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Ex Boyfriend On Drugs?
In April of this year, me & my boyfriend of almost 11 months, broke up. That's not my worry. The thing is, now he does things he would've never done before. He gets high, A LOT & he shoplifts. I want him to stop because I don't want him to end up like his dad, and because I'm concerned about his well being. I talked to him about it, but he said not to worry about him. But I do. He told me "If I start looking like Michael Jackson from sniffing Cocaine, then say something, but until then, just don't worry!" But I am gonna worry because I still care about him a lot, and I don't want him to ruin himself, even though he is everytime he gets high. I was thinking about calling & telling his mom while he was at summer school, but then he'd know it was me, and he'd hate me, and I definitely don't want that. So what do I do?!
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no matter what you say to him, no matter how you act around him, no matter how much you care about him, getting high will be his first priority wether its off a joint or canned air he is not care what you have to say you can tell his mom and ask his mom to not mention your name but thats about all you can do sorry if thats not what you wanted to hear but its the truth.
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you should definitly tell his mom. just try your hardest not to let him find out it was you but if he does find out then hey you just saved him basically. my brother got into those things and ended up in jail over night because of his two friends. its really nothing to mess with it. its very dangerous. so just explain to his mom that you are concerned & that if theres anything you can do for her to just say the word but explain to her that you dont want him finding out and hating you. she will understand. i hope everything works out <3
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You'd be doing him a favor if you told his mom, would you rather him hate you for like a month then him realize you did him a favor or him screwed up and in jail for the rest of his life? I know its hard to talk to him and convince him to stop, i'v tried that with my dad and him smoking. So i think you should tell his mom and leave it to her and recomend a drug rehab.
i hope i helped =]
Jess
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Since you tried to make him stop and he didnt,you would be doing him a great deal by telling his mom.It doesnt matter if hell hate you.Tell his mom that you care about him and not to tell him it was you who told her.Even if he DOES find out,he might hate you for a while,but then hell thank you like hell after a while when he stops drugs.Talk now or forever hold your tongue and watch him die infront of you because of drugs.
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