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hey, well i have a few questions about sex.
1) the first time you have sex, ive heard that you bleed? is that true?
2) how much do you bleed and for how long?
3) does it hurt when its your first time?
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1. Some women do bleed, if their hymen is broken. Sometimes the penis doesn't really penetrate all the way so they don't.
2. It really depends on the person. It could be like having your period for 1-3 days. With some spotting and whatnot.
3. It's different for everyone but usually, it does hurt because his penis will stretch and try to break the hymen [if it's not already broken]
that's why you should be ready and not nervous. you'll tense up and it will hurt a lot more.
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Eesh. There should be a FAQ for just this sort of case. We see this question all of the time.
1) Yes, sometimes the woman bleeds when her hymen is transected.
2) How much? Usually about a tablespoon and for a few minutes. Sometimes she can have blood on the toilet paper for a few days. It's usually not much and if there is much, it's a sign something else is wrong, usually.
3) Does it hurt the first time? Yes, usually. You're usually nervous, which doesn't promote muscle relaxation and having a penis put inside where nothing has been before can stretch and hurt.
Go slowly, use lots of lube, ask him to stop if you need a break, try again if you don't succeed, and most of all, use protection. You *can* get pregnant the first time and you don't want life-changing things like pregnancy or STDs to decide your future for you.
Sabine
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Please, don't lose your virginity at such a young age. How do I know you're young? Because everyone knows the answers to these questions.
You should respect yourself enough to wait until you meet the perfect man [your future husband] to give away something so valuable.
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