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Hey. I am 13 and female. Well, I have a huge problem. Well, it isn't a problem I am just confused. Well, I've known *ASpEcIaLSoMeOnE* for almost a year now. We've gotton ExTrEmLy close. Well, when I got back from Florida, he told me he had a girlfriend. I was very upset, because I knew things were going to have to change. Well, I was talking to him yesterday night infact, and I opened up to him and stuff. I just want things to get back to normal. I already confronted him, and I don't wanna push him to things. How can I get things fairly to the same as it was before?
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Truth is - it won't ever be the same.
If you really do care that much about him, then stay friends, but try to meet some other guys and let his relationship with this girl go on and more then likely - it wont last too long.
If it does last, well then move on and find yourself a guy who wont find a girlfriend while you're on vacation.
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My best advice to you would be to pretend that you don't like him as more than a friend. Act the way you did before you confronted him and expressed your feelings. Hopefully he will catch on and act the same way. Just let time take its course. Maybe his relationship won't last (though I don't want to sound rude) and then you could remind him how you feel and see if he has the same feelings for you. Good luck!
Love, Blonde
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Things can't be exactly the same as before. He breached your trust and he knows it. By trying to win him back, you're basically saying "It's okay that you hurt me.". Don't set yourself up to get hurt again because if he cheated once, there's no doubt that he will do it again. You are worth so much more. Find someone who treats you the way you deserve to be treated- with love, dignity, honesty, and respect.
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