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hi im lauren. im 15 & ive had experience with lots of stuff.. so i can answer pretty much any kind of question =]

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What is 'grinding' in comparison to sex?

grinding is like a way of dancing
where the guy like rubs the front of his body against the back of yours to like the music. its kinda hard to explain but yeah.. its dancing in a more sexual touchy way.

hope i helped

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I'm really scared because I had sex with my boyfriend on Monday and on Wednesday I noticed that I was bleeding a little bit, down there in my vaginal area. Its not a lot of blood, but it's still enough bleeding to have my conserned. It is now thursday, and I'm still bleedin, lightly. whats going on??

maybe he popped your cherry

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im 15 and i have a girlfriend and i slipped my penis into her vagina and took it out... can she get pregnant.

yepp she can but there isnt as high of a chance as if you had left it in for longer

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so is it true that when people have low self esteem that they tell other people that they are ugly just to make themselves feel better?

♥if thats true . theres one girl whos always telling me how ugly i am . well i dont want to sound conceited because im not but i know im pretty . and yeah . but she doesnt think shes pretty and she has told me that before but she acts like shes all that and has to call other ppl names and i guess it makes herself feel good?
♥much love

sounds like one of my best friends
i mean shes fun to hang around with and like we know everything about eachother to the point where its scary.. but sometimes she gets like weird and says im ugly or fat or something even though i know that im not..( she mostly says this stuff when i get a boyfriend) cuz ive had 4 this year and shes had none. she can also be really conceited and then she says shes jk but i know shes not. so basically yeah your friend is probably jealous of you.

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if i started to shave my arms, would the hair grow darker and longer?

ps. my arm hairs are black

yes it will grow back darker and longer
if you really want to get rid of your arm hair then i would suggest using nair becuz then it takes longer for the hair to grow back and also you wont get any razor bumps

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Summer is what i've always loved about my life, but now it's the worse, see i need school. yeah i know this sounds crazy but i do. see i have this friend, he's my best friend and i've known him since i can remember. His name is J.C., and he's now all i can think about. People used to always ask if we were bfs and gfs but we always said no. we tell everyone that we're like brother's and sister's to eachother, but people think that we're secretly dating, but we're not. well it was the truth. even though we acted like it. we would always sit by eachother and tell eachother everything. We would make up nick names for eachother, not gushy ones though. We even told eachother that we are the best friends anyone couls ever have. I've known him ever since i could remember. Well everytime i hear stuff or see couples or hear sappy sounds, BOOM he pops up in my mind and down comes a frown. I'm hoping he's in my homeroom this year, and i don't what to do if he's not. What should i do if he's not? Am i in love? Does he love me? Do i like him? Does he like me?

Please help.

well umm it sounds like you like him
call him and ask him to hang out sometime..
i mean.. he is your best friend.. then maybe you can find out if he likes you as much as you like him

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i really like this guy and he seems to like me.. we are getting to the point were he we talk all the time and he leaves me comments sayin i love you and he always wants to hang out and when we do hang out we cant be seperated, were always holding hands and he holds me in his arms like he doesnt want me to go anywhere and he kisses me gently. the problem is he hasnt asked me out yet and i dont know why. and when he calls girls cute on myspace like he'll say "whats up cutie?" ill get really jealous and i dont know. i know i shouldnt be jealous cause were not exactly goin out. his cousin is like one of my best friends and she told me that she thinks he is a player. but he doesnt talk about any other girls in front of me and he holds my hand in front of them and everything. but i know that his cousin (my best friend) wouldnt lie. so what should i do.. should i ask him out..should i wait and see if he is waiting for the right moment?

have one of your friends or your cousin ask him casually about who he likes so you can find out if he likes you or not
then decide from there if you should ask him out
or tell him that you like him

good luck

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hey well i'm trying to take pictures and make it into a movie type thing with sound and everything is there a program i can download so i can do this? thank you =]

go on onetruemedia.com

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Okay here is the deal.I like this one guy.He likes me back too.I dont know if i should go out with him though because we have been best friends for 2 yrs.I am afraid this is going to hurt our friendship if we break up..What should i do?This is really hard on me.I luv him!

go out with him
since you guys are such good friends the relationship should probly last a while and after its over.. you might be mad at eachother for a while but theres a really good chance that you will be able to be friends after

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I have a lil pot belly and its bugging me i dont eat fast food junk food or anything.. i eat healthy and i have been eating healthy for 3 years and i dont just sit around all day doing nothing im an active person i do hip hop dancing and i have been doin it for years and i could of imagined that my belly would have flattened by then but it hasnt.. its not noticable to others because i look skinny to them because of my height and stuff but my belly is the only thing thats kinda fat on me.. i have tried everything to get rid of it but nothing has seemed to work.. i know i shouldnt care about it because its not like a gross huge belly its just a lil one.. so please if you would people what else is there for me to do to get rid of it please help it would make me happy

thank you

do like 100 sit ups every nite
sometimes its hereditary and you cant get rid of it

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I have been going out with this guy a few states away, he calls and we instant message. the fact is, i really do like him, just not how he wants me to. he is 2 years younger, and is uncumfortable with talking about love and stuff,i still want the freind ship, and i still like him sort of, but i want more, wht should i do!?!

it sounds like you need to break up with him
tell him nicely that you would rather just be friends..

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Last night my boyfriend got mad at me and said he was mad because he doesn't think I care about him. I love him with all of my heart and he loves me too. I just don't know how to show it. Please help.

call him.. tell him you love him when he says something cute.. umm maybe text him throughout the day to let him know that you are thinking about him.. stuff like that

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When I was about 13, I decided that I never want to get married and I still feel this way and believe that I will always feel this way. I guess it does kind of reflect on my family because both my parents have been married multiple times but it isn't just because of that. It seems as if married means nothing anymore to most people (not all people, I know). So I don't know, people are always telling me that not all marriages end and that mine doesn't have to be all bad like my parents and I know that but I just dont see myself getting married. Does anyone else feel this is way or am I alone? Please don't tell me reason why marriage is so great and how if it's the right person it'll work because I've heard it all before. 17/f


i have a friend that never wants to get married or wants to have kids. shes felt this way since like 5th grade and shes gonna be a freshman. so yeah your not alone there are other people that feel this way. but like if uve ever had a boyfriend.. you know how like there mite be one that you really like and maybe you culd think about spending the rest of your life with him. one day u mite find a person that you dont think you could ever live without. well.. good luck

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I'm taking my dog to get put down on Friday. She has cancer and is really sick. I've had her for 10 years and it's going to be really devastating. I don't know how I'm going to handle it. Has anyone else had a pet put down, how did you get over it? What's it going to feel like, no one close to me has ever died before!

if you got a new dog right away it would help a lot. even tho a new one wouldnt take the place of ur old one..it would be a new pet that you make new memories with. =)

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every so often after i go pee, it feels like i still have to pee,but i dont.its not exactly a burning feeling, but sort of.what could it be?

thanks.

drink a lot of water
& if it still happens then talk to your parents or see a doctor = ]

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Okay I really want to model and I need some advice on how I convince my mom ... I'd like to talk to her about it tomorrow sometime -- perferablly in the morning so I need advice NOWW!! Please just tell me the positives of it. Thanks so muchh =]

1. You can make money.
2. Its fun.
3. It boosts your confidence.
4. Its cool to see yourself like in a catalog or something

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Me & my mom made a deal that I can get an Ipod if I raise up my grades.

Well I did, but I just don`t know if I should get a Nano or just one of those regular Ipods.

Which one should I get??

I'm just confused & I don't want to end up with the sucky one. Thank you.

mini ipods are good..
i wouldnt get a nano cuz its really small & fragile
& my friend dropped theirs & it broke
so yeah i would get a mini or a regular one =D

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Tomorow I have an early morning practice for volleyball, and you have to shower afterwards. Well, I'm on my period, and I'm not yet comfortable with tampons. I don't want to be bleeding in the shower infront of all the girls so I was gonna wear a tampon with a bathing suit just in case. Well my flow is really light right now, so I don't want to use a tampon, but I don't want my bathing suit turning red or me bleeding in the shower! What should I do? =D

i would wear a tampon..
just in case =D
because really thats better then being embarrassed in front of ur whole team

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my boyfriend told me he has a
crush on another girl,
and i don't know what to do.

he says he loves me and wants to be with me,
and that he just wanted to be honest with me.

but now i feel as though i'm going
to be paranoid all the time.
i dont like feeling like this;
but i can't leave him.

i love him too much..

and today he spent all morning with me,
telling me how he doesnt want this to
interfear with our relationship.

he said it was weighing him down
and that he needed to get it off his chest;
but now that it's off of HIS.
it's not been put onto MINE.


what should i do?

-L



uhh..
well if he likes another girl..
then you should break up w/ him
these things happen..
sorry

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Does anyone know and good workout routines to get ready for Track and Field? Any suggestions would be great please help me out :[

uhh..just run
like on a treadmill or outside or w/e

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