx

okay a dildo is like a guy's penis and some people use it for maybe oral sex.. or to like play around with and practice on.. usually it is what gay girl couples use for there "pleasure" and a vibrator is something girls use to get horney off of.. in other words they are both used in a form of masturbation for girls if you need anything else leave me an inbox.. hope i helped!

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well i am 13 going on 14(in like 20 days) and i dont have cramps or anything, but i sometimes get a little white stuff, but not alot, and not that often. will i be expecting my first period soon?

you might be .. it's sorta like the first signal that you might be... and you will get that a lot... when you are about to get your period etc. it's goign to start to be a daily thing.. be ready to get it tho.. because 14 is the average age to get your period.. so yes.. expect it! but i can't tell you if your going to get it or not.. so just be ready.. it is a sign that in the next year you will be getting it ... hope i helped

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Hmm, this is kind of random, but I'm not sure what CD I should buy next. I like classic rock mainly, like Pink Floyd.
Any ideas?

hmm.. there's led zeplin.. or metalica.. meatloaf.. queen.. how bout them?

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well i really like queen's greatest hit's cd there is 2 cd's it's really cool ... or led zeppelin's BBC sessions which is also a 2 cd one.. or meatloaf:Bat out of hell... there all good ones.. i say get any that is like a greatest hitts or soemthign around that... hope i helped!

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please dont give useless answers, this is a serious question, so if your answer will waste my time by reading it, please dont answer. thanks and now the question; How long do people averagely have sex for? Is an hour and a half too long? And one more question is it more protective if the guy wears 2 condoms? Thanks in advance to the people who actually answer this with good answers, and not ridiculous ones.

P.S. i will rate high.

there is no really set time that you can have sex... averagely i would have to say maybe an hour? no an hour and a half is fine... no.. i don't think it is more protection... it is actually less protection because there is more of a chance for the condom to break.. what you could maybe do is have him wear a condom.. and you wear a girl condom you know? but one condom for a guy is plenty... hope i helped!

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how can you qet an std if you use a condom while giving head? i rate high!!!

you can't.. the only way you could is if the condom broke.. condoms are used to protect against hiv and aids.. but just be aware that the condom may break.. but it is rare that it would..

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what is a good background site to set up a background for my site?

www.lalaalyssa.com

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my puppy keeps biting people! he's a two year old doberman pincher, and he's absolutely adorable! but he has this problem with biting. he's made all my friends terrified of him, and the elderly lady across the street had to have stitches (which i had to pay for) when brownie bit her face. (just her cheek) i love him to death, and he hasn't bitten me since he was 6 months old, but i don't know if i should keep him if he's going to attack everyone he meets!

you need to keep him away from everyone.. if he bite the wrong person they could press charges and your dog could get put to sleep!... if you should keep him is all up to you.. i think you should give him another chance.. but i think you should send him to dog school.. so he learns what to do and what not to do.. you know? but it's all up to you.. if you love him.. i think you should try and do everything in your power to get him to stop what he is doing... hope i helped... and best wishes..

xox.....

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Does coffee speed up your metabolism? or anything with a lot of caffeine actually

no. it speeds up your nervious system.. hope i helped

xox.....

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I am trying to plan a great slumber party for me and my friend but I need some help on finding some great slumber party activities like pillow fights,chick movies,and etc.

I will rate very high for great ideas!!!

chick movies:
- white chick would be fun to watch
- cellular was a great movie..
- the notebook if your looking for a love story


other stuff:
- truth or dare

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to start off, im going to a flea market for fun with 2 guys and another girl. i know there are a ton of creeps so i really dont know what to wear. the 2 guys are punk & goth and im in between girly and rocker type style. SO should i go for a jean skort with a t shirt or my ripped jeans and a tshirt? there would be pros and cons to each...i have good legs (lol, i get told so often.) and that would drive the guys im with crazy, but im concerned about being stalked by some of the creeps. jeans...well its summer. let me know! theres no right or wrong answers!

show off your legs!

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Are there any ways to speed up my metabolism?

yes actually there are.. i didn't know how to explain it to you so i looked up a website they has some ways that you can here it is ~~> http://magazines.ivillage.com/redbook/dh/diet/articles/0,,284479_577038,00.html

hope i helped! xox.....

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i'm 15 male when this girl calls i don't know what to talk about i really like her help me !!!!!!!!!

hmm ... you can talk about ANYTHING AND EVERYTHING with girls here are a few topics

- crazy things you've done
- how her day was
- earlier relationships
- her friends
- most embarissing moments etc.

try them.. they are really good ones to talk about.. expecially the 1st and last one.. hope i helped and good luck!

xox.....

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Is it true that not eating can make you GAIN weight rather than lose it?

(it's not that I'm planning on not eating, it's just a question)

no because food has calories.. and if you don't eat you will burn up all your calories and then you will start to burn the ones you have stored until there are not many other calories to burn and then you start to deteriorate... hope i helped..

xox.....

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