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what should i do
my name is katie i am 14 almost 15 i like this boy named tony and he has hurt me 3 times and everyone tells me that i need to move on but i really cant do it because i like him to much to lose him!!! and i just dont know what to do i mean he is a really sweet kid!!! i mean he has had so much goin on in his life like his dad just die and he just got hit by a car!! and i just dont know what to do because i dont want what to do because i dont want to get hurt anymore but he means the world to me!! please some one help me i need some advice on what to do !!!! thanks if u can help me
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Well all I can say is, you just follow what ur heart wants to say.Since he has so much going in his life,mayb u could give him a last chance. And if he hurts you again, for the 4th time,I think you should go on with ur life. It's up to you! Good Luck!:D
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Alright i already knew what to say when i read the 1st to lines if he has already hurt you like 3 times why would you want to go back to someone that has hurt you? i am sure you know that you deserve better then that and i am almost 110% positive that you dont want to get hurt again. just be there for him but just as a friend.-trix((please rate))
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i no how u feel u dont want to hurt his feelings. i think you should just tell hm how u feel.
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Alright well sweetie your friends might be right :-/ It might be time to let go. I KNOW its hard i've been there so many times! But if hes gonna hurt you 3 times. Maybe you need to sit down with him and discuss your feelings with him and how you dont want to get hurt anymore. Maybe some of the reason why hes hurt you is because hes cant handle a relationship right now in this point in his life because of all the stuff that is going on in his life. Give it time to see what is going on with him. Just take it slow but really think about getting over him. Its not worth getting hurt over. There many fish in the sea!
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It seems to me like this guy has alot of stress going on in his life. He probably doesn't mean to hurt you but he has alot of frustrations. Maybe for now you tow should cut the boyfriend girlfriend thing and you should be there to just be his friend and help him through his tough times. Maybe right now he just needs a good friend, someone he can lean on. And then once he gets gis life together, you can try the relationship thing. If you really love him though, you should give him all the time he needs. But, you are young and you shouldn't spend your life waiting for some guy, if you see that there is no future for you two, then its time to let go. Its not fair to your heart to keep hanging on someone who is playing with your feelings. Hope I helped. :)
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okay I know exactly what to say to you.... I know what you are going through because I was in your situation before. If you really care this much for this guy step back and look at the situation. You love this guy more then anything but is he giving you as much love as you are giving him? If the answer is no talk to him and tell him how you are feeling and if that doesn't work I think you need to try and find someone else. The pain of losing him wil hurt for a while but trust me you will get over it. You might think that you wont but YOU WILL. Your are only going on 15 you have a lot of life ahead of you.
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ok well i have sumthing just like this happen to me. i was going out with this guy manuel and we went out for a few months. he was my first for everything & i mean everything*except kissing*
he was the perfect boyfriend and i was absolutely in love with him. but then when we broke up i was totally depressed for like 2 months.. i didnt know wut to do. we were still friends and i guess he still liked me. but i know how ur feeling and he tried to get back with me a fwe times but i was so scared of being hurt again. i had never felt pain like that before and i didnt htink i could make it through another episode of that. so i just told him i couldnt go back out with him and we talked for hours about it. i basically told him wut i just said to u but in detail. the point is if he hurts u once hes bound to do it again, save urself the tears
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With all the stuff going on in his life right now, I don't think he is going to be able to handle a relationship. If you don't want to get hurt, then I suggest you forget about him for now because he isn't going to be able to give you the attention you are looking for.
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