HI!!im caramella,id love to give advice for those who need it.You might not always like my answers but i dont care about ratings,cuz if i tell you something you want to hear all the time,and i get rated high and you end up making a big mistake,rating aint gonna solve the problem then.I want to tell you guys to think before you act and look before you leap in order not to make misttakes,if you have made mistakes NEVER regret it,regrets are a waste of time and happiness and wont change what happened,BUT it will give you expereince and teach you not to do it again and refine your future^_^regret over wasted time is more wasted time.
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my mom married my stepdaddy a couple of months of go and i told my friends about it at school and now everybody at school is making fun of me becouse my mom married a black guy iam not racist and i don't see what's wrong with a white person marrying a black guys it's just the color of your skin and we can't help it god made us that way,but how can I make my friends see it that way? (link)
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You need to tell them to respect you and your family.If they dont respect him then they dont respect YOU.Ask them this,how would you guys feel like if you were born black and people made fun of you.If they dont stop then just dont hang out with them or talk to them for a day or something and theyll get the point and come apologizing.
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My bf keeps telling me what girls hot, and etc. It lowers myself-esteem. How do I look sexxy, so he looks at me, more then them. How can i plan hard to get, for him to want me more. I just want him to want me still.. we've been together for a year and a half.. so dont go saying breakup. Its not that harsh.
((sorry if you've seen this question twice.. the other one got deleted.. sorry))
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oooooooh thats harsh.Id hate it if that happened to me.Well,you need to give him a taste of his own medicine!!!Tell HIM what guys YOU think are hot!!He hasnt got the right to say ANYTHING cuz he does that too.Well,if you want to look better just be natural dont have on too much makeup,shave any extra hair you have,do your moustache,get a sexy new style in clothes.
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Alright.....so I'm in the 9th grade and I'm 14. I'm friends with ALL guys.3 of them tease me about my boob size. I'm a 32B and they all say I'm small and I don't know what to do anymore. It gets really irritating and I just freeze and can't think of anything to say. Can anybody relate and give me a little advise here???
Thank You So Much!!! (link)
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You need to tell them if they dont stop being such jerks that you dont want to be freinds with them anymore.You cant stay quite and do nothing about this,you need to tell them how you feel and that your not their freinds so they can make fun of your boobs
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I know that if you don't eat, it actually makes your body gain weight, or so everyone says. But honestly, if you ate nothing, or say 1 apple every day for 2 weeks..would you lose or gain weight? I've always been curious about this. Thank you. (link)
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You would start off by gaining weight,then you dont gain OR lose.It is because when you dont eat OR exercise,your body is used to you eating a lot and your body stores the fat,but when you DONT eat,your body brings out all the stored fat and you GAIN weight.Thats why they always say that if you want to lose weight,you need to exercise AND diet.Cuz when you exercise,youll be burning the stored fat too.
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does anyone else like moschino? please tell me all you know abuot that brand. like the difference between moschino cheap and chic and just moschino, etc (link)
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Ya I LUV MOSCHINO!!I have the perfume,clothes and i know a lot about it.To start off,the brand was made by an italian guy named franco moschino,he was born in 1950.He always loved drawing as a child.He went to Accademia di Bella Arte in 1967 to study art.He began to sketch fashion designs and illustrations for fashion magazines and houses.His designs caught the eye of fashion designer Gianni Versace.In 1971, Franco Moschino began his fashion career with Gianni Versace as a sketcher.In 1983, Franco left Versace and opened his own company, Moonshadow, on Via Ceradini in Milan, under his label, Moschino. Next, Moschino Couture was launched. In 1986, his masculine line began with an introduction of mens underwear.In 1987 he made his first womens perfume and in 1988 he opened his first botique in Via Sant'Andrea in Milan, Italy.Franco died at the age of 44,Rosella Jardini, the chief designer, and Marco Gobbetti, the chief executive are the ones that continue doing his work nowadays.The difference between moschino and moschino cheap and chic is that cheap and chic is the less expensive one.Hope this helped.
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How do you deal with a friend who is clingy and annoying and gets on your last nerve?She can be nice sometimes but she says the most annoying things that really bug you. I do not want to hurt her feelings.She is also spoiled rotten and makes the biggest deals over things. Please I need advice. Should I tell her the truth and wreak friendship or should I do something else? (link)
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Telling her the truth is NOT wrecking your freindship,its SAVING it from going down.You have to be an honest freind and tell her what you think,the NICE way.Shes your freind so you should tell her what you think nicely AND honestly.I once told my freind i thought she was a 2 faced hippocritt,im not being mean to her,im saving our freindship from getting worse,you should do the same.
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Okay. I'm 16/f and I want to get a vibrator. The problem is, I'm afraid to get one because I'm scared my mom will find it and I would be SO EMBARRASSED if that happened!! Am I too young to get one? If not, where should I put it (maybe in another room in the house?) where there's no chance of her finding it? FYI- she sometimes comes in my room and starts cleaning out my drawers/closet because she thinks they're so cluttered, so I'm not sure that's a good place to put it. (link)
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If i had to put myself in your position,i wouldnt buy one.Omg if my mom found out,i would never be able to look at her straight in the eyes again.Your mom can clean anywhere and might find it!Save yourself the huge embarassment and dont get one.
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my friends invited me to go camping in NY but im on my period...theres going to be a trailer but im worried of how to "dispose of it." lol
also its only going to be about 2 days so what should i pack?
any thoughts would be great (link)
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You should pack like 5 or 6 pads(u never know what could happen)3 pairs of jeans(should be 2 but what if a blood stain gets on one of them?)and 2 tops,1 or 2 pajama sets,3 underpants,a bra and a comb,perfume bottle,cell phone and thoes are the most important things you will need(and bring tampons if you use them)
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In April of this year, me & my boyfriend of almost 11 months, broke up. That's not my worry. The thing is, now he does things he would've never done before. He gets high, A LOT & he shoplifts. I want him to stop because I don't want him to end up like his dad, and because I'm concerned about his well being. I talked to him about it, but he said not to worry about him. But I do. He told me "If I start looking like Michael Jackson from sniffing Cocaine, then say something, but until then, just don't worry!" But I am gonna worry because I still care about him a lot, and I don't want him to ruin himself, even though he is everytime he gets high. I was thinking about calling & telling his mom while he was at summer school, but then he'd know it was me, and he'd hate me, and I definitely don't want that. So what do I do?! (link)
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Since you tried to make him stop and he didnt,you would be doing him a great deal by telling his mom.It doesnt matter if hell hate you.Tell his mom that you care about him and not to tell him it was you who told her.Even if he DOES find out,he might hate you for a while,but then hell thank you like hell after a while when he stops drugs.Talk now or forever hold your tongue and watch him die infront of you because of drugs.
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Ok heres the deal- i know its long but i really need help- bad- ok i met this guy last summer- (lets call him guy a)and it was love at first sight and we have been that way ever since, bad news i only see him one week out of the year, but a few months after the summer that i met him we both had no way of tlking to each other- so that kinda faded and i met guy b,hes a great guy, but he does not care about me the way guy a does,even though he says he does,so heres my problem - i went out with guy b for awhile when me and guy a werent tlking, but then while i was dating him, guy a came back in my life, and heres my other problem, im not dating either 1 and i made a promise to guy a i would never go back with guy b but now guy b wants me back and since im not dating the other guy i want to go back with him and i love both guys but guy a means a bit more to me- but i never get to see him- PLEASE HELP ME who should i stay with? go back with my x boyfriend, or my first true love that i never see?? (link)
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Listen to what you just said,the first true love that you NEVER SEE.Why should you hook yourself up with a guy you only see ONE WEEK outta the year?This isnt true love,im sure its making you feel bad(cuz u never get to see him)and if makes you feel bad then its not love.Forget about him and go back to your ex,dont spend your life waiting for someone,you never know if hes waiting for you and being dedicated to you when he NEVER sees you.
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WARNING LONG I like black.I weir black nail polish and alot of black eyeliner.In a few days im dieing my bangs that hang in my eyes black to.Now i have had my hair pink,purple,green,blue,red and other colors at different times so people already think im weird also im emo and i get made fun of because i used to cut and i dont think people know but they might it was a big thing with screming and trowing things around (mostly by me) and so people no somthing happened and because im emo that what they think it is true but still.i think im ugly and i hate myself i get jelous easly realy easly also i think i might be bi.whats so bad about being emo being different.i no people are gonna hate me and think im weird but im not sure what my problem is anymore it was sposed to be about my hair but now i think i may have bigger problems.i dont eat until i start shaking alot. im a 13 female who feels alone and dosent wanna cut agian and whos going into 7th (link)
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woman,what are you doing to yourself??you can wear whatever the hell you want nobody can say a word.you know what i once wore to school??i wore blue overalls pink sneakers red jacket and a pink scarf that covers my hair(im muslim and going to 10th grade) hahaha nothing matched and i didnt care,i can wear whatever i want.you need to be stronger than that,nobodys worth you cutting yourself for,all your going to get is skin disease and scars.so what you like black,i like black alot too.honestly,is cutting yourself going to solve your problems??and when you see thoes sluts that do whatever they want and go out half naked when anyone makes fun of them,what do they do??they bitchslap whoever makes fun of them.you need to open up to someone and let it all out.and dont worry,your not bi,its just all this stress on you making you confused in everyway.solve your problems one by one,first thing say to yourself,if sluts can wear what they want without being critisized then so can i.you need to be confident,wheres your personality woman?!?!just because people say your weird doesnt matter,it matters what you think.look at me,im overweight and i have more confidence than a group of cheerleaders and pl used to make fun of me,till i beat up this girl for making fun of me now shes too scared to evenn look at me hahahaa.muahah.next thing you need to solve is the screwy ppl that make fun of you,srand your ground and curse them the fuck out,tell them that you dont care what they think of you.youll feel better.
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I was making out with this girl the other night at a party and I guess she was pretty tossed since she freaking threw up in my MOUTH. Since then, I haven't been able to eat anything--because vomit is disgusting, and swallowing some of someone else's vomit grossed me out that much. Whenever I go to eat something I feel like throwing up myself so I can't eat. GaaaahhHhh what do I do? (link)
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ROFL!!!!omg!I just imagined that!ok look just eat noramally,its not like your eating puke again(hehe)Just get over it,stop remembering what happened or youll never get over it :D
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I am 15 year old femail...Am i supposed to shave "down there". I obviously shave my bikini line...but thats it.
What am i supposed to do? (link)
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ofcourse you have to shave down there,its just nasty if you dont.You buy wax from a pharmacy and wax down there,dont ever use a razor,itll make your hair thicker and all pokey and ewy.
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Ok, I'm 14/f, and you know normal teenagers are usually fighting with their parents and stuff over stupid things.. well, that's the case with me. I dont know, but I seem to lose my temper easily. It's not always me, I mean I'll say something back to my parents that ticks them off until the point where I get so angry that I.. well I've scratched my mom before. And not that long ago I got in a fight with my dad and hit him. It's not like I intentionally want to hurt them that way, I just can't control it. And I feel like now it's gotten out of hand. I'll tell you exactly what happened with my dad before.. My family was watching tv in my family room, and I was thirsty so i went to go get something to eat and some jello lol. Well there's this little stool kinda table thing that I used as a table. It was off to the side so I used my feet to drag it over to the couch since my hands were full. It got caught on the rug and my dad, i dunno what he said exactly but he made a remark about it and I was like, "What am I supposed to do? my hands are full" And he was like.. well.. blahblahblah, I don't even remember what he said, all I remember is I ended up hitting him, and then he flipped out and took the jello and drink away and yelled at me and threatened that I didn't have to get a new cell phone, etc. See how stupid it is? But I really can't control this. Idk what I should do. I really want this $88 hair straightener, and my mom said if I was good during the vacation we are going on next week then I could get it. But I'm gonna be with my mom dad and brother in a hotel room for like 4 nights, and I have a feeling I'm just gonna get mad at them for the stupidest thing and end up ruining the chances of getting that straightener. How can I control my anger? I feel really badly about everything now, I really don't mean it.. I'm just.. i dunno, everythings changing. Sorry this was so long.. please help.. thank you (link)
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You have to change your attitude with people or noone will like you.Youll get into a lot of trouble with your parents.The more you get older,the more this anger will increase with you.What if you one day really phisically hurt your parents?I mean,i fight with my mom and dad all the time and over small things but,still,i respect them because 1)they are a hell lot older 2)They are the ones that got me into this world and raised me and took care of me when i was sick and my mom carried me in her stomache for 9 months and they got me everything i wanted and i dont think they deserve to be HIT after all theyve done to me.Your dad was just trying to make it easier for you with the jello.If i were you id stop and go apologize for everything ive done throughout the past and if you dont,its your loss not theirs.When you find yourself older one day and married with a kid and theres noone to look after your kid when you wanna go out with your husband,your parents will not be there for you.And be careful cuz what goes around comes around and one day you will find yourself getting older and you have children that HIT you everytime they get mad.How would you feel THEN??
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hey well im going through a very hard time right now... my dad has cancer and i have a feeling that my sister is going to move out... yea and well i cut myself kinda alot too.... but like i dont know what to do ... all my friends are worried about me(at leaset the 1s that know i do it) but like im split in half.... one siode is telling my im stupid for doing it and telling me never to do it again... and the other half is happy that i do it and it makes me wanna do it more..and i dont know what side to belive... none of my friends really understand what im going through and i scare myself when i do it...i just dont knwo what to do ... and going to a counsiler is out of the question because my family is almost broke from my dad and his cancer.. i just need some help and i really dont knwo what to do...
Thank you all so much in advance!! (link)
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ok lemme ask you something,is cutting yourself making it any better?And will you be happy if you got what you wanted?NO,happieness isnt getting what you want,its wanting what you got.Hard but true.Ok your dad has cancer,you have to get over it and move on with your life.Everything changes to the better,nothing remains the same.If you cut yourself,all that your getting to is skin disease.Use a pillow instead,take all your anger out on it lol.You have to be happy with what you got.God doesnt give you everything,THAT would make life not fair.Ok what if you had a father with perfect health and money,something eles would be missing,you mighta been handicapped,its possible.God created you for a reason and the reason is not for you to cut yourself.
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Female. I used to have a lot of best guy friends, we had this huge group. One guy got all of them in to drugs, now they spend their days getting stoned. They're so perverted now, they expect since I have big boobs that I`ll do things with them. I've fallen really hard for one guy, he's totally sweet and respects me, but I hear from everybody he does drugs too and he's not a virgin. (Keep in mind, were 13)
What should I do? Is this guy totally unsafe and wrong to be around? (link)
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ok why should you be around a guy thats THIRTEEEN and not a virgin and does drugs?Honestly.Read what you just asked.If you hang with these people all thats going to happen to you is that you might start taking drugs too and lose your virginity to a guy thats already done it before and probably has STDs.I seriously dont get it,whats with the 13 year old ppl that arent virgins??Cant they THINk about the consenquences before they do anything they might regret later on?keep away from them for your own good.
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My best friends ex just asked me out! I am afraid to tell _______ no, beacause ________ might cry, what do I do. I have to brake the news tomorrow... (link)
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First of all if you keep caring about how others feel youll NEVER be happy.NO means NO,he has to get over it!hes your BEST FREINDS ex!!How would YOU feel like if your freind dated your ex?!?Its all about what you want here.What are you going to say yes and risk your own happieness and your freindship just for _____???
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I just started how do you where a tampon I have to steal one from my mom...WHERE DOES IT GO?!?!?! (link)
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!!!!!!woman!!!dont use one if you dont know anything about it!You can accidently stick it up there and it wont come out if you use it wrong!Cant you just wear a pad or ask your mom about tampons?!god!
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well ok im really scared to go to schol this thursday cuz well thats my first day.. and im a sophmore this yr... and i've had alot of problems last yr w/ other people.. i kinda caused them.. and this past sunday this girl wouldn't stop yelling my name when i went to school to get my schedule and stuff.. and my parents thought she was being ,ean to me.. but i don't no e if she was or what... and then that day i went bike riding these guys who go to my school kept shouting my name... and they said they thought i wu z hot... its not that i mind its just that i feel like they do that b/c they don't like me... just like alot of other people at my school... so could someone help me please!!! (link)
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Dont worry,everyone feels nervous when they start at a new school and youll get over it.They can shout whatever the hell they want to and besides worry does not empty tomorrow of its sorrow. It empties today of its strength.You need to be strong if you want to start at a new high school,right?
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okay, basically, i have a hickey on my neck, and its big and purple
ita hot, so no turtle necks, and i dont wear collars
the cover i have isnt working at all
anyways to make it go away faster
or any other ideas on how to hide it? (link)
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put ice on it and put concealer the same color as your skin tone on it.You can also wear a fashion scarf.
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