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Hi! I'm Rosebud, and I'll be happy to help you to find answers to your questions. I know the effect that these answers could have on the people asking, and I'll answer each question to the best of my ability. ^_^
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me n my gf always have nothing to do any ideas where we could go together we r gettin bored of movies, bowlin, n playin pool wut else can we do together? (link)
You could find a local fair or festival, volunteer for a cause you both believe in (example: if you both love horses you could volunteer at certain places where they let you take disabled kids horseback riding- hey, there's another idea. Horseback riding.), take a dance class (like salsa, hip hop, etc.. If you check the newspaper, there are one-time free dance classes being offered lots of times), the zoo, the aquarium, a romantic picnic at a park or the beach, a water park, a roller blading rink, an ice skating rink, or one of those pottery play houses (where you can paint your own pottery- it's more fun than it sounds). I hope my suggestions helped! ^-^


ok, well i'm 16 ,i have a really bad depression problem i have been addicted to cutting and still have urges frequently , i have suicidel thoughts very frequently and the real problem is my parents refuse to admit there is a problem, it seems like theres nothing i can do to make them understand, the wont even get my prescribtion (link)
You're not as helpless as you think. Talk to an adult you trust- a teacher, a relative, talk to anyone who will listen until you get the help you need. The fact that you realize that you have a problem and are trying to get help already shows that you will make it.


Hey. I am 13 and female. Well, I have a huge problem. Well, it isn't a problem I am just confused. Well, I've known *ASpEcIaLSoMeOnE* for almost a year now. We've gotton ExTrEmLy close. Well, when I got back from Florida, he told me he had a girlfriend. I was very upset, because I knew things were going to have to change. Well, I was talking to him yesterday night infact, and I opened up to him and stuff. I just want things to get back to normal. I already confronted him, and I don't wanna push him to things. How can I get things fairly to the same as it was before? (link)
Things can't be exactly the same as before. He breached your trust and he knows it. By trying to win him back, you're basically saying "It's okay that you hurt me.". Don't set yourself up to get hurt again because if he cheated once, there's no doubt that he will do it again. You are worth so much more. Find someone who treats you the way you deserve to be treated- with love, dignity, honesty, and respect.


i dont know what i should name my rabbit i just got her yesterday and i need a name shes black with a dark brown spot by her neck i have a name for her sister but not her any suggestions? oh and i kind of want it to start with c since my other rabbits (her sister) name is callie (link)
Here are some names that you could use:

Chowder
Cleopatra
Cleo
Chick
Chickadee
Candy
Chica

I hope that those help! ^_^


hey im new im krista davissonand i need
someone to help me out i want to get rated with out sayin rate me plz cuz that sound weird dosnt it? so can anyone rate me im advicebaby13 thanx (link)
There really isn't anything wrong with politely asking (like saying "please", to keep it sounding respectful). You could say "Please rate me if you could", or "If you rate me, then I could continue to improve my advice" (or something to that effect). Don't worry, I'll rate you. :D


Well i have just started to date this guy we have been together for almost two months. Now me and him get along great the sex is great and we have alot in common. What i want advice on is that i am a very intellectual person and enjoy the arts and what not anyway im a dork he on the other hand is a skateborder who did not graduate high school. He is not a bum has a good job and i know he loves me alot as i do him. Do u think that ill get bored in the future if he does not stimulate me mentally? (i am a 19yr Female) (link)
I think you will get bored. If you two get serious, and go into a permanent relationship such a marriage, after you two age, the physical "spark" won't be there anymore, and mental stimulation is all you'll have left to bond with.


Tomorrow is my puppy's second b-day!


Which is somewhat sad, actually. Anyway, what should I do to celebrate it? Keep in mind that I have no time or money to buy anything, and don't suggest anything that will take too long to do or to make, and of course, nothing that would hurt or sicken her. (link)
There's no need to do anything big; try taking your puppy to a dog park or (if you live near the ocean)a dog beach. Both of those places are free, and your puppy will probably love it (some dogs are scared of the ocean though, so you might try that one later...). Maybe, if you know were your puppy has any "family" nearby, in a safe location, you could both have a kind of "family reunion". Feliz Cumpleanos to your puppy! :)


I need some help. I am going downhill in school because I am very lonely and i can't concentrate on my school work. The problem is that I desparately want a girlfriend and watching other people besides me dating makes it worse. There is no body special that I am attracted to in school, and even if I was i dont think i would know what to do (i am quite shy when it comes to starting conversations with girls and i dont know what to say.) Please if anyone can help me with my problems; how i can learn to be less shy around women, where i can find the girl for me, and what it will cost me to have a girlfriend. Thank you so much. (link)
As a girl, here's my advice. It sounds like you're dwelling too much on what you don't have, rather than what you can do. It sounds like you're a sensitive guy, and a lot of girls really like that. But we don't want someone who dwells on their negatives all the time. Many other girls around your age (assuming you're an adolecsent) already have issues with self-esteem themselves. What you need to do is stop focusing on making yourself complete through a girlfriend. Sind happiness doing thing things for you; try to find a sport, club, hobby, etc. that you can enjoy, and pretty soon other girls will be digging you for your confidence. Make sure to keep your sensitivity also; that's cool one thing that a lot of guys don't have. Another thing: if you get into a sport, hobby, club, etc., that's probably where you'll meet a girl with similar interests; that will give you something in common to talk about. As for money, it really depends on the girl; you have to draw the line between being a gentleman and being an ATM machine. You should offer to pay for things like movie tickets, etc., but any girl who starts trying to mooch unnecessary money off of you just isn't worth your time. Good Luck! :)




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