well my boyfriend was fingering me he has done it more thatn onece but this time i started bleeding he said he had 3 fingers his nails were short. it was not a little bit of blood but it was not alot an hour later i stoped bleeding. Why did i bleed and is it possible he popped my cherry??
well, yes. the hymen's not made of tungsten steel, so its very possible. that, and the vaginal lining's not really designed to take a beating either.
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17/f
I havent had my period since I started it on Nov. 30.
Therfore I have missed my December period and possibly my January period (I am never regular.. usually late). There is basically no way I could be pregnant. I've never had sex. and I even took 2 pregnancy tests when I was 3 weeks late last month. Both were negative.
I have been SUPER stressed the past few months about deciding where to go to college and I'm not sure if that can cause missing 2 months. I've also been stressed about thinking of pregnancy. I can't think of anything else I have done differently.
I just want to know what's happening with my body. It doesn't feel like I'm going to even start pmsing soon. What should I do? Is it bad to just wait?
I am only going to the doctor if I absolutely need to because then I have to tell my mom..
lemme guess, you're thin. if so,when you're too thin to sustain a child, you stop having your period. happens to be a sign of anorexia. if its not the case, and you're not sexually active, then just tell your parents. not like its the end of the world.
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i lost my virginity to my current boyfriend. we've been having sex since october 2007. we haven't done it like a lot but i think it shouldn't still hurt by now. he's not doing anything wrong really. i've tried being on top and it wasn't too bad but it still doesn't really feel good. it still hurts a lot when he's on top too. anything i can do?
alrighty. have you been checked out by a doctor? no? there's this pesky thing called a hymen. sometimes its really thick and doesn't bust worth a damn. a doctor can fix that for you.
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I have a really hard time making friends. But when i do make a friend they only use me. I've lost a lot of confidence because of all of the friends that I've made that used me and because I moved across the country. I have like no friends and people don't like me and everyone seems to think that i'm really wierd adn try to avoid me. What can I do??
hmm, I'll tell you what I'm doing in a similar situation. start being as off the wall wierd as possible, and just act like you don't give a damn what they think. after a while, they'll just give up and leave you alone, and you might find a few strange people to befriend in the process.
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ok so there is this boy who is two years older than me (im 16) he has a gf who is 20, they pretty much only date for sex.
i like him ALOT and i have liked him for a long time. he is always flirting with me and being nice and all of my friends swear that he likes me. he has told me he thinks im pretty and that if he didnt have his gf he would date me. it almost hurts me inside because of how frusterated i am. i am a very prude girl and wouldnt take advantage of a guy, (his girlfriend treats him like dirt) he told me that he has trouble breaking up with girls because he doesnt like to hurt them.
if i have an opportunity to hook up with him should i go for it?
p.s. his girlfriend cheats on him
yes, go for it. and enjoy yourself in the process.
-gunner
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Ok, this might be long so I'm sorry hehe. Im 15 and female and have been with my boyfriend for a year. When we first got toegther he was really romantic and sweet (imporant thing for me) and it was great and we were getting on really well. Now it seems as if he couldn't care less about us. We only see each other twice a week...if that. Everytime he leave to go home I end up in tears because i feel like things are beyond repair. He often makes little comments which make me feel like crap, he also brags a lot which make me feel worse because he has a lot of money and gets a lot of things. He spends a lot of time with his mates and has said in the past that they come before me, which is fair enough. He doesnt very often make the effort to see me so I'm always changing what I'm doing for him. All the romantic stuff is gone, and I guess I just feel like he would rather be with someone else. I havent told him any of this because in the past if I have had a problem with him he acts like he is perfect and thats its my fault and then makes me feel like im some kind of paranoid-weird girlfriend. I want this to all work out because I love him so much and I know deep down he loves me too. But if he doesnt start showing that he cares then I'm going to have to let go..... if i can that is because its failed int he past.... any advice is very much appriciated! thank you! :)
wow. sounds like a real prick. why don't you get rid of him. seriously, he makes you feel terrible and fret on the internet. thats pretty fucked up. find some dude that'll treat you good and stick with him.
-gunner
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ok so i'm in a long distance relationship and he has not seen a pic of me but i wanted to wait cause i am a little overweight how can i loose some weight fast??? cause i really like him but i dont really think i'm pretty at all is it normal to feel this way is it just self conciousness?? how can i feel better about it??? please help me
what do i do??
wow. sonar's pinging some really shallow waters here. he lives far away and you communicate through electronic garbage machines. just shock him with your weight issue and see if he's shallow too.
-gunner
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What exactly does "crunk" mean?
I assume it means getting drunk, or high...but I am really not sure.
Guess I am getting old!
who cares, its concept is retarded. I can describe either act and combinations with a dozen other words. and anybody who says it is either trying to be popular, or has a below average IQ
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Alot of my friends and I really want to know what people think would be too young for oral sex not all the way just oral but yea it's still pretty bad i guess it's just there are so many girls at my highschool even lots of freshmen that have been involved with this kind of activity at almost every party we've been too i hate to say there sluts cause that would mean almost our whole school are sluts. Just guesstimating we would say that at least 75% freshmen girls are sexually involved
Is this normal?
not really. but I guess thats the norm for your area. mine, different story. is somebody trying to come up with a good excuse to join in?
-gunner
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Okay me and my boyfriend have been having sex and i thought i was preggo. hes taking me to the clinic to get tested but i dont think i am. but anyways if i am then im most deff. keeping it.
I was wondering if any of you have any cute Boy names.. and the middle has to be Howard cuz its like a tridition in his family..
if it was a girl he wants Arrora (sp) Le .. and i like Aubree michelle.
Thnxzz :]
jason. hector. roger.
dude's names should not be cute. they should inspire confidence and respect for the man. ever hear of the johnny cash song "boy named sue"?
-gunner
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13/f
are there any ways to get a guy to kiss you? i have a boyfriend but its very awkward whenever we want to kiss. how can i loosen the tension and enjoy the moment?
touch the back of his neck in a sensual fashion. I fall for it every time.
-gunner
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I am really shy and my friend always takes guys i like because she thinks it's funny. She is really mean and I can hardly stand it. I am sooooo shy though and she isn't. She can talk to the guys easily, how do I do that? How do I become less shy and talk to people?
tell her to play wingman for once, and stop being a selfish dingbat. dudes know the code of the wingman, just ask any dude for further details on it. me, I'm too damn tired to explain it.
gunner
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What are some good songs that help you feel not so lonely? Thanks.
anything off of fuel's "something like human" album, red hot chili peppers, and tenacious d
gunner
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Hey iam 17 female and iam thinking about becoming a vegetarian and I was wondering what kind of foods are out there for vegetarians besides vege's.
pretty much everything except meat. try going to one of those whole food hippie stores, besides having a great selection of crazy ass beans, fake jerky, and tea, they'll have books on their herbivorous habit.
by the by, why go vegetarian? meat is so much more efficient and tasty. though I must say, split pea soup is friggin delicious, I can't understand y'all's need to abandon the path of moderation.
enjoy the fruit leather(its great!),
-gunner
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I had volleyball try-outs for 8 hours, and my legs are so sore fromdoing conditioning that I can hardly move. The problem is, I have more try-outs on Monday. Any tips to recover beforehand? I am so sore, and I desperately need to get better.
ICY HOT! trust me, I'm a soldier, and I know how to deal with this. stretch constantly, massage the offending muscles, and soak yourself in a hot bath for a couple of hours, then stretch the muscles afterwards once they're nice and limber. you could also do stretching exercises in the shower with the heat on full blast too. also, take a lot of vitamin suppliments, shit with vitamin E in particular.
believe me, when you have to exercise, run around in full gear, and walk up hills for fifteen kilometers with 80 pounds of gear all in the same day, you kinda learn what to do.
good luck with volleyball
-gunner
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hey, i have a fatasy of being tied up and having sex like that, im a 16 year old boy and really want to fulfill this fantasy but Im not sure how to go about doing it? How do I find the right person and make sure im safe an all that? As much info about the whole thing as possible please
thanks everyone
those creepy goth girls will usually be into that sort of thing in varying degrees, either that, or lithuanian ones. so you will most likely not even have to ask, as they'll just assume you're good for it. and remember, there is such a thing as a safety word. mine is "garfunkel". make sure they remember the safety word, because it really sucks when the girl says "bless you!" and continues whipping.
-gunner
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wat is the normal size for a guy "down thur" who is 15
plzzz answer need help
I was talking to this one prostitute here in town, and somehow size was brought up. I dunno how, but apparently german prostitutes who can barely summon up the english to declare the asking fee can adequately describe the average customer's penis size. she said about five and a half inches, but I'm not really inclined to believe her. considering the horrendous number of old fat german men that visit her on a routine basis. now I did the math, and the average hot german hooker operating at the average german whorehouse sees about ten to fifteen dudes on a good night. with vacation time, and sundays factored in, she gets approximately 1800 dicks per year. with these figures, and with the fat old guy factor plugged in, I'd say the average is about six inches. I dunno though, some of those old dudes might've been packing, so the disclaimer of this advice is going to say something about a fat old german man's penis. and I find that hilarious. be satisfied with the weapon. and as we say in the U.S. cavalry; the right testicle is for suppressive fire, the left is the main body, and your penis is the maneuver element. as long as you have a main body to provide firepower, and a maneuver element, no matter how small, you're good.
-gunner
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Hello, i am a 14/m and i enjoy watching gay porn and straight porn i often fantisize about fucking other guys especially in P.E. class i also fantisize about having intercourse with females too i have had oral sex with a male one time and that was just experimental but i seem to want more am i gay, straight, or bisexual i enjoy having intercourse with females more than i do males could i just be having hormone swings and craving sex any way i can get it? please respond
look, I'm pretty sure that you have this thing down a bit. so I'll just clarify and restate what you said, and add my own personal insight. you've done both, but prefer women. ok, got that. I'm pretty sure most dudes do not have that style of craving, and from that, I can conclude that you're bisexual, with an uneven split. as my dad says, don't knock it till you've tried it, so I'll just say: keep doing whatever makes you happy, and that you don't need a god damn label to solve your problems. have at it, and if you're in the closet about it, come out, because you're not only hiding the obvious, you're hurting yourself.
good luck dude, and if it feeld good, DO IT!
-gunner
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17/F
I'm really scared about what my parents are making me do. Last year I was sent to a hospital for manic depression and compusive behavior. I was released two weeks into school. Thank god I had my bf or I would have gone crazy. U see hospitals scare me everytime I go into one someone dies(someone close to me). So when I over heard my parents talking about taking me to a different hospital last week I freaked out. I've stared cutting again and I cry myself to sleep at night. If I didn't have my bf I wouldn't even go to school cause my grades suck.
Someone help me I don't want to go back
I'm scared
Ps
I rate high
holy shittoads sweetie, you're not going to like this, but go to the hospital. You are totally wired and need some serious medical attention. I hate hospitals too, but when I'm so fucked up I can't even function properly I'll go to the professionals. look at this in an analytical way:
1. you've got a history of manic depression
2. you are cutting yourself
3. you are showing symptoms of paranoia
these on their own are a full deck to deal with, but combined, you have a serious shitstorm going on in your head.
you're not going to be able to deal with this on your own. your parents are worried about you. so go and get some help.
-white one delta out
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whats the best way to get a guy out of my head? i went out on a date with this one guy..i met him 2 weeks before this..we had a great time..when we met and talked for hours..then we talked on the phone..we went out on a date..and he afterwards..he was all talking about a second date..and that he would call me later etc..well he called me the next day..left a message on my house phone..knowing that i wouldn't be home..i have a cell phone..and told me he had a good time etc..and thanked me for the nite before..and that he would talk to me later..but i never heard from him again..i called him a week later..to see how he was..it went straight to voicemail..he never returned my phone call..i think that i saw him a few weeks later..and when i walked past him..he totally turned and looked at me...so if hes totally gonna turn and look at me..why couldn't he make a 2nd date..like he talked about etc..how can i just get him out of my head..i doubt hes thinking of me still...even if he did come on totally strong...like he was totally into me..until he had the date..thanks..
didn't i already answer this one months ago? I'm pretty sure I did. I'm thinking he is playing hard to get just to see how nuts he can drive you. so keep up the pursuit.
-gunner
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