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it hurts!
Since getting married, my husband and I make love around twice a week but i have a secret. I can't enjoy it cos it hurts, like, a LOT. Weve tried lubes and i always get turned on so its not cos of that but i dont know what to do. Its ruining our sex life and thats tough cos were trying for a baby.
Please can someone help us? Im so worried about this. I just want it to feel good but it hurts so much that it makes me sore for days afterwards. Please, any advice for us!
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It sounds very much like you have something called Vaginismus, which is where sex is very painful, sometimes impossible, i too sufferd with this.
See your Gp who will refer you to a sex therapist, it is a very treatable condition aslong as you get the right help.
This website tells you about this condition
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Mabey hes going to ruff on you.If so tell him to go easy on you.If he doesnt,than i suggest you see a doctor,it can be serious.
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i would go to the doctor. also talk to your husband about it, since you guys are married i hope you feel close enough to eachother to speak to eachother about things like that. maybe he is just well endowed and youre vagina just needs getting used to it. after you do it wait until it stops hurting than maybe try again, you shouldnt keep having sex if it still hurts because you could be damaging yourself and that would be bad.
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Go see your doctor, it isn't normal and could be a sign of an infection. Left untreated, some infections can ruin your chances of fertility. Even if there isn no infection, most of the time these issues are easily resolved under doctors advice and there is no reason for you to have to feel any pain.
Once more thing: Cos=because.
Try it!
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