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15/M Do girls like guys that wear cologne? Would they like a 15 year old with cologne? I've heard that girls don't like it because cologne reminds them of their dad or grandpa. I was just wondering.

It depends on what you are going to wear. I personaly like it. I like the smell of the hollister cologne. It doesn't remind me of my dad or grandpa. Ha. So id say go for it :] Hope i helped!

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well i've been sick since friday, both of my ears is hurtin and my throat. i've been throwing up. i stopped for like a couple of hours then started again. my stomach and everything is hurting my arms and legs are sore..what could i have???..could i have the flu?

Please get back to me ASAP..because i feel like im dying and i need to no weither i should go to the hospital or not

Symtoms of the flu:

Body aches
Chills
Dry cough
Extreme fatique and/or weakness
Fever
Headache
Sore throat
Stuffy nose

Symtoms of a cold:

stuffy, runny nose
scratchy, tickly throat
sneezing
watering eyes
low-grade fever
sore throat
mild hacking cough
achy muscles and bones
headache
mild fatigue
chills
watery discharge from nose that thickens and turns yellow or green

Those are the things I think you might have. try and self diagnose yourself :] Then call the doctor if nesseary! Hope i helped!

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Hi, I gotten a job and Like it. there guy there he very nice and I hard he is funny. so now I am not in High school anymore hoply be different then hig school. i want know how and make shure i be come friend with this guy how to be friendly and not lead him on and think I am crushing on him. I don't want runie it.

Well, its the same thing like you did in high school, middle school.

Just be his friend. Don't be flirty, just be extremly nice. But not too nice, and don't give him any ideas :}

hope i helped!

~Jackie~

*SURE NO PROBLEM*

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I usually wear some abercrombie or american eagle type clothes but I want to have some more individual clothes in my wardrobe too. So I was wondering if 2nd hand stores like goodwill, value village, or places like that are good places to find unique shirts and accessories. I'm trying to fray away from preppy clothes, but I still want to be girl. Also are there any stores that aren't 2nd hand that have the things im looking for? thanks for you help! any advice at all is greatly appreciated

You can find a ton of cute stuff at theift stores. But delias has some really cute stuff! Its pretty expensive though. ha

www.delias.com

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Hey! Well, I'm 14/f and I was wondering, since I have a cingular phone (Nokia), how do you put pictures from your cell phone onto the computer? Thanks

Pic. Message them to your email adreess. Then save htem on to your computer, and do what you want from there with them!

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ok, so, yesterday, somehow, i asked my crush out. he's my guy best friend, and while we were talking, i just kinda slipped it in there. I ACTUALLY ASKED HIM OUT! this morning when i woke up, it seemed like a dream. but it wasn't. after i asked him out, he replied by saying, "i need time to think". how should i take that? what does that mean? if you asked somebody out and said that, what would you have thought? maybe i'm looking into this too far, but i can't help but do it, cuz i'm so nervous and stuff.

please help!

Calm down hun. Nothing to be worried about.
If he says yes, make sure you say somerthing like don't let this ruin our frienship or whatever. You know.

But if he says no, say alright. Were still friends right? In the end, breakup, or never togher, or happy couple. YOU WANT TO BE FRIENDS IN THE END. Well i hope i helped!

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I love the song "My man" by Beyonce. I once listened to it on myspace and now I tried searching for it to listen to it up there again but I couldn't find it. I don't have an mp3 player. But I really want to listen to this song. If anyone had anyplaces that I could go online to listen to it for free please let me know.

http://www.lyricsandsongs.com/song/642218.html

you can find the song right there, and im pretty sure you can listen to it, and read the lyrics. Hope i helped!

&EDIT&

Just wondering.. why was i rated a 4?

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my best friend may be pregnant; I have a really strong feeling that she is. The thing is, I know shes going to need a lot of comfort and support if that is the case. can someone please help me with that? I have no idea what to say to her, what to say to her when she says that she really is pregnant. Please, help.

[15/f; friend's 14]

First of all. This was totaly her desision. So don't abandan her. Friends and friends, and then stick together through thick and thin.
If she is, or isn't pregnant, always offer her help. I really hope she decides to keep the baby, because im totaly aginst abortion ( just saying )
But anyways, be a good friend to her. Make sure you always help her if she needs it.
Hope I helped :)

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I need some things that I can bring up with my boyfriend when we talk online. Like so that our conversations can me more intimate. Thanks!!

Well. Ask him how is day was. Ask him if he has alot of homework. Then if he asks [ which he probably will, tell him about your day ] Ask questions. You know, haha. Go with the flow (:

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why was i rated a one?

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Okay, well i have this freind, Jane, and she is the nosiest thing. She'll look aat my grades, eavesdrop on me and my freinds conversation and ask personal questions. it's like shes a stalker.
But shes realy nice, but annoying
what should i do?
-jan

I have the same problem. My friend we hung out with [ me and my frineds ] acts like a 2 year old. if we are talking she will always be like "WHAT"

Talk to her. Tell her youd prefer to have some privacy. But be nice about it. If you know what I mean :]

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this summer will be my "senior" year at a summer camp I go to. it's a theater camp and its full of talent and "stars" i want to make a mix cd for each of my friends, who are seniors, but I dont know many songs to put, and I also want to make some sort of t-shirt that says seniors oh sev or something... I'll be making the c.d and the shirt. IDEAS!!

The camp is called On Center Stage

Hey. This is a great question. I am a singer, and I too go to a theater camp :}
Leaving camp was very hard for me. I made so many friends [ who i still talk to ]

The one song that i loved the most is "Grauduation
" (Friends Forever) By Vitiman C.

"As we go on
we remeber
all the times we
had together
and as our lives change
come whatever
we will still be
friends forever"

Now. That song really descibes the friends ive made. its a really good song to sing to. consider that :] hope i helped!

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