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hey guys! my name is cait♥ and i adore giving people advice. my obsession is 8th&ocean. i even have the theme song as my ringtone ; ] hehe. anyways im a cheerleader and i love every minute of it. well dont be afraid to ask me certain questions because im always here for you = ]. thanks for coming here and reading this. so you like my advice? add me!! = ]]. cait♥

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How do I get over a guy that doesn't like me back. Everytime I see him in class; I just melt. I just begin to think about how perfect of a boyfriend he would be. I often find my mind just running off about him. My question is NOT how to get him to like me; Its how do I get over him?

hey start seeing differnet guys and getting introduced to ore guys to sorta you know get your mind off things. maybe go out wiht friends and shop. you could also try telling him your felins for him. cait ♥

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recently ive been going through a breakup. We didnt go out very long but we were friends before that for like a year. Now he says that we can still be friends, we broke up because we dont live close to eachother and "bad timing" so i still like him and he says he still likes me. I want to still be his friend but i dont know how to be just that, when we first met it was because he liked me but we didnt go out we just talked and after awhile stopped talking, then a few months later we became friends again ... till now. I dont know if i can just be his friend, if i feel for him like this, and i think he's moved on to this new girl (whos like completly different than me)so i feel replaced, and disappointed, and kind of used. I dont know what to do, he promises me that we'll be friends but we havent spoken to eachother in like 5 days (which is long for us, we usually talk everyday) and last time we talked he kept bringing up my replacement, they dont go out but they act like me and him did. please help me, i dont know whether to stop talking to him or to pretend i dont feel this way. Ive already told him i felt replaced but he doesnt seem to get it, he acts like he does then he'll just go back. btw 15/f

hey attempt to get over him. obviosly he sint that nice of a guy if he doesnt listen to any of your feelings whatsoever. try to find another sweet loving and caring guy. btu also try to stay in contact wiht him. and make sure he knows that you jsut wantto be friends now. remeber there are plenty of other fish in the sea! lol. cait ♥

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so i had a bf and we were sposed to go out on vday to a really vancy place on vday. as you all know tomorrow is valentines day and he asked me when i could hanh out nd i said tomorrow i guess cause i havent seen him in a while. I didnt even notice it was valentines day tomorrow. I like him but i dont know if I want to go out with him cause Im keeping my options open wanting to meet new guys. But i cant help but like him.

What should I do tomorrow? should I show I like him or not?

Also he still wants to take me out for food this weekend but he says. "cause I wana get some grub."

What do you think i should do? and do you think he likes me or just wants to be friends?

hey um yes he def. likes you! if you like him you should give him a try. go out with him. he seems really sweet and nice. but if you dont want anything more then a friendship let him know do not lead him on. cait ♥

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Are there any coming up anti-Bush protests in the Boston area? I'm willing to travel for up to 5 hours to go to one. Websites would be really great. Thanks in advance.

hey um im not sure of anywebsites but try a search engine like google or ask.com cait ♥

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I always lie to my parents so I don't get in trouble. They're awfully hard on me sometimes, but after I tell the lie I realize it probably would've been easier to just tell them the truth, admit what I did in the first place was wrong, and then take my punishment. What can I do to stop lying, and is there anything that my parents can do on their part so that I don't feel the need to lie - or am I just a weak teenager because I used to be such a good kid and never get in trouble?

hey it seems to me that your a weak teenager. you used to be good and ow your starting to be rebelious. its okay to lie over big things that you know that your gonna get grounded for for like 4 months but to lie over stupid little things like bad grades is dumb and unnessasry. also try talking to your parents about being a little less strict on you and tell them that sometimes you dont even wanna tell them things because they will make a huge deal out of the littelet things. dont make a habit out of lying. cait ♥

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okay... Well, my x(Ryan)broke up with me a month ago and is going out w/ another girl!And, I mean me and Ryan have still done stuff ever sicne he broke up w/ me and he has a g/f. But, i wanna say something to really mke him think about what mistake he is making and how he should come back to me! we went out for 6 months by the way!! And, i told him i have to talk to him and i wanna go back out with him and he still likes me but he don't wanna come back to the arguing all the time so therefore he don't wanna go back out yet and i want him to come back and i want to say something to make him think about it and convince him that he should come back to me PLEASE help me! i rate high!

hey well yehn yuo cant just make someonelike you. you gotta show him that yoy still care about him oto even ever have another chance with him. have a nice long talk with him and if he doesnt understand then its not meant to be. sorry. and make sure you entend on not fighting with him and make sure he knows that to. cait ♥

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ok i was using this little electronic razor thingy to comb out my eyebrows so theyll look neat. The thing was off. I was doign it for a while and then i wasnt paying attention and accidently turned it on WHILE IT WAS ON MY EYEBROW now theres a lil blank spot it the middle of my eyebrow- is there any way i can cover it up? please help a.s.a.p ♥anonymous

hey um get an eyebrow pencil at like cvs. make sure it matches your eyebrow and draw short lines throughout your whole entire eyebrow. cait ♥

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I have always had girls come up to me and say they think i'm cute or ask me out, and all the girls have had crushes on me. What I want to know is how do I approach girls that i like that might be shy or scared to? I've never had to and i'm pretty clueless of what to talk about and how to tell if she's interested in me or not, unless she has come up to me. I'd appreciate your feedback.

Thanks

hey girls love compliments so go up to her and say heyy yuo look pretty today or something like that. most convos start naturaly. try to find a topc your both interesting in. after is all done ask for her aim screen name. also make alot of eye contact. cait ♥

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so i just started shaveing "down there" and it never comes out like a good clean shave is there anything i could do to make it softer skin and get all the hair?

hey umm you could use an electric razor [ which might not feel the best ] or you could try baby soft shaving cream by skinmate thats in a blue bottle. cait ♥

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lately i have been getting heavy distarge right after i get my period. It really smells and i feel wet and uncomfortable. Is there anything i could do to make it not as heavy or smelly? thanks

hey you could try scented pantiliners. tampax sells them. cait ♥

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Hi, I'm a columnist on this site (lauraxomichelle) but I need some advice of my own. It's actually mostly for my mom. When she got married 20 years ago, she bought a beautiful set of dishes at Bradlees, which is now closed. They were by Home Beautiful, style JP 303 ambrosia. If anybody knows of websites that sell them (like, legitamite sites) or stores (we're in the southern New England area) it would be a great help! thanks so much!

hey um www.amazon.com has them. also you could try www.ebay.com they might have them. other then that search www.google.com or any other search engine. cait ♥

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is there any new songs you guys know because im starting to get kinda late on what songs are new right now
you can name anything i like it all.. thanks
i rate 5 for all answers!

hey YAYY!! i love these type of questions lol. umm

im n love with a stripper by t-pain
everytime we touch by cascada
beep by the pussycat dolls
love by keyshia cole

cait ♥

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whats everyones fav. recipes!
i want to try new ones. cookies/pasta/jello
anything because i dont get the family food book from kraft anymore :(
rate 5's .. thanks

hey um buy a cook book. or search under a search enigne such as www.google.com or www.ask.com. another thing is this website http://www.kelloggs.com/recipes/
cait ♥

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wheres the cheapest place to find things to decorate your room
and what in your opinion is the best wall color!
its lime green now ( yuck..)
thanks! i rate 5's

hey um the best wall color is tan or off white. as for cheap goods try tjmaxx or walmart. also a magazine called pb teen is good to. cait ♥

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this may sound weird but i want my teeth white
and i was wondering what toothpaste you use and if it works! thanks i rate 5's

also any other suggetions would be nice

hey crest is the best! use crest vivid whitening toothpaste and crest whitestrips. cait ♥

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if i run and walk on a treadmill for about 20-30 minutes each day.. would i lose weight and would it help me tone my stomach and legs? if so, when will i see results?

hey yes it will tone everything and flaten your stomach if you do it EVERYDAY. you will start to notice the tonign adn weight losing about a month after. for faster results run. if your going ot wwalk do it for 1 hour. another good thing to try is crunches. cait ♥

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Am I justified in being upset with my bf? Since he moved to another state back in November for a job he hasnt contacted me ONCE. I phoned him on Xmas Day and he said that he'd phone me on New Years. I was waiting up all night for his call, and never got one. I've decided to give him one last chance, on Valentines Day. If he doenst phone me then it's over. Life is just too lonely having my life put on hold. My feelings are deeply hurt that he would treat me this way. My question is if he doesnt contact me on V-day, should I phone him up and tell him that it's over between us?

hey yes phone im and tell him its over if he doesnt call. he obiviosuly moved on or something that is too important to call you which sucks. cait ♥

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When I go to rate someone's advice, it says "Answer not specified." What does that mean and how can I avoid it?

hey it means that your doing it wrong. make sure you have went to the dropdown thinger and picked a number. cait ♥

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My eyebrows are over-plucked and I do not know what to do with them. Only stray hairs below the main eyebrow are left and those I pluck, but the areas that I need hair to grow back at, it isn't! I've tried using an eyebrow pencil, but it always turns out looking creepy, overdone, and fake. So what products are out there that I can use to make my over plucked eyebrows look less severe and more natural?

hey um there really isnt anything out there to make your eyebrows grow back or look natural. what your gonna have to do is [ if your eyebrows are black or brown ] get both a black and a brown eyebrow pencil and a eyeshadow applier thing [ those sticks with the padding on the end ] and color some brown and black on it and rub it togehtet with your finger then put that on your eyebrows. if you have blonde or red hair eyebrows find a blondish and a redish eyebrow penicl and do the same. cait ♥

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I recently read a few pages of my gf's journal (I know, I know, I shouldn't have) and she mentioned another guy that she is interested in. She writes about how happy she is when she sees this guy. Should I confront her about it or just see what happens?

hey umm yeah that was bad move. also if you confront her about it then shes gonna know that you wre snopping in her journal. duh. so dont confront her just see what happens. you could try talking to one of her friends about it. cait ♥

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