ok, my friend has a problem with...being really abusive. Not like beats me up, but hits me when i dont do something she wants me to do. Like i was at her house and i make this really funny noise and she was like do it! and i was like im really tired and she punches me in my arm and it really hurt, its not just that time. Ive asked her to stop and tell her that guys arent attracted to that and she got a bf from it. what do i do?? should i become violent like her or just keep trying to get her to stop?? please i need ur help!
jbdreamer answered Wednesday June 16 2004, 1:04 pm: You just have to be more stern with her. Tell her to seriously stop, don't take crap from her. She'll continue to do it until you take control of the situation. And don't start hitting her back. Violence is an unintellegent thing. Don't you agree she looks stupid and is stupid for doing it. [ jbdreamer's advice column | Ask jbdreamer A Question ]
cr8zymonkeyluv07 answered Tuesday June 15 2004, 8:59 pm: Personally I would feel like bustin her in the mouth, but thats not really me so, If I were in your position, then I would tell her to stop or else you guys couldn't be friends anymore. You don't deserve it if she doesn't quit, no one does. Hope it helps. [ cr8zymonkeyluv07's advice column | Ask cr8zymonkeyluv07 A Question ]
HollyAnn2282 answered Tuesday June 15 2004, 8:27 pm: Ok well sweetie I think you need to sit her down and say hey look I dont want to be friends with someone that always trys to be a badass and pushes me around, i dont need you in my life if your going to act that way... I dont like it so stop and if you dont were gonna have to stop being friends. If she has a problem with it OH WELL she needs to learn to keep her hands to herself. Also have you ever kinda thought of hitting her back? That might teach her.
-Holly-
Hope I helped! [ HollyAnn2282's advice column | Ask HollyAnn2282 A Question ]
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