i really like this guy and he seems to like me.. we are getting to the point were he we talk all the time and he leaves me comments sayin i love you and he always wants to hang out and when we do hang out we cant be seperated, were always holding hands and he holds me in his arms like he doesnt want me to go anywhere and he kisses me gently. the problem is he hasnt asked me out yet and i dont know why. and when he calls girls cute on myspace like he'll say "whats up cutie?" ill get really jealous and i dont know. i know i shouldnt be jealous cause were not exactly goin out. his cousin is like one of my best friends and she told me that she thinks he is a player. but he doesnt talk about any other girls in front of me and he holds my hand in front of them and everything. but i know that his cousin (my best friend) wouldnt lie. so what should i do.. should i ask him out..should i wait and see if he is waiting for the right moment?
jellybelly answered Sunday July 16 2006, 12:05 am: you should ask him out. If he says no then you know it wasn't meant to be and you wont be spending your whole life wondering "what if i asked him out" [ jellybelly's advice column | Ask jellybelly A Question ]
Tianna_Time answered Saturday July 15 2006, 11:41 pm: I think you should talk to him, tell him what you are felling. You should also ask your friend (his cousin) how she would feel if you went out with him. She may feel awkward about the idea of you to going out. I can understand how you may be jealous about how he acts around other girls, but give it time. You don't want to scare him away. Simply sit him down and tell him your uncomfortable with how he acts around other girls. He may not notice how he is around them. As for his cousin (your friend) saying he is a player, she may be right, so don't rule out all of the possibilities. From what you say, it sounds like he really cares about you, so talking to him is the best thing to do, im sure he will understand. If he doesn't, maybe he isn't worth it, I hope every thing works out for the best :)
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Cassie2011 answered Saturday July 15 2006, 11:33 pm: i think you should ask him out if your truly in love with him.I mean if you truly love someone your going to do anythin for them.If you like him as much as you say you do,my advice is the best.If you arent really sure if you love him,i would rather you move on because if you stay on him you will have a very sad life.I hope my advice helped! [ Cassie2011's advice column | Ask Cassie2011 A Question ]
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