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Friend Trouble
How do you deal with a friend who is clingy and annoying and gets on your last nerve?She can be nice sometimes but she says the most annoying things that really bug you. I do not want to hurt her feelings.She is also spoiled rotten and makes the biggest deals over things. Please I need advice. Should I tell her the truth and wreak friendship or should I do something else?
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I have the same problem but turn the annoying part up a notch. She's a scene and gets mad if she doesnt get her way and has to have every thing meet to her need [even at my brithday party]
Those kind of friendship takes a lot of work and personally, I coulnd't make it work so I've gradually decreased my contact with her.
I'm not saying you to do it. If you want, do it at your own risk. It's hard to make friendships work smoothly with people like her.
Why don't you try this: Act the way she does. If she insults you in a joking way, make the biggest deal out of it. When she says she has to go like on AIM or something say that she doesnt care about you. Just act the way she does for a week[s] and that is bound to get on HER nerves. Ask her how she felt and tell her that is how you feel in the friendship
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Telling her the truth is NOT wrecking your freindship,its SAVING it from going down.You have to be an honest freind and tell her what you think,the NICE way.Shes your freind so you should tell her what you think nicely AND honestly.I once told my freind i thought she was a 2 faced hippocritt,im not being mean to her,im saving our freindship from getting worse,you should do the same.
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