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What would you do if the guy you were madly in love with was like your perfect man that you've always dreamed of and then all of a sudden changed? I mean like James has always been the perfect guy for me since I met him! And now all of a sudden hes different what do I do?!?! If your answer helps me out Ill definatly rate you good!
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Confront him about it...ask why he changed so much! I mean there has to be a good explanation...tell him you like the old James better...it should work.
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Okay, well first of all, everyone changes, some people a lot more frequently than others. Did James change for the better or worse? I have no clue what his personality used to be like, and how it is now, so if you can add that info I could help you a lot more, because I pretty much know how you feel. you can i/m me on xobubblegum25xo with that information and I'll help you. hope i helped!
P.S. If you still like him even though he changed you should act the same around him if at all possible. I also think you should have a good long talk with him if you feel the need to do so.
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Hi, We its obious that you have gone of him, and you though that now your sick of thinking that hes for you and that you just dont find him as anything anymore its nothing to worry about.
luv roxie
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i am sorry to say this: try to move on! it happened to me and im trying--but itll be a long and hard process! my friends help meso much, so just try that
AND BY ALL MEANS DONT POUR YOUR HEART OUT--it makes talking to him so awkward!
hope i helped
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The problem was that you saw him as the PERFECT person. Well nobody is perfect. I doubt he is actually changing, your just getting to know him better, and learning that he's not everything you built him up to be. Don't put people on a pedestal. You'll only set them up to dissapoint you.
If your not happy with who he really is, then it's time to move on. There is nothing you can do to change him.
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Find out why he changed. If you can find out what has influenced him, maybe you can control it.
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You should talk to him about this.. you should ask him whats going on and why he has changed towards you and tell him how he's changed.. thats all i can say to really do thats all you can really do hun.. much luv dez x0x0
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Has he started using drugs? Had a major upheaval in his life (parents divorcing for example)?
If not then he is just probably going through your normal life changes. Not all are for the better. Discuss your concerns with him and see if you can find the cause.
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This depends on his changes, if hes changed completley like good guy gone bad boy, then hes probably in the phase where being loved by the whole school matters gag. If hes changed like hes a jerk, then you need to talk to him,give him specifics about how hes changed. His hair, voice, walk, attitude, personality, appearance, every detail. Then tell him how much you loved him before he had changed and he was so perfect for you. You have to explain until you are out of words so he will know how much it affected you when he changed, and if hes still not willing to admit, or come back to the James you knew, then you will find a new perfect guy, and he will be even more perfect because he won't change on you like James did. But, make sure that you don't find yourself trying over and over, this guy isn't worth your time if hes has to be practicly forced to his old ways. Heck, he might even realize what hes done after losing you and come back to you, But don't expect too much, something tells me that he will change back.
-TheTeenGirl
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Something might be going on with James. I really can t guess what. Just ask him whats bothering him and you might help him out. Dont let him slip away just like that. x0
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