Question Posted Saturday November 5 2005, 11:09 pm
whats the best way to get a guy out of my head? i went out on a date with this one guy..i met him 2 weeks before this..we had a great time..when we met and talked for hours..then we talked on the phone..we went out on a date..and he afterwards..he was all talking about a second date..and that he would call me later etc..well he called me the next day..left a message on my house phone..knowing that i wouldn't be home..i have a cell phone..and told me he had a good time etc..and thanked me for the nite before..and that he would talk to me later..but i never heard from him again..i called him a week later..to see how he was..it went straight to voicemail..he never returned my phone call..i think that i saw him a few weeks later..and when i walked past him..he totally turned and looked at me...so if hes totally gonna turn and look at me..why couldn't he make a 2nd date..like he talked about etc..how can i just get him out of my head..i doubt hes thinking of me still...even if he did come on totally strong...like he was totally into me..until he had the date..thanks..
hitler_the_goat answered Sunday November 6 2005, 3:24 am: here's my thought: maybe he didn't have a nice time on the date, and was just going through the motions afterward to be polite. not trying to sound rude, thats just the way it comes off to me. you should try running into him more often, and try to talk to him. see if he is still interested. if he is, it might be that he's just a procrastinator or that he is nervous. if he is not interested at all, look for another guy...like me.
-gunner [ hitler_the_goat's advice column | Ask hitler_the_goat A Question ]
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