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hey .. i have a good friend of mine and she wants to kill herself because her and her boyfriend broke up .. and i dont know waht to say to her to make her not kill herself .. like i've said pretty much everything possible and i just dont know waht to do .. nothing i say will make her realize that hes not the only guy and all .. i really need help like asap .. !!
-- ash

Tell her that she doesnt want to kill her self, that she is just going through a ruff patch and everyone has those. Just be there for her and tell her what she will do if shes kills her self, she'll leave her friends you and her family to cope with her death.

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my forehead is always shiny and oilyy..

so is there anything i can use to keep my forehead shine free for the whole day? well atleast, shine free during school

i have oil blotting sheets from clean and clear, but I dont know if that would keep the oil n shinyness away for a long time

Yes get some facial wash, soap free. Which leaves your skin feeling smooth and also johnsons facial cream after showering, it helps with soft skin.

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What kind of bra should I wear underneath a slik/lace tank top (specific brand would be helpful)? I see girls wearing them all the time and you can't tell they're wearing a bra! Everytime I try, my bra shows. Please help me out :)

You can get these gel bras, which have no straps you just stick them over your boobs, and the have a good firm hold. I dont no if they do them over there but you could reserch to see if they do them. You can also get underwired strapless bras.

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im a guy who is shy and i like this girl who is like my best friend and i want to have a bigger relationship with her, what should i do to get her attention? please help!! thanks

Just be your self, dont start been loud and obnoxious. Just carmly talk to her about life and stuff that interests you. Then ask her out on a date to the cinema or to bowling somewhere you like or she might like.
good luck.

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What would you do if the guy you were madly in love with was like your perfect man that you've always dreamed of and then all of a sudden changed? I mean like James has always been the perfect guy for me since I met him! And now all of a sudden hes different what do I do?!?! If your answer helps me out Ill definatly rate you good!

Hi, We its obious that you have gone of him, and you though that now your sick of thinking that hes for you and that you just dont find him as anything anymore its nothing to worry about.

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i got my period last month on the 9th .. i am 17 years old and dont have a set schedule yet for my period...i have had it for 3 years now yet dont have a regular schedule..anyhow, i got it last month on the 9th ..it is now the 13 and i still havent gotten it for this month...does this mean i missed it or should i give it another week or so until i start panicking? i am sexually active and there is a possibiltiy i could be pregnant, but do you think i should start worrying NOW or not yet? thank you so much in advance, ive been driving myself crazy here.

If you have had sex and you didnt use protection then you might well be pregnant. But there is a bigger chance your just late! Go see a female doctor and see what she says see if she can help you.

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My eyelashes are really long meaning i cant wear Mascara becuase it makes them look even longer and weird. is there any mascara i can buy (that they sell in England) that will be ok for long eyelashes and wont make them look really long? thanks
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Get some eye lash curlers so then you can curl them up and still use mascara.

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i am starting to like this guy but no one knows. he sits next to me in one of my classes, and yea we flirt =] but one of my good friends has started coming over to my seat lately before class and really flirting with him and he flirts with her.. and the last couple days its been really bothering me b/c she never came to talk to me (but really she just talks to him) until him. should i say anything..? what else should i do?

I think you need to ask your mate if she likes him, If she does tell her you like him to. Which can sometimes be a big problem because friends sometimes fight over guys, If you really like him get him! take control and ask him out on a date if hes flirting with you then go right ahead But if your going to ask him out to say anything to your friend about if she likes him or not so that way if she goes in a mood just say i didnt no you liked him and that you should have told me.

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There is a new girl in my school. She was recently expelled from her Catholic school because she got an abortion. One of my friends was friends with her for a while since they lived near eachother and now she's coming to my school. I have my opinions about alot of things and abortion I have a very strong opinion about it and I'll argue my point until my face is blue. I'm 1000% against unless you were raped or you are having difficulties with your pregnancy and it could cost you your own life. Just by knowing this, I already do not like her because of that reason and that reason only. My friends all know that if they were to get pregnant and get an abortion, I would probably never speak to them again. I am not a virgin, but I do know that if I was ever to get pregnant, I would never get an abortion reguardless of my situation. I just think it's wrong. But please, do not bash me because of my beliefs just answer me this, could you at the very least understand why I wouldn't want to be friends with her? Is it wrong for me to feel this way?

I understand. I dont argee with abortion at all unless its a rape affence, if a girl is stupid enought to have sex with out using protection then she should pay for it. Abortion is soo wrong because its killing human life, a life that someone has created and its just wrong for them to take a babies life away from it. I agree with you, abortion is wrong, and if my friends had an abortion i wouldnt fall out with them but id be a bit unhappy because of my beliefs. You stic with it. Its not at all wrong that you feel that way!!! Keep fight against abortion im with you on it.

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does anybody know which sport is best for working the tricep muscles, or the arm muscles in general?

SWIMMING!!! THATS GOOD DO THAT
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hey
i convinced my cousin to introduce me to some of her friends, and she did lol. so..we met on the phone and my cousin got jealous and told me not to ever meet them in person. we went behind her back, tho, and met at the mall and had an awesome time. but my cousin found out, and shes jealous and mean and thinks that im a backstabber..shes so controlling and protective over her friends. what should i do? oh, and my cousin hates me now

Leave her to it! if she cant accept that your friends with her friends, then shes just been silly. Next time you see her ask her why shes been like this, ask her if she just wants her friends to her self.

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She might be jelous

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will my tampon leak if i pee while im wearing it?

If you have got it up right then when you pee it should stay dry.

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is it ok to still use a tampon if u have a yeast infection?

I dont think you can use them. Just use pads until your over your infection, because sometimes tampons can pass things.

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two year old is left with babysitter cries when mother leaves and continues to cry during the day, wont drink or eat, always quiet and to herself.

You will have to tell her parents about it tell them that shes always crying and you cant feed her or give her something to drink because she doesnt take it of you.

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Well the thing is...my mate (who iv known for all of my life, n i kinda trust him) fancies my other friend from my school. He wants to set me up with his mate, who sounds a nice enough guy. he wants to meet up, shall i or shall i not? saz x

Yes why not go for it! you will have a good time and you might even like him. Go girl!!!!

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i want to be a camp councillor during the summer but dont have alot of ideas about how to keep clildren occupied in a unique way. Any ideas?

Try making up some stories, about underwater and in space. play i spy, and name that object, try cards or sand boxes.

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I hate my life my mom is mean my sister is a snot my b/f is a jerk and very selfcentered and i want to die......tonight

First of all stop thinking that your life is awful. Focuse on the good things that you have in your life, like your friends, Talk to your mum and ask her why she is so mean. Sisters are sometimes like that and they will always be. \If your boyfriend is a jerk, dump him and get your self a new fella. Dont think that you want to die grab a bunch of your mates and go out somewhere that will make you feel better. If you ever need to talk go to your friends they will help you out.

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my b/f is such a jerk he only cares about himself. He calls me names and screams at me. He used to push me around. I can never be mad im always the wrong one. He allways says the meanest things. I go through so much at home and he dont care he still calls me names and says he hates me.

DUMP HIM! you dont need to with that guy if he treats you like dirt, tell him upfront that its over and that he treats you like crap!!! Your way to special to go out with a guy like that.
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I have my best friends Bar mitzvah this weekend. I dont know wat to wear or how to do my hair!!!!!!!!! Help me!

Wear a summery dress/skirt And if you decided to wear a skirt wear a small tank top that will look great. For your hair why not put it in a bun and curl it? and have some bits hanging down.

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ok i just dumped my boyfriend yesturday bc i dont think it was working out bc we never talk and stuff.... so but i still like him and i regret it.. what should i do (and the guy i like i have already gone out with..) idk why i said that sry

If you dont think its working then just stay friends with him, because its pointless asking him out again if your just going to feel the same.

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