Well I'm not sure and I mean I'm Really not sure if I like my guy friend as a close friend like a brother or as a boyfriend. What are some signs or things that tell I probably like a guy as a more than a friend and as just a friend?
Well.. can you see yourself kissing him? [have you ever thought about that?]
It's really hard to figure out that.
Because you can miss him like a boyfriend but also as a friend [especially when you are really close]
But have you ever thought about dating?
Okay think about this: What if he got a girlfriend?
Would you be jealous? Happy for him? Would you think about the time you wouldn't get to spend with him? Would you want to be in her place?
Just think hard about it.
If you are happy with him having a girlfriend, you probably like him as a close friend.
If you think you like him more than that, be wise with your choices. Because if it doesn't work out... your friendship won't be as strong as before. It can be but most likely, it's not the same.
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MY question is just basically what age do most teenagers have their first kiss? And what age do they get their first boyfriend? I'm fom a respectable family and I don't want to spoil my fam's name..but I really want to have a boyfriend BTW i'm 15/f.
My mum had her first bf like 18 or 19! And this is kinda weird...but I don't think I can't wait that long cause I mean most people i know have haad a bf and a first kiss! Please answer!!
Distressed!
You should have a boyfriend when you are ready and when you want to. Not because of your friends that have one or got their first kiss.
Sometimes rushing into these things.. can turn out bad. You won't get that wonderful first kiss and you might be with someone who's not as great as you thought.
It just takes time. You don't have to follow your mom's example. You can get one now or a year later. Whenever really. If you can handle it.
A boyfriend is hard work. Somewhat. Some guys like to talk everyday and hang out a lot. Boyfriends can take over your life. Just make sure you put your friends first and the boy second.
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my computer says" low on virtial memory" what can i do? is this why my comp is so slow?
Do you open too many windows? Programs?
Usually that's it.
You could either close the windows you aren't using and your computer shouldn't be lagging.
Or, get more space.
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I know xoxo stands for hugs and kisses and ive heard the o is for hugs and the x is for kissez but why?
i always thought the X was for hugs because when you hug your arms make an X and wehn you kiss your lips make an O shape
but sum1 told me im way off
http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=X's+and+O's
Uh. that person is wrong.
You are right.
even other people have the same thinking as you
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20061228194517AARoMOM&show=7
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my ex is really mean hes mad at me and not his friend dylan me and his friend dylan are going out and hes not mad at him and hes been telling stuff mean about me and his dad has been calling and telling me im ganan go to court if i talk to him
His dad can't take you to court. You did nothing. Your ex is just pissed off that you chose his friend. Of course he's not going to be angry at him.. it's his friend.
But you are a girl, his ex. So he can.
Talk to your parents about his dad calling and telling you that.
They should have that issue stopped.
Did you even talk to your ex? If you didn't threaten him.. I see no problem. His dad is probably trying to scare you or something.
Just avoid your ex and try to be happy in your relationship.
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please only girls answer.
what types of clothes/outfits do girls like on guys?? Im not interested in things like emo style or goth, no offense to those that are, i just dont like the style. any help would be appriciated. ..thanx..
I don't really like the baggy pants. Because it looks like the guy has a stick up his ass [sorry haha] or maybe it's just a "signature walk" or something.
But anything is good.
Fitting pants are a plus. it doesn't have to be tight..
and a fitting shirt.
For some reason my friends like the baggy pants and overly large shirt. You could go for that but you won't get noticed as much.. since almost every guy dresses like that.
fitting shirt.. yes?
girls want to see dem muscles ;]
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13/f
ok i am recouvering from having two operations done on my stomach like now i know that it is scary and people care a lot about me but my teachers my dad and even my mom is treating me really differently like im 8 or something they always want to cook for me or do my laundry but usually they dont have the time of the day for me but its annoying me and iv tried telling my mom im fine cuz iv got a high tolerence for pain and im not feeling a thing but she doesnt get it so how can i help her get it? its been a week and a half since it was done and iv already returned back to school.
*sleepiesheep*
There's not much you can do. You had two operations. Of course they are going to show you that they care and they will give you a lot of attention due to your age. You could lose someone in an surgery and they think you're somewhat sore from recovering.. so they are trying to make you feel comfortable as much as possible.
Just tell your mom that you need your space and that you want everything to go back to normal. [like having no time for you]
You can just say.. You don't like the attention and you'll like her to tone it down.
It should die down in a few days.
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is masturbating daily a health hazard? i'm 13/male
no. it's been told it's healthy and it burns calories.
it can help with stress too.
it's not bad.
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Ok I am not ready for sex i know this and so does my boyfriend. But that doesn't mean i am cut off from foreplay hehe. Here aresome questions i ned answered asap. Do u think 14 and 15 is too young for foreplay?
1)How can I get my guy "happy" besides a blowjob.
2)Which normally feels better? Rubbing or fingerins for the girl
3)Does giving a blow job feel weird? Does a flavored condom help?
4)(mostly for guys) does a girl's cum taste good when ur eating her out.
5)When fingering where are some pleasure spots?
some sex questions i want to ask:
1)Does a condom efect the pleaseure
2)Can a guy hold off cumming?
3)If he doesnt cum does that mean he is not pleased?
1)There's also a handjob.
2)It's different for every girl. Some like fingering and others liked their clit to be rubbbed. If your guy can do both at the same time.. then that's just great haha.
3)Girls told me it does. I'm not use about the flavored condom.
4) ~ not a guy.
5)The G-spot. When his finger[s] go in, it should be around the clit.
some sex questions i want to ask:
1)Apparently it does, but you need to wear one.
2)Usually no. He could, BUT there's always pre-cum that can get you pregnant.
3)Some guys have trouble cumming... but they can still enjoy it.
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im a senior in high school and i have been straightening my hair since 6th grade. my hair doesnt have splitends but i can feel dried up pieces of hair sometimes like it burned. is there any kind of product like shampoo or conditioners i can use to help my hair? i remember seeing one on tv and its supose to like "take back time" from damaged hair. thanks!!
Use sunsilk products.
Get hair treatments [for dry hair, conditioning, hot oil]
Like this http://pics.drugstore.com/prodimg/86558/200.jpg
http://pics.drugstore.com/prodimg/14826/200.jpg
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hey, well i have a few questions about sex.
1) the first time you have sex, ive heard that you bleed? is that true?
2) how much do you bleed and for how long?
3) does it hurt when its your first time?
1. Some women do bleed, if their hymen is broken. Sometimes the penis doesn't really penetrate all the way so they don't.
2. It really depends on the person. It could be like having your period for 1-3 days. With some spotting and whatnot.
3. It's different for everyone but usually, it does hurt because his penis will stretch and try to break the hymen [if it's not already broken]
that's why you should be ready and not nervous. you'll tense up and it will hurt a lot more.
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is it tradition 2 throw ice wen people r makin out........... cuz dats wut hapepend to me last nite @ dis party......... ppl wuz yellin thingz like slut n hoe n throwin ice at me....is dat tradition?
No it's not..
I think the ice being thrown meant.. they wanted you to stop.
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Do you think that Abercrombie clothes are expensive? If so do you own any of the clothes.? Just wondering people
Yes it is. I got birthday money and decided to explore a lot of stores.
I walked in and nothing really stood out, but the price on top. It was like $66 for a shirt! That's too expensive and it wasn't even pretty. Nothing was under $30 in there.
Maybe I got there at a wrong time but I couldn't really afford anything. If I could, I would only get like 2 shirts.
I don't own anything in there because I can find something a lot prettier for a cheaper price.
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what does it mean if a guy "feels a girl up"
Touching her boobs under her shirt.
Feeling her up. Yeah.
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me and my boyfriend have been going out for four months. i have no clue what to get him for valentines day. HELLPPP
Make him something! A pretty heart shaped card... with pictures of you two glued/taped in or you can draw him in it. Make little hearts surrounding it. You can buy some lace and glue it along the edges of the card. You can buy him a little teddy bear, that would be really cute!
Get him a T-shirt or get a plain white T-shirt and draw on it or paint [that doesn't wash off]
Don't get him anything too expensive though!
You can get him a rose. That would be so sweet. Girls should do that more often, guys really appreciate it.
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yesterday i broke up with my boyfriend for my exboyfriend. me and him went out last year and have a lot of history. ive loved him for about a year non-stop and i would spontaniously cry because i missed him sooo much and wanted to be with him so bad but he had a new girlfriend for 5 months.
i recently was asked out by my boyfriend i just broke up with. finally everything was looking good and i was slowly getting over the first guy.
my ex boyfriend (first guy) tells me that he still loves me and always has and he doesnt want to hurt me and he wants to be with me and he broke up with his girlfriend..for me.
now i know im going to regret being with him becuase hes probably going to hurt me and were going to fight all the time like last year when we went out.
but i love him. and ive waited forever for this.
i wish i could forget about how i feel and just go with what i deserve but i cant. please help me. did i make the right decision?
should i wait and see how things go?
It's best to move on. If you KNOW he's going to hurt you and fight all the time.. then it's not worth it.
Yes, in the beginning of that relationship.. it could be have all happy and great. This happened to me.. I was stuck in the past. I liked him in the beginning of our relationship. He was so sweet and nice then but later, he changed.. and I was hoping he would go back to the old self. But it was like little fights everyday.
You don't want that. You don't want to hope for change that's not going to happen.
Maybe he didn't break up with his girlfriend. It could be a lie just to see if you would go crawling back to him.
Try to forget about your exboyfriend.
So the new guy.. does he treat you a lot better? Does he make you happy? Push all those thoughts out about your exboyfriend. That could be causing any sadness because you miss him and that relationship. It could be making you think your new relationships are not that great... even when they are.
Get back with your boyfriend. [You didn't say anything bad about him] So I assume he's really sweet and cares about you.
You shouldn't be so hung over someone who's probably going to hurt you. You should try talking to the second guy or just wait on how things go.
But if the first guy and you broke up.. maybe it was for a reason. Since you said he had a girlfriend.. he could always break up with you and go for another girl.
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Can you hate someone and then like them ?
I dont mean like as a friend, I mean "like, like"
them.
Well they must of did something to make you hate them.
But then something happens. You see them in a different light.. just like randomly and you see them as a different person.
Like.. they called you bad names but later.. they are really sweet.
and it attracted you.
the same thing as being immature but showing that they could be mature around people.
Hmmm. I'm not sure. Something changes and it attracts.
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My friend was staying with me for the weekend and we were talking about how much it hurt to have sex with a guy, then we were looking at all of the other possibilities. just talking about it made me horny. Then she announced the option of being a lesbian. We looked at eachother in the eyes and she grabbed me and started shoving her toungue in my mouth. i went along with it knowing it would be wierd if i didnt. She ripped off my shirt and pulled off my pants. i liked it. then i did the same with her and pulled off her bra and underwear with my teeth. she was on top of me and we were humping. It felt sooo good. I am very much of a christian and i know gayness is bad. I could never be a lesbian. How can i stop? I'm addicted to my feiend now, she comes over every night!!!
HELP ME BEOCME STRAIGHT AGAIN!
You can't really listen to people telling you who you are. Maybe you are straight but you enjoy those kind of experiences with girls. But you could also be bisexual based on that situation. You don't have to base your whole sexuality on one thing that happened. You should talk to her and tell her you don't know. But if you were turned on by it, then obviously liked it and didn't think it was wrong. I know you ae a christian and you know being gay is bad. But listen to your heart.
And you have to watch out. You have to know if your friend is just doing that because you two are just messing around.. You have to know if it won't turn into a relationship sort of thing.
You were caught in the moment and you were horny, so of course you would do anything to satisfy your needs.
But I doubt you are a lesbian over one situation like that. Many women do that but they are straight. They wouldn't ever hold feelings for a woman or even think about getting with them.. it's just for the sexual stuff.
So if you like doing it, then you shouldn't let your worries stop you.
But if you don't want to do it again, then tell her.
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Ok. I just got my 3rd period. And I got the biggest stomach cramp ever, 2days a row. Its so bad. How do I make it hurt less or make it go away at all?
I already know about Mitdol, but its not an option right now, so please don't mention that.
You can put a hot/warm water bottle against your stomach or try laying down with a pillow there.
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how do i get a picture in my caption
Go to tinypic.com and upload the picture.
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