my name is katie i am 14 almost 15 i like this boy named tony and he has hurt me 3 times and everyone tells me that i need to move on but i really cant do it because i like him to much to lose him!!! and i just dont know what to do i mean he is a really sweet kid!!! i mean he has had so much goin on in his life like his dad just die and he just got hit by a car!! and i just dont know what to do because i dont want what to do because i dont want to get hurt anymore but he means the world to me!! please some one help me i need some advice on what to do !!!! thanks if u can help me
Alright well sweetie your friends might be right :-/ It might be time to let go. I KNOW its hard i've been there so many times! But if hes gonna hurt you 3 times. Maybe you need to sit down with him and discuss your feelings with him and how you dont want to get hurt anymore. Maybe some of the reason why hes hurt you is because hes cant handle a relationship right now in this point in his life because of all the stuff that is going on in his life. Give it time to see what is going on with him. Just take it slow but really think about getting over him. Its not worth getting hurt over. There many fish in the sea!
-Holly-
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how can i hide a hickey?
To tell the truth i've heard of many different "myths" of hiding a hickey... But I doubt any of those work. Sorry but I dont think there really is any way that you can hide it! Unless you wear like a hooded sweatshirt and keep your hair down. Good luck with that
-Holly-
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like when ever my boy friend gets horny i aint ever horny how do i get my self in the mood??
Um well I guess you can maybe have him feel you up or what not. Or maybe just like start making out and get caught in the moment you should sooner or later get horny. But if that doesnt work then have him try and help you first before you help him.
-Holly-
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ok, my friend has a problem with...being really abusive. Not like beats me up, but hits me when i dont do something she wants me to do. Like i was at her house and i make this really funny noise and she was like do it! and i was like im really tired and she punches me in my arm and it really hurt, its not just that time. Ive asked her to stop and tell her that guys arent attracted to that and she got a bf from it. what do i do?? should i become violent like her or just keep trying to get her to stop?? please i need ur help!
Ok well sweetie I think you need to sit her down and say hey look I dont want to be friends with someone that always trys to be a badass and pushes me around, i dont need you in my life if your going to act that way... I dont like it so stop and if you dont were gonna have to stop being friends. If she has a problem with it OH WELL she needs to learn to keep her hands to herself. Also have you ever kinda thought of hitting her back? That might teach her.
-Holly-
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i have a huge zit on my chin and i tried putting this oxy face stuff clear gel on it but it wont go away...please anyone tell me how 2 get rid if this nasty thing!!!! ((if u cant tell...i hate zits))
This is really weird but when i get zits i put tooth paste on it before i go to bed and it clears up either the next day or the day after. Sounds weird I know but it works for me!
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im lookin 4 a good pair of shoes u can skateboard wit but are still cute got any ideas
Yeah i've got a few DC's and they are really comfortable to skate it. So i'd say get some cute DC's mine happen to be Pink :) my fav color :) hehe. GOOD LUCK!
Holly
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Alright, I'm very succeptable to girls... I just... I don't know... I like a new one each week, I swear by it... I don't know what to do... Should I shoot myself... I don't know what to do... Gah!!! There's always been one that I've liked, but now I think I like another girl, and I still like the old girl... I'm a pig bastard... I don't know what to do with girls... not like that, but to prioritize them... Should I just ... ban them all...? Should I turn gay? Should I hang myself? Should I wait for the girl I like even though she has a boyfriend? Should I just find one to preoccupy my time? WHAT SHOULD I DO?
Well alright so yeah I know how it is to like someone new like all the time, I use to be like that... Still sometimes am. If there is one that you've always liked maybe it might be worth waiting for even though she has a boyfriend and what not. But If I was her and I knew you had a problem with liking new people I'd be scared for myself because what if you ended up liking someone new the next week and breaking her heart. Is this new girl someone you want to go for or is it just someone that just so happens to be a flirty friend since the old girl has a boyfriend? Dont Ban girls, DONT turn gay, dont hang yourself... Just if you think the old girl is worth waiting for then wait. Dont use a girl just to "Preoccupy" yourself. Just think about the old girl and the new girl and think about which one you can see yourself with and what one you want to be with more. I think you'll make the right choice! Good luck and keep me posted!
*Hollzie*
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im nearly 17 and my bf and i have been together
for over 9 months and weve talked about sex
main worry is that he has a big penis and im worried that it will hurt i am a bit tight and im not sure his penis will fit is there anything we can do?
I'm not experanced in sex but my best advice would to just take it slow if it hurts or its uncomfortable tell him to stop. Dont force it that will just be to painful *ouch* But Thats really the best advice i could give you because i truely dont know.
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Why do girls gotta lie?
Most girls when they lie they do it because they either care for you or they dont want to hurt your feelings. And i guess when i say they care for you i mean like they dont want to tell you the truth because they dont want to hurt your feelings in anyway
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My really good friend and my boyfriend dont really like eachother... i hang out with the both of them all the time but now it has gotten a bit weird... they both complain about eachother to me and it gets really annoying... ive tried to help them not hate eachother but it didnt work... what do you think i should do?
This is a hard one! I totally know how you feel i've been in many situations like this! Ok the thing is I wouldnt hang out with them both of them at the same time! That might lead into a big fight and you'd be stuck in the middle having to choose friend of over your boyfriend. So hang out with one one night and the other another night. And if they start to complain to you about the other person just tell them in a nice way that your sick of hearing them bitch about one and other and to not be rude because they are your friend or boyfriend. If they dont listen then maybe they arnt worth it. And if they both really cared they would try really hard to get along so that you wouldnt be stuck in that position.
*thanks for writing and good luck! *HOLLY*
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I've been working on my writing for some time, after about 15 tries I've written a speech for my High School graduation, but it's going to be hard getting up in front of over a thousand people and saying it, do you have any ideas on how I could make it easier?
Hm, my best advice would be either say it infront of a big group of friends and family and also say it in the mirror like 25 times. Dont be scared while your up there! Theres nothing to be scared about... Those are your friends and family and your friends family (lol) out there! Just give it all you've got. and if you mess up oh well big deal no ones perfect
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I have a guy friend that I like alot! How do I tell him I want to be more than friends, when that's all we've been for the past 3 years?!
Hey just drop him some hints maybe he'll pick up the idea! if not just tell him you've liked him for a while and you want more. Just me stright up with him.
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This year is almost over and it has been the worst grade year of my whole life. I have been a total lazy ass and not doing very much homework. What should i do to make it better next year?
Focus on your goals in life and choose do you want to be pumping gas or making the sweet money! I know its easy to slack off (i've tend to do it sometimes) and slacking off can be ok for a while... Just make sure you dont get to use to it! Maybe study hall might be a good choice to take!
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This past year i have been very lazy and havnt really had a life... i barley hag out with any of my friends from last year and i dont know how to make my life like it used to be... do you have any advice?
GET OFF YOUR ASS! Go out with the old friends and remind yourself of the good times you use to have... that might make you realize what you've been missing! Lifes short make it worth living for
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Me and my boyfriend have been a little to attached to eachother latly and I dont kow what i should do.... what do you think?
Hmm maybe you should get some friend time in there! I mean boyfriends come and go but friends stay forever. Maybe you could throw a party or something. Invite all your friends AND your boyfriend... that way you can get them all in at the same time!
*Holly*
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My friend started dating my crush and i dont know how to tell her i've liked him for like 3 years. what do i do?
Just sit her down and talk to her about it I mean if shes a good friend she'll understand and try and make some changes if shes not then I guess you better start looking for new friends.
*Holly*
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