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Does anyone know any good poems or quotes to write in a note/letter to a boyfriend cause i need some ideas (link)
yah go to www.google.com n search for "love ppoems" or "love letter" or "love notes" n u will get plenty of resoults ;) hope i hepled xoxo effy


hi
umm
there is this guy but iam not quite sure if he likes me or not
and i think i like him. he keeps stairing at me in my class and i stare at him.. heheheh
pleaze help what is this??
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hi
damn i see some flirting rite thur...dats my gurl!!! lol keep it up...well if he staring he either tryin to lead u on...b/c he likes the attention or he relly likes u...so keep up da game n lets see wussup ;) *best wishes* xoxo effy


This is a site for people who want to ask real questions right? Or, is this a sight where people make jokes and write meaningless things? I'm confused! (link)
real questions of coursse...but there lots of ppl who write jokes...n makes things up...which in a way is mad funny ;)n cracks me up n i wonder how can they come up wit it...like for ex one of them said that "they r going out wit a dog n she was willing to give head to him" i thought it was pretty funny nasty 2 though...anyways...i hope that helps ;) xoxo effy


I feel positively idiotic asking a question about "love" but anyway. There is a guy at my middle school who I recently found out has a crush on me...a freakishly huge crush. We're friends, and I used to think he was just teasing when he make jokes about his "undying love" for me. To tell you the truth, it's kind of creepy. He's a great kid, but I don't like him the same way. How should I tell him without destroying a friendship?~ insanity_will_dominate (link)
just...hmmm tell him that ur sorry but u dont feel the same way he does...i do that all the time it works wit me...tell him u lov him as a friend but not more then that!! mention to him that "hopefully this wont ruin our friendship" n so on...so good luck ;) xoxo effy


I have 13 years old (almost 14) and I have a tough crush on a girl from my school who's two years younger then me. I'm really going mad because the time is passing and I can't find a way to approach and talk to her. The only thing I do to make her know I love her is staring at her while passing by but I'm pretty sure she hasn't noticed. Help please! (Have on mind that I'm afraid to fail, so I'd either do nothing or something in which I'm sure it'd work. If I fail I'll be avoiding her forever!) (link)
ok listen give it a try...go talk to her...ask her if u guys could may b become friends n chill...n then when u guys talkin n if u still like her or "love" her the way u do or more then go ahead n ask her out...if that dont work then i'm afraid that u need to avoid her as much as possible n try to move on ;) *best wishis* xoxo effy


Please some 1 tell me how to bleach my arm hair blonde asap. Try 2 answer b4 July 9 or 10. Thankz & I will rate you! (I don't wanna hear about that I can wax or shave I dun wanna ok!)
ANSWER ME PPLZ!

14/F (link)
buy hair bleech ;) good luck xoxo effy


heyy yall.. does anyone kno how to putt music on ur picturetrail??? i cant figure it out.. thank ya!

*.* AnDiE *.* (link)
hi, ok login click on More Options..Go to Edit Options and you will see Install Midi/Sound Clips..then klick on that select your album then click continue....then click on Select a Midi Sound File From PictureTrail Our Server... Pick a sound listion to it then when you pick the sound your wanting click on Install Selected File Now and then thats it ;) done! xoxo effy


I'm the one that works at the pizza place and was nervous that nobody liked me and was worrying about losing weight. This is to all the columnist who answered my previous questions: Yesterday a male co-worker came up to me and asked me to go into a back area with him because he wanted to ask me a question. Well, I had no idea what was up and then he showed me instructions for a pregancy test and asked me what does two lines mean verses one line, because he was not sure how to read it. I told him two lines means pregnant even if one is very light. I wonder why he was asking me? I assume he thought his girlfriend or spouse was pregnant or he could've been asking for a female freind who was too embarrased to ask me herself. I was curious, but I didn't ask any questions except, "Is there good news?" in a light-hearted joking way, and he said "It's not for me, I was just wondering." Or something like that. He told me not to tell anyone and I said "I won't." So I think this must mean that people there like me and trust me. I haven't told anyone, and I don't think this counts because it's anonymous and I could be anyone talking about anyone at a pizza place anywhere. I just wanted to let you all know that I feel much better working there knowing that they would trust me with something like that. I have a feeling the guy and a girl there are involved, but I don't know, and I'm not going to say anything, just mind my own business. Has anyone else been in a situation like this where they blabbed and got in trouble? Just curious. I'm not the gossipy type, and I hardly know these people, so it's not that difficult. If they were really close friends, or family, that could be harder, but in that case, it's even more important to keep a secret, unless it's something that is dangerous to the individual, and you have to tell for their own good. Any stories anyone would like to share? (link)
thanks for sharing...n no i dont have any stories that i would share...anyways i think that either it was a test for him to see if u were trust worthy...or may be he just asked u b/c sometimes is better to ask a stranger then a friend of urs ;)...n yes i think they like u n they trust u there ;) b/c they have no reason y not 2..*best wishes* good luck :) xoxo effy


haha ok this has nothing get to do w/friendship but I didn't know wut subject to put it under...Anyways can u shave with lotion? I'm kinda scared to try cuz i don't want cuts and bumps all over! *Natalie* /17/ (link)
use shaving cream...i dont think lotion would b such a good idea ;) xoxo effy


well im 13 years old and i have strech marks on like the top of my legs near my but and when i wear a bathing suit you see them and i am so self consious of them it sucks do you have any ideas on how to get rid of them thanks! (link)
try special cream made for women after pregnancy...;) *best wishes* xoxo effy


** instead of using the guys real name i'll use Joe-

well first of all .. Joe asked me for the name of my friend Lilly bcuz he got her #- and i wouldnt tell him and hes all dont tell her i 4got it and i put a smiley face and hes all Grl dont be an ass and do this- and hes all stay out of my life.. then a min or two l8r he said well at least outa my love life- then this stuff happend-

Me): i dont get why u have to get with a bunch of grl.. why dont u be happy with one?
Joe): I dont have one, **** and I are broken up
Me): ok but i mean im sure she still cares and possibly hurts her if ur with other grls
Joe):***** doesnt care just chill out what does it matter?
Me): im just sayin and tryin to point that out 2 u because you shouldnt be a player all ur life
Joe): wtf just because I played you doesnt mean I play everyone else ok
Joe): Im single
JOe): I can go for any girl that I want
Me): ok
Joe): Im still in love with ***** and Im not going to hook up with that chick
Me): im just tryin to point sumthin important out 2 u dont get all bitchy at me
Joe): well you're jumping into my love life
Me): k sry.
Joe): no one ever said I was going to hook up with that girl
Joe): I dont even know her name
Joe): just chill
Me): k
Joe): why do you care if I get her #?
Me): i dont care- but i just dont seeing u play grls- idk why but it just bothers me sumtymes- because it seems like you dont care or something
Joe: how the hell is getting a girls # playing her?!
Joe): Im single
Me): nvm u dont get it
Me): btw her names Lilly


- then i stopped talkin 2 him.. I really love him and im soo stupid for it.. but idk what to do? i need sum advice please help!!
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gurl u kno he plays gurls..then y waste ur time on him...move on a find a tru guy who can treat u like a PRINCESS!!! so move on wit ur life dont get stuck to him ;) i bet there are lots of guys out there who wants to b ur man's so give it a chance...go out there meet new ppl :) n HAVE FUN...live life to the fullest while u can ;) *best wishes* xoxo effy


i have said "I love you!" to my b/f for about 4 months and about 3 days ago until now i have been saying "Ii like you!! but then i correct myself what does that mean? am i falling out of love with him? HELP ME!!!!!
~sydra~ (link)
i think u should take a break and clear ur head out...may b ur confused n u dont feel the same way bout ur b/f anymore...may b u wanna move on n make him ur past...*best wishes* xoxo effy


I have never had a true boyfriend before, and well im kinda lonely, so a couple days ago i asked my dog out and he said yes, so now me n my dog are going out, he asked me if i wanted to give him head but i told him i wasnt ready wen i really was i cant believe i lied to him...ok well imma go give him head...do you think tis wrong to go out with your dog? (link)
ahahhahahahhah lmao....i'm sorry but that was one of the funniest stuff i've ever hurd...in a life time..i dunno how u ppl can come up wit dis..well anyways...i dont think its proper going wit ur own dog...but if ur dat despreat then go for it..lmao...dont u think its a lil 2 early to give him head since u guys have only couple dayz going out?!?! lol xoxo effy

p.s.kool dog!!(since he talks)
WARNING:b careful when u give him head...he might bite u!!! ;)
hahahah lmao


i am gay and i think my mum knows, what do i do? (link)
if ur mom knows let her talk to u...if she doesnt then u choose if u feel comfrotable lettin her know or not...there's nothing wrong wit being gay..ur still a human being so dont make a big deal out of it ;) *best wishes* xoxo effy


There is this guy i wanna see over the summer but he doesnt have a sn and im wayyy to shy to call him what should i do? (link)
hahah i got an idea...call him up n ask "who's dis?" pretend like u dont know whos number is it!!! when he says its him then b like oh hey bla bla start out a conversation n so on...n then b like "wut u doin this summer?" see wut he gonna say...n then tell him "how cool it is that he gonna be doing all those stuff"(thats if he doing anything) then may b he gonna ask u to chill if he doesnt..then b like "well may b if u want in that bussy schedule of urs u can add me up n we could chill sometimes together" i bet he'll agree...n incase he aint doing anything just be like "well me 2, so do u wanna do something?!?! u wanna chill?!?" ;) *best wishes* xoxo effy


So I have been having a hard time thinking about whether or not me and my boyfriend should *take a break* or fully *break up*.. so we were talking and he broke up with me and he said in about a week we can get together and see if we should go back out or stay apart..anyways, he already has single in his profile and I hate him not being there =( what do I do? Just wait til HE decides to get back together?... (link)
forget his ass n move one!!! i bet they'll b plenty of guys that would wanna b in his shoes n go out wit u dont worry u got plenty of time ;)...*best wishes* xoxo effy


i really like this boy!
Hi my name is Jessica Im 12 yrs old and i really like this boy. We dated for about 8 and a half months then we broke up. But I went out with another boy about 3 weeks after we broke up but i realized when i was going out with my new b/f that i missed my ex so much so i dumped him now i want my ex back and now hes saying he doesnt know if he still likes me and maybe he might go back out wth me. What should i do (link)
well try to stay close as much as possible n give him sometime to think...(not a lot just a lil) n then ask him how he feels if he says he dont know still then move on...u cant b lettin a kid leading u on like dat...just move on n live ur life to the fullest...u'll meet plenty new guys that u'll like a lot...give ur life new opportunities by meeting new ppl :-D u never know where that special one is...good luck xoxo effy


ok...i have this other question in here that talks about my neighbor...and being avoided and stuff...so i have been avoiding him and we havnt talked for the longest time. and i am begining to think that we arent FRIENDS anymore..am i doing the right thing? or should i stop avoiding him back and playing hard to get??
signed,.,.
clueless (link)
depends on how u feel...if u like him or w/e then just play a lil hard to get at the begining but not for long...if u dont like him more then just a friend and he likes u...tell him that all u want is friendship if he cant offer it...then just keep on avoiding him ;) good luck ;) xoxo effy


HOW DO YO0 DEAL WITH A BREAK UP (( TEAR )) (link)
entertain ur self by doing something else to keep ur mind away from him/her...try to hang around ur friends as much as possible...n play sports n meet new ppl ;)...best wish's xoxo *effy*


well it's weird cause a while back me an this guy started dating and we dated off an on for like 3 years.. well he got sent away cause hes sucha badass and we broke up, when he got home we talked a little but i was in another relationship... So it just drifted away - a couple months later i see him and now all we do is hang out all the time .. or atleast around eachother .. it hurts me because he was my first love and ill love him til the day i die. Im scared though cause he was messing with a friend of mine which i helped them get together but now all the sudden hes telling people he wants to be with me again ... its scarey but my heart is crying for him .. what should i do? (link)
if u feel like that n u relly like him i say go for it gurl...wut u waiting for?!?!? if he wants u n u want him they why not go for it? da best wishes for ya ;) xoxo effy




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