HI!!im caramella,id love to give advice for those who need it.You might not always like my answers but i dont care about ratings,cuz if i tell you something you want to hear all the time,and i get rated high and you end up making a big mistake,rating aint gonna solve the problem then.I want to tell you guys to think before you act and look before you leap in order not to make misttakes,if you have made mistakes NEVER regret it,regrets are a waste of time and happiness and wont change what happened,BUT it will give you expereince and teach you not to do it again and refine your future^_^regret over wasted time is more wasted time.
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this girl is mean to me what should i do? i've tried to stand up to her and that didn't work and i've tried to ignore her but that didn't work either so what should i do? (link)
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this might not be your tpe os advice and you might not even listen to it but i went through the same thing,she was a bitch...i was a bitch back and it didnt work so i beat her up....lol!it worked!!Ever since that day shes been too scared to even look me in the face!!muahahAHAHA
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I was talking to my friend about religions and how they relate, and she told me that Islam, Christianity, and Judaism are very similar in their beliefs. The books are very alike, but have different names, according to my friend, and that the belief in Jesus is how Christianity stands out.
But how are Islam and Judaism REALLY different? [I'm not knowledgable at all with religions, so don't accuse me of lieing and stuff cuz this is what my friend told me]. Just because Muslims believe Muhammad was a prophet and Jews don't doesn't seem significant enough to separate the religions. So yeah..how are they different? (link)
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well,i dont know bout judasim but if you want to know about islam check out my website www.freewebs.com/islamteens/
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everytime i go to the bathroom, there is this clear... like gooop. its clear and gooey. and its in my undies=( what is it? how can i get rid of it?
p.s. i have not had period.
hellppp=[ (link)
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hahaha its ok all girls get that.Before you get your period,you get these discharges because your horomones are changing and youre getting puberty so its totally normal,you cant get rid of it.
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my name is Rachel and iam 17 female and iam not on my period or anything and there is like a couple of blood spots on my panties why is that? (link)
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mabey you recently lost your virginity to someone,cuz when you lose your virginity first time you bleed a lil.
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Well, I have to shorten this a bit, as I could go on and on, but basically the story goes like this: One day, as I was sitting in my apartment, I began to hear some teenage girls talking about me throug the walls of the building. I found this strange, but stranger as I came to find they were discussing my thoughts. As time went on, I started hearing them in the shower, then at work and while doing other things. They told me they were psychics at first, and that I was psychic as well. I started hearing family and friends drop by every once in a while in my mind as well. It took me a while, but I finally realized the whole thing was a sham, and that I was being spoken to not by man, but by spirits. At that point, I addressed them as demonic, but having little faith in the idea (Christianity being abandoned due to a hypocritical upbringing), was NOT able to banish them in the name of the Lord. Their words are mostly torment, or "taunting" as they once put it, but at times they are nice, and joke around or have even encouraged me. The thing is, they are liars, and always have been, and they will NOT leave. I don't see any good here, I'm sure these spirits are unclean. Any advice? Looking for something unconventional, if possible. Thanks. (link)
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I think its the lack of religion that always makes this happen.Be careful and dont trust them,they can lure you into doing something really bad,did you always hear them?If you didnt then mabey you were more religious before or mabey you should learn more about your religion and the other main religions mabey theyll give you an answer...islam,christianity,judism...Im positive its lack of religion thats making this happen.If you seeked help in the name of the lord mabey christianity aint what you belive in...I think you should also talk to a trusted adult about this...Try to get rid of them by other religion beilifes...what have you got to lose?i have a website about my religion if you want to learn about it if itll help and its listed on my advice coulmn if thatll help.
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I am virgin, and i Have not come on my period for nearly 2 months. The boy didnt ejacuate cum on his finger and he didnt have pre-cum.. people said it is normal to miss some months of menstruation as i only started my period in june.. CAn i get pregnant? (link)
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ok if youre SURE he DIDNT have pre cum on his finger and your a virgin(your cherry ISNT popped) then theres no way you can be pregnant.Mabey your horomones are just changing but if your cherry IS popped mabey you didnt notice that he had pre cum on his fingers...think...the answer is one of the 2 options i wrote you
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Hey..sorry its soo long i hope you can help im the one usually giving advice if you ever need some ask me!
I hav been going out for this guy let's call him Josh for almost 10 months. We hav an amazing relationship and he really is my best friend. We have one problem his ex girlfriend is insane. She is obssesed with him and there is a long story behind that but just to make it short she is jealous and she wants him and her and I got into a big thing. I don't liek to start things and i do stand up for myself but i don't liek having enemies. About 2 weeks ago. My boyfriend started treating me like crap. This is 2 weeks ago: Saturday night we got into a fight because his ex's friends were starting stuff with my friends. I told him that i didn't know if i cood take i anymore. We weren't on the best page. Since it is summer we don't see eachother that much he went to camp before these 2 weeks and now he's on vacation. SO back to Saturday so that happened then on Sunday we talked and he was mad and upset. On monday we were planning to see eachother on tuesday but my friends messed it up. Also on monday we had a long talk about his ex and hwo i feel like he doesn't stand up for me like he should. When our plans got ruined for tuesday i was upset but it seemed like he didn't even care. On tuesday he called me at night and we didn't talk much but i asked him what he did today and he said nothing and that he's been thinkin about alot. I got a little worried. Well anyways Wedneday came n i went to my friends house with him and all my friends.I decided to just forget about everything because he was leaving that friday and i thought it would be the last time i would see him so i wanted it to be good. It somehow came up and he wanted to talk and said that i don't feel like he is really intersting and all that and he simply told me that he was just thinking that the relationship is getting too serious as in commitment wise. I understood because we are still young but how could he tell me he loves me if he doesn't wanna be with me. Well anyways on thursday i found out that on wednesday night he slept at his friends house and he did a camera thing with one ofmy friends theyw ere all joking but he told her to pull her shirt down more so her boobs would show. It's so hard to even write this because he's so not like this. On thursday night i found out earlier that day his ex adn her friends came over to swim with his friends. Just to amek it short on friday i saw him for 2 minutes and i was planning on talking to him about it but he could opnlys tay for like 5 minutes. He was being an ass and he just left and said i love you bye. He's on vacation right now and i don't know what to do when he comes back. Thanx for reading this .What should i do? I'm 13 almost 14 and a girl.lol (link)
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woman you are hell tooo young to go through this shit.He doesnt love you.Not one bit actually.Hes just a kid too.Kids play around like that.He doesnt even know what love is!!Did he even get puberty yet??If he "loved" you he wouldnt let his ex get in between you two.I think you should dump him and move on with your life.This guys doing everything he can to make it obvious that he dont want you....hes hurting you by doing the video thing with your "freind" and doesnt talk to you much means"woman,leave me alone im sick of you!" sorry but its the truth,dump him before he gets you to depression.
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HELP PLS READ--i like this boy a real lot and my friend new i told her all the time. a week later i found out he asked her out because her cuzzent kept telling
him that he should. now he was in a real bad
relaionship so im happy for him but she said yes when she knows i like him and i just hate her so much i realy dont wanna hate her but i do i dont hate her cuzzent because i dont think i ever told her i like him.im a ex cutter and being one kinda made me hate people even if i love them so when they do shit like this it dont hurt but i realy liked her she was one of my closest friends i still wanna be friends with her but hating her is easer beacuse if you hate your friends that when the do somthing it wont hurt as bad and i hate myself for getting to close with her (link)
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What she did isnt something a true freind would do.If she cared about you and how you feel she would have never dated him.You need to tell her EVERYTHING you feel,even that you dont like her as much as you used to cuz of what she did.Let it alllll out.Call her up and tell her theres something you need te tell her then just explode.But wait,mabey what she did was terrible and wrong BUT dont ever let a guy ruin your freindship,guys dont stay with you as lond as true freinds do and she let that happen.Tell her that she let a guy ruin your freindship and to pick between him or you.
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my brother and i are both realli depressed. i was wondering if there is anything i can do about us being depressed before something happens. if you get my drift. i fear for both of us. he's 17...almost 18 and im 15. if that helps. (link)
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Its very hard to get over depression without talking to someone about it.You need to talk to a parent or trusted adult.You can see a theripist,its better than being depressed.I would suggest a theripest because he will know exactly how you feel and will advice you best.
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How do you pronounce Khalil? I know it's an Arabic name if that helps. (link)
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its pronounced KHAA(the kh sounds like the disgusting sound some people do before they spit)then LEEL so its KHAA-LEEL
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My boyfreind has had sex with 30 other girls and he prbably has alot of STDS and he cheats on everyone.its just in his nature. He cheated on my friend he cheated on all his other grilfriends. He tried to finger my friend when they were going out and my frined dint want him to and he wouldn't stop trying to do it. He's a man hore. He's only 16 too and he already had sex with 30 girls. And to top it all off, hes arrested right now I forgot what he did. I think hes too much truble for me because I'm not a good girl but I'm not that bad. hes already wanted sex with me the first day we were going out. I think i should dump him. Hes a bad kid and he will only cause more trouble to me. What do yuo think? (link)
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WOW!!um,why are you WITH this guy again??Being with him is going to lead you to the following
1)Bad reputation
2)STD's(DUH)
3)mabey even pregnant
4)being used
5)depression!
Dump him before its too late and before your completly in love with him.This guy doesnt love anyone and never did,hes too immature to feel love.How can you tolerate the fact that his freinds told you hes using you for sex and youre still with him??I woulda bitchslapped him and kicked him where it hurts,dumped him and ran off.muahah.Do the same.
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hi, i am 15 and recently had an abortion with the abortion pill, i did not want to get rid of my child but i know in the long term it was the right thing to do, ever since i had it i feel horrible, i cant sleep and i dont feel like eating. the only person i have told is my boss nikki as i have a part time job and she has been great, but every time i txt her when im down i just feel like she is gettin pissed of with me, i dont no why. i was just wondering if anyone could give me advice on 1. how to get over my loss and get on with my life and 2. tell me how my boss will be feeling (people who have helped someone through an abortion would be best for this bit) thank you so much x (link)
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Well i think its better that you had the abortion.Think of it,your just a kid...would YOU be able to take care of one when you ARE one yourself???Your kid would need advice and you wouldnt be able to give it any cuz youre in need of it yourself.This kinda teaches you a lesson of having protected sex next time or not to have it at all when your 15.I think your boss is getting annoyed cuz mabey youve been talking to her too much about this and she advised you many times and you dont listen.I know its hard.But you have to move on with your life.
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my dogs is throwing up blood and I can't afford to go to the vet, Please give me advice on what this could be . (link)
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Be VERY careful,he could have bilharzia.Its a disease that anyone can get by swimming in dirty water or by making contact with a person infected by bilharzia.Thats what happens when you get this disease.Worms enter your body and eat up your lungs bit by bit then you puke blood.I think you should keep away from your dog,or you might get an infection too.
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I been dancing for about 7 or 8 years. But im scared to try out for dance company, because the fact not making it, it kills me! Should i try out? Or should i not try out so it doesnt hurt mee (link)
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Ive had your same problem before but in fashion designing....Youre problem is that youre over confident and losing is just not an option.Just enter the dance company and know that your gonna lose 90% anyway and youre just doing this for fun.If you have hope 90% that your gonna win and you DONT,youll go crashin down and get depressed.
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earlier this year i dated a guy. we dated for almost 2 months and then i broke up with him because i felt that i didnt really like him any more. and now we are friends. i know that he still has feelings for me because his best friend told me. but lately ive felt like i like him again. but im afraid that if we went out again that the same thing would happen again. should i tell him i wanna date him again or should we just stay friends? (link)
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I think you guys should stay freinds.If you liked him before and got bored of him,then if you get back with him youll get bored of him AGAIN.I think you really like him a LOT but as a freind.Sometimes when you like a guy freind too much,you think you like them as a crush but your feelings are just not sorted out.Dont go back to him,cuz if you do then leave him again,youll be playing with him and im sure you wouldnt like that to happen to you one day and youll be ruining your freindship together.
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I have been trying to eat healthier, so I have been substituting some of my normal snacks for fruits. But when I start eating them, I eat SOOO much fruit! Can eating too much fruit be bad for you in the long run? Like obviously you need fruit in your diet, but if you eat too much all the time can it cause you to gain weight or anything? Thanks in advance! (link)
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Eating too much of ANYTHING can make you gain weight.Your problem is that since you totally canceled eating junk,you take it out on fruits.Thats better but it can make you gain weight.Look,in order to feel full,just drink 2 cups of water before eating fruits,then youll feel bloated.
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Since getting married, my husband and I make love around twice a week but i have a secret. I can't enjoy it cos it hurts, like, a LOT. Weve tried lubes and i always get turned on so its not cos of that but i dont know what to do. Its ruining our sex life and thats tough cos were trying for a baby.
Please can someone help us? Im so worried about this. I just want it to feel good but it hurts so much that it makes me sore for days afterwards. Please, any advice for us! (link)
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Mabey hes going to ruff on you.If so tell him to go easy on you.If he doesnt,than i suggest you see a doctor,it can be serious.
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The question is simple but the answer might be abit more complex! "Is life fair"? And please no answers lile "it's as fair as you make it"!! (link)
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I think life is very fair.For example youve got a lot of money and your really pretty BUT the guy your dying to have hates you and thinks youre ugly and goes off dating your best freind.You get mad and think life isnt fair BUT when you look at the bright side you see that theres another girl that looks awful and is really poor but has the love of her life.So its fair.Youve got something the other people dont and vice versa.Sometimes people choose the wrong path in life like taking drugs for example...then when they become addicted and sick they go like awww whys God doing this to meee life isnt fair but YOU could have chosen the RIGHT path to take but you didnt,so its your fault,you made it like this.God cant give you everything and leave the people that starve everyday in africa with nothing....THAT would make it not fair.
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Hey my best friend gabby just turned 16 and iam 17 and on her b-day both her parents let her drink a half bottle of beer and ever since then she's been saying how cool it is and iam sick of it how can I get her to stop drinking?Iam really worried. (link)
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You need to scare her.Tell her all the consenquences of drinking at such a young age.She could get brain cancer!She could even lose her virginity or have sex with a guy and not know untill 5 months pass by and she finds her stomache big!People that drink a lot have really scary flashbacks and can think that they are talking to someone and nobodys actually there.Shes going to ruin her life.Advice her with this or even talk to her parents!She might get mad at you but at least youre being a true best freind.Tell them that your worried about her and that she drinks way too much.IF that dont work either then quit trying to help.You did what you had to do as a freind and she didnt accept your help so its her loss.
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okayy this guy i know wants to have sex with me. i don't care if we do or not ... but i'm just scared that i would get pregnant. like REALLY scared ... that's my biggest fear.
i'm a virgin & i don't care who i lose it to ... whether it's my husband or just some hot guy ... i'm not in a hurry to lose it but i would definately like to.
this guy is veryy experienced so i'm sure he knows what he's doing with the condom & everything but i don't know ... i think i'd feel safer with a guy i actually loved.
has anyone ever gotten pregnant from a condom breaking when you used it correctly? (link)
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There are a lot of people that got pregnant to a condom breaking.I think you shouldnt rush it,youll have sex one day.You dont even love him,and if you happen to by any chance get pregnant hes not gonna take care of your child cuz theres nothing between you guys.In your condition,sex is a couple hours of pleasure youll regret for a couple of years to come when your pregnant.I seriously think you should wait,a lot of people think they know what theyre doing and screw up a lot of things.
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