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my friend and i used to play on gamerival till they took away multiplayer games. she cant get onto yahoo..and we dont want to use neopets. does anyone know any site we can play multiplayer games? thanks.
hey, well on AIM you can connect with one another and play multiplayer.
I am 17 years old (living in Michigan). I work as a cashier. Can I get fired for calling in sick to work one time? The place I work is non-union if that makes a difference. This would be my first time calling in. Normally I wouldn't risk losing my job, but my back is killing me. Are there laws against that kind of thing or what?
hey, well if you dont call in sick frequently than there shouldnt be a problem. call asap and warn them.
How do you cheer up a friend when shes sad? because when my friend comes to me for advice i really get speachless and stuff please tell me how and thank you =]
hey, well honestly it depends on what she is sad about. there are different things to do for different situations. i will list some and what to do and hopefully when she comes to you next time you will know exactly what to say and do.
breakup with boyfriend: these ones are usually the ones where you need to go to her house yourself with. dont bring a bunch of her other friends with you, shes not in the mood to party. surprize her by coming over, dont tell her that you are. you should call her mom and ask if shes going to be home at that time. if your not close with her mom, just her what shes doing that day. dont bring over flowers, chocolates, etc. its not valentines day and she doesnt want to be babyed. just basically watch movies with her and eat icecream. let her vent to you and tell her that she cant confront you whenever she wants to talk about the situation or just about anything.
relative, pet, friend, etc, passed away:
dont go over to her house personally. just politely say that your sorry for her loss and send her a card in the mail. also just tell her that if she wants to talk then your there.
thought of any other situations that i didnt mention? leave a messgae in my inbox and ill help.
What does exactly good listener means? example please? and how do you know if you're friend is a good listener? thank you =]
hey, well my opinion of a good listener is someone that will listen to what your saying carefully and show it by the answer/advice that they gave you.
I'm in love with my best friend, and she loves me back, in that way. We're both bi, and we would get together(probably not sexually for now, like kissing would be where we stop. we're religious). Unfortunately, she leaves for the Air Force in June. and she signed the contract(before she knew about me) that she'd engage in NO homosexual activity. What do I do?
P.S. We're not DATING yet, because we don't wanna screw up the best friends thing for a fluke.
hey, well im almost positive that the contract doesnt apply until she is actually in the air force in june. thats discrimination tho.
i like this boy a lot, who i know really well. he's dating another girl who i am friends with. if they break up(which is going to be soon), can i ask him out. would that be mean to the girl?
hey, well how good of friends are you with this girl? if were taking best friends and he breaks up with her and shes not over him, then that would be mean/rude to ask him out. you should have a talk with this girl. tell her that you like him and that your thinking about asking him out and you were wondering if she would be okay with that. you should even do this if she broke up with him because its just curtious. if she says that shes not okay with it, i wouldnt make a move.
Okay well tom. i am going to a interview for 2 agentcies and they want me to bring a portfolio of pictures. Well i don't take pictures like with my camera the only thing i have recently took a picture of is on the webcam i mean i could print it out on paper or evn on a picture paper but the thing is it's probably going to be small and if i do zoom in it would look weird what do i do? Will webcam pics do?
Thanks
Ashliiee
hey, well no that wont do. you need to go get many pictures taken professionally. thats what a modeling portfolio is. try proscout.
I'm a junior in high school, and lately I've felt as if all my friends are disappearing before me. I always had a really small, tight group of friends that I loved, but then at the end of my freshman year, my two best friends in the world moved, and at the end of sophomore year, two more moved. So I was pretty much lost at the beginning of the year, because even though I had friends, they weren't really very close. And then, I got to know this one girl who I'll call Amanda, and we got super close. I introduced her to another friend of mine, "Natalie", and the two of them became friends. Amanda and I were still a lot closer though, and we talked on the phone pretty much every day and hung out a lot during and outside school, sometimes with Natalie. Suddenly, over Christmas break, they kept calling me to hang out but I wasn't able to spend much time with them, and so the two of them started hanging out and became reallllly close. And so long story short, at school, Natalie completely ignores me and Amanda pretty much brushes me off most of the time...they completely replaced me with each other. I feel so lost, and confused... I know this is only high school, but I feel as if I have no one. Amanda sort of filled the void that was left by my friends that moved, and now that she's pretty much ignoring me, I feel so lonely and empty... I don't even feel like going to the cafeteria at breaks anymore. I have absolutely no idea what to do. I suppose I could make new friends, but its very hard to make friends in a place you've been for a long time. Help, or something?
hey, well they arent very good "friends" if there ignoring you and excluding you. you should have a talk with the both of them and tell them what your telling us. if they refuse to change and make room for you in the friendship, you need to try to make new friends. join clubs and sports and get to know people with the same interests as yourself. dont complelty forget about amanda and natalie tho, you always need to keep ties with old friends no matter what.
Ok. So I really really wat 2 find a vintage store in New york are there any around here? Also, I live in corona n.y if that helps. any siggestions is good enough
Thanks!
hey, well these are some vintagey stores. im not sure if you have them where you are, but if not they have websites.
http://www.forever21.com
http://www.charlotte-russe.com
there is also a store called gadzooks. they dont have a website because there sister stores with forever 21.
i dont usually wear alot of makeup because i never know how to really do it. i wear mascara and blush usually but thats about it. i want to wear eyeliner and eye shadow but i dont know how to make it look good. does anyone have some good tips or websites on how to do this. also, any good makeup ideas for different occasions like school, going out at night things like that. any good types of eye shadow, eyelner, mascara? thanks!
hey, well i dont think that you should have a different type of makeup for like school and going out at night. i think the only time that you should change that is when your going to something formal. other then that keeping it low key and natural always looks better. the key to wearing makeup, is to look like you dont have any on. i love maybelline makeup. all my products are from them. what i would do is buy coverup that matches your skin tone. get the one that looks like lipgloss in the tube. use the wand in the tube to apply it to the spots of your choice, then rub it in evenly with your fingertips. i would pretty much put it everywhere, maybe apply it heavier in spots with blemishes. then get bronser. use a blush brush to apply it evenly everywhere. dont use too much. skip the blush because you used bronser. you could put both, but you would probably look plastic. for mascara, i suggest xxl. once again its by maybelline. dont put too much of the white side on, or when you put the black on the white will show through. as for eyeliner, dont get liquid. i would buy black, unless you have extremely light brown hair or red hair. if you have either of those, i would get more of an earth tone. i would only apply the eyeliner to the bottom lids. gently pull down the lids, but not too far because if you pull it down too far you might poke yourself in the eye or the eyeliner will come right off because you put it down too far. gently apply it evenly. i would skip the eyeshadow. it looks fake. good luck.
ok so the other day me and my boyfriend were kinda arguing about why i get mad and he said he doesnt know why i get mad because he never does anything wrong. i answered back by saying you have to do something wrong or else i wouldnt get mad. so my bf thinks hes mr.perfect and he NEVERRRRR does anything wrong. so i got mad. again. haha was it ok to be mad eventho i know im right because everyone does something wrong at somepoint in their lives but he insists that hes never done anything wrong... ahhhh i hateitttt haha but do i have the right to be mad? i mean im right. right. noones perfect!
hey, well only be mad if he really did something wrong. for that situation, i wouldnt be mad. i would just basically explain to him what you explained to us and then be the bigger person and say "okay, its obvious that we arent going to agree on this, so lets just drop it". try ending your other fights sort of like that as well.
i want to get rid of my thick hips. i know you cant make them narrower but i havea little chub there. idk how to excerseize it.
hey, well sometimes guys find big hips attractive. not like huge hips, but you know something to grab onto. maybe join a gym with a friend or relative. that way you will be motivated not to quit and to not fall behind.
well my cousin is going to middle school this year and all her friends are going even her crush but her crush has a gf and she thinks in middle school she'll forget about him but she really likes him and all her friends say oh they are going to break up in middle school cause they are going to like someone else blah blah blah anyone she got convice that its going to happen i told her in middle school she'll meet other guys but she dosent belive me what should i do
hey, well your on the right track by encouraging her. keep doing that and be there for her when she gets sad or has a hard time copeing with things. also explain to her that you love her and that you will always be there for her no matter what. tell her that if things are meant to be, they will find a way.
I'm 22, F. I've been going out with this guy for almost a month now, but we actually used to have class together for a semester. We get along well, but it's the first time that I feel like this with a guy...as though I can actually imagine something meaningful happening between us. When I'm around him I feel comfortable, but sometimes I feel a little tense, because I'm not used to being with a guy (it has been a while). We always want to hang out together but i feel like he has more experience than me.. I don't really know what to ask specifically, but I am a little aprehensive about taking things far with him. At times I just want to give in, since it just feels right. BUT i know I need to hold back. The thing is, I'm not experienced. SO for any of you who know how i feel, what's a good way to let someone know you're interested, but just don't want to jump into conclusions?
hey, well i totally understand how you feel. thats why its best to go for the younger guys, because that way you will be more experienced than them. anyways just talk to your boyfriend. tell him that you love him, but you just dont feel comfortable going vyer far with him yet. explain to him that its only been a month and you like to take things sort of slow. tell him that when the time comes your sure that things will happen, but now is not the time. if he loves you, he will respect your wishes. if he doesnt respect your wishes, then who needs him? you deserve someone who will respect you and what you belive in and also appreicate you.
Where can I find a pair of shorts like these:
http://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/commons/thumb/9/92/CSD_2006_Cologne_sexy_9.jpg/180px-CSD_2006_Cologne_sexy_9.jpg
I can't find them anywhere!!!
hey, well i see those kind in a lot of places. there might be a tiny difference, but there basically the same. i saw some at pacsun, hollister, and american eagle.
how do i gain weight on my arms and legs quickly
hey, well you cant just target one spot on your body to gain weight in. you could gain muscles in your legs and arms to make them appear bigger, but thats about it.
Ok so I wasn't quite sure what catergory to put this in but anyway..
If your TV is exposed to sunlight through the door in the lounge room, will it eventually ruin your TV?
Even if the TV has a glass screen?
hey, well eventually your tv will die out, but not from that. too much sunlight doesnt effect anything because the person that made the tv intended on having sunlight on it. tvs will die out from too much usage and leaving them on whe no one is watching it and stuff like that.
My friend is moving to Phillipines and it was her choice, but she's concerned that if she gonna make friends or not i tell her she will but she pretty much worried about it how do i tell her that she can friends and she doesnt have to worry about it?
hey, well theres nothing you can do except keep reassuring her that she will. also let her know that you will always be there for her and when she needs you, your just one call away. encourage her to join clubs/sports and get really social.
I want to know if my waist/hip size is right for my age but I don't know how! My bf's waist is 32 inches! sounds a little too skinney for me
hey, well there is no size that is right for your age. everyone is made differently for a reason chosen by god. im 13/f and when i got measured i was 40` inches. if you really want to know ask the doctor next appointment. but i wouldnt worry about it.
How do I change my font? Like Verdana, Shruti etc. And how do I make it bold or larger? I've seen people do it in columns so I know there's a way, anyone know it?
~ Depressed_Poet
hey, well there is downloadable fonts that you can get on google.
http://www.dafont.com/top.php
to make something bold you do < b > text here < b/ >. erase all the spaces in between. you do the same for underline and italics, except you use the letter u or i.