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Hey guys im Michelle!! Some people think im annoying, some people think im crazy.. but who knows im just ME!! I bite my nails, i know its a habbit i have to stop. I love getting my nails done, its my obsession. My goal in life is to become famous, but who doesnt wanna be? Im mean to people if they're mean to me first, otherwise whats the reason to be mean to someone? I dont understand life.. although it can be fun sometimes. I love the color pink, and when i say that people automatically think im a girly girl. I love to dance and sing, although i dont see myself doing it when i get older..

advice

At my dance i danced with this guy...im a freshman and hes a junior...he talks to my cousin...i LOVE this kid hes perfect..people tell me he likes me but i dont know... so i wanna go to school and when i walk by he just drops his jaw at me what can i do to make my outside look good..im not changing my personality or ne thing for a guy but what are good makeup tips for a light tan and hair tips for dark brown curly hair with thin blonde highlights?? thanks sooo much :oD

well i am not lesbian but u seem cute to me LOL!! i dont think u need to change anything bcuz u are beautiful inside and out! he relizes it at least bcuz if he likes u like you say he does like his jaw droping and everything then he likes you i promise but some good tips are bringing out your eye color if you have pretty eyes and culing your hair straighting it!! and have fun with it!
HOPE I HELPED!
~MICHELLE

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Hello!! Hi i normally give out advice but i need some! bad! Well i have a really bad habit and its biting my nails. It sounds normal but the habit's so bad that when i quit smoking it was easier(!). Now when i bite my nails i bit it down so its just a couple millimerers!! (ouchhiee) Also, when half of my nail is gone a chew and pull my skin around my nail, to like the second layer of skin!and it burns when im peeling it like downward but it..iono its painful but its a habit. i dont realy cut as much as i chew my nails! its turning into something way worse! does anyone have ne ideas how i can stop! il rate u a five..:) help me plz!

i have the same problem!! well there are a few ways to stop!! one way is get your nails done, and since your nails will b pretty you wont want them to get ruined so you wont bite them keep on getting them done! Second way my mom got this disgusting stuff and put it on my nails (it is like poison i swer lol) and wen i bite it, it tastes like shit lol! im me for the name i forgot wat it is called!! another way is to have your parents buy u somthing really special or somthing like a purse or somthing you have wanted for ever and if they see you biteing ur nails tell them to take it away untill u stop!! lol that isnt really helpful but that is what my mom did!!
HOPE I HELPED!!
~MICHELLE

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does anyone know of zit cleansers,creams,or pads whatever for oily face please help i donno what to try

PRO ACTIVE!! it works for me!! if not i no more creams!!
hOPE I HELPED!!
~MICHELLE

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my brother smokes pot and well he is 21 and he has done drugs since about 5th grade and i know he does it but he wont just come out and say it his friend is so stupid he got high of a air can while me and my little sister were ther in the room right next to them and my brother made up that he might have just had a cesure should i tell him that i know he does drugs and i think it is stupid or just keep quiet and not get involved please help i am worried about him

well he is your brother! and you should b worried about him!! so i say tell him or you will regret it!! i know that he will say shut up and you have to just tell him your point of view!! i mean you have to tell him wat will happen even if he already knows!! Have you told your parents? if not TELL THEM! and also you hsould get yourself involved bcuz it is his life he is putting at risk! make him a short letter if you are scared to go face to face wit him!
Dear brother,
Is this wat you think of life? throwing it all away? I want to look out for you, because i know wat is the best for you, and you apperently dont srrry to say :(!! .......................

love always,
YOU!!
i started it out for you now u have to finish it with your feelings!!
HOPE I HELPED!!
~Michelle!!
PS GOOD LUCK

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(I'm a 16 yr old girl) Me and my 2 bffs are throwing a halloween party for 15-20 of our friends. We are having it at one of my 2 bff's house- a million dollar mansion! How should we decorate it? I was thinking it'd be so much fun to do a murder mystery- but is that too juvenile? What activities should we do? Anything else you want to add would be great too. I'll rate if it helps!

Luv Y'all!
Becks

HEYY BECKSS!! well my friend and i did the same thing for her bday!! in one of the rooms you can have a haunted house!!
SETUP: make spagetti as the brain
make jellow as the liver
take a mushroom as the hart
and i forgot the rest lol but you can ask me for them but you kinda get the idea!
then blindfold each guest and take them into the room put wierd music that will scare them and have them touch each object then wen they touch them tell them wat each object is for example if they touch the jellow say you are touching the liver of a person (somthing like taht).
A murder mystery is GREAT that would b so much fun!! you can also decorate it with odd looking things that freek people out!! hahahahha and u can have fun party games, but if u have a murder mystery then i dont think you should have party games!!
HOPE I HELPED!!
~MICHELLE!
ps i no that i didnt really help but i hope i did!! oh and i also have ideas if you dont do the murder mystery!!

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i'm in eighth grade and my mom doesnt think girls my age should have boyfriends. im not really close with her either. and ive never had a bf either. i dont know what to tell her if i get asked out..? please help, thx !

i have the same problem!! lol anyway..... even if you arent close with ur mom she know's wats best for you!! i mean really!! if you eant to have a bf just talk to her about it and have her set some boundries if she lets you like you cant have sex (well doii) and you cant stay up till 3 in the morning talking to him! u no wat i am saying? so the only way to go about it is to talk to her!!
HOPE I HELPED!!
~MICHELLE
PS IF THAT DIDNT WORK YOU CAN IM ME ON QTMICHELLE26 and i will tell you wat to do!

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hey i have brite blonde hair and my hair is 4 inches past my shoulders... my homecoming is coming up and i dont know how i should do my hair becuz my mom doesnt want me to go somewhere to get it done... my dress is black and pink and its like 5 inches past my knees kinda flowly.. how should i do my hair and makeup?? Thanks!!! * I rATE! *

okay well you can curl it make it straight and u no how u sed ur dress has pink in it put pink bows or flowers in it or somthing im me for more ideas cuz my sister does hair so ya lol!!
HOPE I HELPED!!
~MICHELLE

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ok here we qo :
i've known this boy josh since 4th grade and from the first day i like feel in love . lol and he's everything he;s hott (lol im not shallow) and he's a gr8 person and the funny thinq is he can qet ANY girl he wanted in a snap but he doesnt qet any . lol srry anywaysz back to my story . i alwaysz help him qet crushes and ii always help him wid his love life lol but everytime i do i fall mroe in like with him (not love im only 13 lol ) . anywaysz me and him are qood friends but i just wnated to know if there's any chance he'd like me one day . if not is there a way to make him like me?

Thank You ,
Ariella*

AWW OMG THAT IS SO CUTEE!! well to answer your questions yes! there will b oneday he relizes that he likes you bcuz you are prob a wounderful girl who loves to have fun! and you dont need to make him like you he already does he just doesnt relize it yet i promise that one day all of the sudden he will b like I LOVE YOU ARIELLA!! lol
HOPE I HELPED!
~MICHELLE
ps if u need to no ways to make him LIKE you more just im me qtmichelle26

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When I was 13 I found out that I have a sister that had been put up for adoption. I had grown up thinking that I had two sisters and it was devistating to think that I had another one that I may never know and be able to love. So, I swore that one day I would find her. Back in March I did find her. I had searched for so long that I really felt that I would never find her and when I did I was afraid that since I grea up in a dysfunctional family and we weren't wealthy or anything that we wouldn't be good enough for her. Well, she is wonderful. We went through the DNA testing and when we found out it was just amazing. She came out for a visit in April and since then I have gone to see her twice. We live in seperate states. The two sisters and I that grew up together have the same father but she (2nd to the oldest) has a different father. My father is dead now (long story) but our mother is still living. Mom has a long history of drug abuse and she does not want my Sister to know about it.

This is my question. I think that she is noticing that Mom isn't as close to her as she is our oldest and youngest sisters. They e-mail and Mom calls about once a month or so but she and I talk weekly and on the internet every night. The other two sisters rarely e-mail her and they don't call her. I know that she doesn't feel as connected to the family as she would like to and I feel responsible because I was the one that went looking for her. There are times that she tells me that it really hurts her feelings and I am not sure what to say.

I love her so much, she is just fantastic and had a terrible life growing up. Her adopted Dad wound up in prison and her adopted Mom comitted suicide when she was a teenager. I know that she has abandonment issues because of all of that and now I am scared that meeting her bio family is just adding to those issues because of their distance. I wouldn't take for knowing and having the chance to be in my sister's life and her in mine but sometimes I feel so guilty for causing her even more grief.

Did I do the right thing by finding her or was I just being selfish because I missed her so much being in my life? I am just afraid that my love for her just isn't enough to make up for all of the time that she has done without and now that she has found her bio family that maybe the dream of what they were was better than what we are.

Confusing and long I know but anyone with input would be appreciated.

WOW!! i am so srry about wat happend!!
YOU DID THE RITE THING u would have regreted not loking for her and even if ur mom is wierd like that then i dunno wat to say about her. but you just found half of ur life if you no wat i am saying lol! you totally did the right thing! and good job finding her! WOW!! i mean even if she doesnt relize the love you have for her and how much you did for her then you have to prove it to her! you risked a lot in your life to find her and now that you did hold on to her for ever and everr!! wow i am proud of you!! omgg u are very lucky and even if ur mom has a problem explain to her wat this means to you!
HOPE I HELPED!!
~MICHELLE
p.s. srry if i didnt anwer ur question!! but wow i am gonna admire u forever~!

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When I was 17, everything was going great in my life. I had a job, a car, a boyfriend, and family that loved me. But my great life soon turned into a nightmare-I got a phone call, my mom and dad were in the hospital. They were driving when a car had hit them, and they died 3 days later. I'm 20 now, and I take care of my 13 year old sister and 9 year old brother. I have so much stress being a 20 year old parent. Sometimes I just break down and want to die. Of course, that's not an option. I need help, how can I keep up with working full time and taking care of my two siblings. I dont have family that could help me, I'm all on my own! Any advice would be helpful. Thank you.

aww!! *tear* wow i cant even think of being in your position!! well i mean i just need to tell you something... you have a 13 year old sister she is going through hormonal changes and thinks about boy like 247!!! so if i were you i would be tough on her bot so tough that she doesnt have freedom but you dont want her with the wrong group of ppl and have sex and stuff at 13!! set some boundries i mean like you have to b home by 9 and do your homework right when you get home and stuff! you might not have time for all this but at the end they will appriciate it!! she is old enough to babysit rite? so why noy let her babysit with 1 only 1 of her friends (so it wont b a makeout party lol) and teach her how to cook some meals or you can cook b4 u go to work and just have her microwave it for dinner! i mean i no that it is harder than it seems but you have a life also! if you have a boyfriend to work! dont b like oh hey forget you i have a family to take care of! make him help too!! i mean you need to make him go to the market buy stuff you no!! make your brother do stuff also like tydey up the house and stuff!! and to answer you question you are only 20 you have a life it isnt your full respnsiblity to become a mom no one ever asked you to become a parent! so if they want a good life they have to listen to you! they have to understand that you are only 20!! sorry for the long message!! *tear*
HOPE I HELPED!!
~MICHELLE

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Do yall think that there is someone for everyone? because right now im thinking that no one is right for me ... i mean every guy i date or "talk" to isnt the right guy and ive never had a longer relationship than 3 weeks! please answer! -kayla

YESS YOU MIGHT NOT FIND HIM/HER UNTIL YOU ARE OLDER! i mean some ppl cant find someone till they are 30 why start looking now!?
HOPE I HELPED
~MICHELLE

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Ok, I like the whole “crimp” style, but when I crimp my hair it goes all poofy. Is there any way I can still crimp my hair w/o it going poof on me? Thnx everyone!

ya!! put frizz remedy in it!! and then iron it!
HOPE I HELPED!
~MICHELLE

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I need some help in planning a 21st Birthday Party!!! It doesn't even have to be a party,just something to do with a best friend,or a small group of friends.Please don't say "Go get drunk!!" cuz that's not my style,I mean I may have a drink or two but not get wasted!!Thanks in advance! And I will rate all answers!!

HAPPY BIRTHDAY!! well some cute ideas would b have a cute little 5 year old party sleepover games truth or dare games and stuff like that and if there is boys do spin the bottle and fun games like that and as you sed dont say get drunk well i mean if you want to have a few drinks play the letter game you have to name a place that starts with the a letter of the alphabet you go around the room until you get to z and everytime you dont answer corectly you have to have a drink! i have never played it but i saw it on the cosby show lol!! anyway you can also have a sleepover and talk about boys boys and BOYS LOL!!
HOPE I HELPED!!
~MICHELLE!
PS I HAVE MORE PARTY IDEAS JUST IM ME ON QTMICHELLE26 or just ask me!! lol!!

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Well, Sometimes my friends can be really full of themselves. They can be stuck up and annoying. I love them to death but it bugs me so much. Actually sometimes I like to hang out with my my boyfriend and his guy friends more, but i still need my GIRLYS! please help me figure out a way to not be like them (stuck up ect.) and deal with them without breaking our friendship.
thanx!

OMG YOU SOUND LIKE ME LOL MY FRIENDS ARE ALL LIKE THAT!! ANYWAY..... WAAT I DID WITH MY FRIENDS IS I SAID THAT DOES IT REALLY MATTER AND ONE OF MY FIRNEDS SAY OH I GOT MY CARTLIGE PIERCED I HAVE A BOYFRIEND AND STUFF N I SED WHAT WOULD IT DO TO OUR LIVES THAT YOU ARE TELLING US? LOL
HOPE I HELPED!
~MICHELLE

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Well I like this guy lets call him "Shawn", well we have all the same classes except one and well I havent talked to him ever! Please tell me someways to get him to notice me a little more than the other girls in class? (like what do you guys like in girls and such)

Thanks

hehehe!!
1. what does he like in a girl? someone cute chearleader type?
2. according to what he likes you should not 'change' yourself yourself forhim but i mean talk to him more!
3. if he wont talk to you YOU should go to him!!
4. bump into him and you have to talk that way!
5. be yourself if nothing else works!!
HOPE I HELPED!
~MICHELLE
p.s. if those dont work you can ask me for more ideas i have many!! lol

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Okay during the summer i lost my virginity to this guy, well tonite i went over to his house and we are like best friends now but i miss him and i really want him.. it makes me sad to see him cuz he is always talking to girls and never talks to me about what happened should i tell him how i feel or not

i think you sould go for it!! YOU SHOULD NEVER LET A CHANCE LIKE THIS PASS!! i mean wat is the worst he can do? i mean he cant say " oh u are a loser for saying that i dont wanna b friends with you anymore" lol i mean that is stupid he might like wat he is hearing and consider your thoughts and think about you!!
HOPE I HELPED!!
~MICHELLE

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my best friend is always singing this song and she really wants to put it on her tripod but she doesnt no what its called. its goes "Hey ya"..... "hey yaaaaa" "hey ya" "hey yaaaa"
thanx

(band)outcast (song)hey ya!!
HOPE I HELPED
~MICHELLE

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I have this friendin 6 th grade and a sister in 8th, my friend likes my sis. He said that she was hot( no lie). He said it right in my face...i told him i felt like barfing and i dont want him to get 2 close to my sis. Am i being 2 defensive about my sis?

NO!! i no how you feel lol!! well okay he might think that she is hot but still he if gets to no your sister then things might get a little wierd. BUT I PROMISE YOU your sister wouldnt do anything with a 6th grader she would prob think she is too cool for him lol! but still u arent being defensive over your sister you are doing the right thing!!
HOPE I HELPED!
~MICHELLE
p.s. if u need anything more for this question or anything else just ask me!

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1st of all im 17/f...me and a bunch of friends are all going out to dinner and to the movies on halloween and were all gonna dress up and i dont kno what to be... i wanna be something good not like a witch or nething but i dont wannahave some big costume and i wanna still look cute but i dont kno what to be any ideas?

well if your friends havent found anything to b yet you guys can b catchup and mustard or somthing or you guys can b butterflies or you guys can b playboi bunnies lol there all all sorts of things you can b you can b a pink lady or a care bear!
if you need more ideas i have alot!!
HOPE I HELPED!
~MICHELLE

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Hi. i like this boy that likez a cheerleader and she is so annoying she doesnt like him but he wont get over her. he doesnt know i exsist and i rele rele like him. wat should i do?¿? do i tlk to him. do i not like him ne more help me out please!!!




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Kitcatt612

aww you are so cute!! lol i think that you sould bump into him he is bound to talk to you like that or you can b the strong one and talk to him and stuff ask to go to the movies or somthing!
hope i helped
~michelle

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