Sabine answered Sunday January 28 2007, 2:08 pm: Eesh. There should be a FAQ for just this sort of case. We see this question all of the time.
1) Yes, sometimes the woman bleeds when her hymen is transected.
2) How much? Usually about a tablespoon and for a few minutes. Sometimes she can have blood on the toilet paper for a few days. It's usually not much and if there is much, it's a sign something else is wrong, usually.
3) Does it hurt the first time? Yes, usually. You're usually nervous, which doesn't promote muscle relaxation and having a penis put inside where nothing has been before can stretch and hurt.
Go slowly, use lots of lube, ask him to stop if you need a break, try again if you don't succeed, and most of all, use protection. You *can* get pregnant the first time and you don't want life-changing things like pregnancy or STDs to decide your future for you.
pootietang answered Sunday January 28 2007, 2:05 pm: Please, don't lose your virginity at such a young age. How do I know you're young? Because everyone knows the answers to these questions.
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