Hi, my names Melanie.
I'm fifteen years old.
I love fashion, hanging out with my friends,
and drawing and writing along with a bunch of other stuff.
I used to have an old account here that was quite known for awhile,
but I sort of just lost touch with it,
so I decided to make a new one.
I'll try and help you the best I can,
just hopefully I didn't lose touch with my good advice, haha.
And feel free to IM me with your problem too.
I also put my myspace in a link down below,
if you ever want to add me & talk.
But incase you don't see it or something, it's:
www.myspace.com/themelinat0r
Website: my myspace!
E-mail: melledisko@hotmail.com
Gender: Female
Location: Pittsburgh
Occupation: student.
Age: 15
AIM: mel le disko
Member Since: July 2, 2006
Answers: 1503
Last Update: August 9, 2008
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okay well i went out with this one guy for a couple of months but i ended up dumping him because i still had feeings for this other guy. And so i went out with this other guy and he dumped me. So now i realize what i had in the beginning and i really miss the first guy i was with. I know that i never should have dumped him and now i really want him back. I just dont know what to do because i cant just go up to him and be all like " oh hey i like you again." Like how am i supposed to tell if he likes me again or anything.. PLEASEEE HELPPP = [
thanks
xoxo
ps me = 15/female (link)
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Well, I don't know if you still talk to him or not, but if you don't start. Just try and get to know him again, find those things you once had in common, and try and get all those old feelings to come back and reconnect. And just compliment him every now and then and flirt a little here and there, to show you have some interest in him and just build it from there.
And someday whenever you feel comfortable enough to, just let him know how you feel. I mean, you already took the chance once and went out with him, right?
If he does like you he might:
- stare at you alot
- stare, adn then when you turn to look, he looks away
- tries to show off infront of you
- tries to be really funny and everything
- blushes
- smile at you alot
- compliments you
- tickles you or pokes you
- teases you
You know, just the little things. But like I said, just hang out with him, try and get those feelings to reconnect all over again and see where it goes from there, adn someday if you're ready, just take the chance and let him know how you feel and let him know you were stupid for letting him go. It took you two to be apart to realize you really did like him.
I hope I helped.
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okay, our school puts on a halloween haunt concert every year. I already have a gorgeous dress that I need to make use of, I just don't know how to incorporate it into a costume. Can you give me ideas on what I could dress up as using ths dress? Please, nothing like throwing fake blood or getting the dress dirty. Also I want to look pretty, not some sort of monster.
http://img116.imageshack.us/img116/9646/picturefa5.jpg (link)
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I think you could be a really pretty angel! You could curl your hair a bit and just buy some of those angel wings you can put on your back and do your makeup all pretty and everything. You could also be some type of fairy too, and maybe alter the dress a little shorter, kind of like tinkerbell's.
I hope I helped.
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ok, so theres this boy at school, we're only in 2 of each others classes but he's really nice to me. the thing is, we're not really proper mates, and barely talk, but the other day in D.T, he was being real flirty and that like putting his arm round me and that.
what does this mean???? (link)
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Even though you guys aren't really proper friends or anything or don't talk that much, he could still be interested in you.
If you like him back, try flirting with him some more and get to talking to him more and get to know him better and become friends, and see where that goes!
I hope I helped.
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One of my best friend's came to me and another friend (also both bi) and told us he was bi and he was serosuis. Now fast forward a couple weeks, he says to me he's complety straight and would never do another guy, now i think he's lying whatta do ya think?
btw were all 14 (link)
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Now, I don't know if you're bisexual also, but if you are and some of your friends are, he just might've been trying to blend in with you guys. You guys are 14, and that's whenever everyone tries to find themselves and blend in with people to fit in properly, so he could've told a lie. Or he just might've been bi-curious, and realized he wasn't really feeling other guys that way, and that's that.
I would talk to him about it and just ask him if he's really serious about being straight or not, or if he really is bisexual, and why would he go and tell everyone he's straight after saying that? And just let him know it's alright to talk to you about it, you won't say anything to anybody if he doesn't want them knowing anything. Talking to him about it is the only true way to find things out, and get the record straight.
I hope I helped.
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wat's a "donkey punch", this is drivin me nuts (link)
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Haha, I didn't know what that mean either, so I googled it and got this:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Donkey_punch
I hope I helped.
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13/f
When your at the movies sitting by another dude what can turn them on? Say your not going out with the guy. Whats cute and attractive. (link)
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Well first it depends on what movie.
Comedy:
-laugh along with him
-make a little comment on something ( but not a huge comment, you don't want to be talking the whole movie! and only do it every now and then )
-after the movie, mention a funny thing he did once to show him you pay attention to his jokes and everything
-hold onto his hand
-share popcorn
-ask him if he wants anything to eat ( candy, soda, etc.)
Horror:
-clasp onto his arm during the scary parts
-or hold his hand
-or dig your head into his shoulder
-lean against his arm slightly with yours
And do all these options for any type of movie, and just be flirty and enjoy the movie and flrit with him more after the movie and just be sweet and offer him foods and candys and whatnot.
I hope I helped.
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Okay, so, you know those fashion photos in like Elle and Teen People magazines? Well, does anyone know where I would be able to find pictures like that on the internet? I looked on the teen people website but I can't find any there
Thank you! (link)
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If you go to Google, and go to the IMAGES part, and just type in "Teen People+models" a few pictures came up, so you could also try with Elle and see what happens, and don't just stick with Google. Try Yahoo and all those other internet search sites so you might come up with different options. A few pictures came up for Teen People, so hopefully that helps you. I hope I helped.
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hey i really need advice, pleeeaase help me.
Im in 9th grade and there is this guy that i really like and hes in 12th grade :/. he might like me but im not sure, i danced with him at the dance and stuff and people got really jelouse. my parents said i have no chance with him cause hes a lot older and they say he just wants me for sex.it just really stinks cause i really like him. what should i do?
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I say give it a chance. Not all 18 year old guys want to get with a girl just for sex, some actually want to get a good relationship out of it. So just take a chance, and see what happens. A four year difference is a LITTLE apart, but it's really not that bad.
If he does start asking about you two having sex and everything, just tell him no. No matter how much you think he'll like you after it, or how much he wants to, just say no unless you're 100% ready pyshically and mentally. And if he keep insiting it, he obviously doesn't then respect your decision, which in then, you can always leave the relationship.
I hope I helped.
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Last night I was talking to my friend on AIM, and he was telling me about his weekend -
him: its been fun
me: yah cool man
him: do you have hositlity towards me?
me: ahahah what
him: forget it
Then he signed off. Wtf do you think I did to make him pissed off? I don't know I did. I wasn't TRYING to be unfriendly in the least bit..ugh. (link)
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Well this is the problem with the internet - things can come off the wrong way because you don't know how the person's exactly saying it, so it can be taken whatever way.
Whenever you said "yah cool man", he might've thought you were being sarcastic or something and didn't really care.
I would suggest trying to IM him again or call him or something and just be like,"Hey, do you want to explain to me what happened the other night? I would never have hostility towards you. Did I do something to make you mad?" And just talk to him about it. Like I said, it might've been taken as a huge misunderstanding.
And also, just think of something pervious that might've happened where you possibly could've come off hostile or in a bad mood. Maybe that's what upset him and caused all that.
I hope I helped.
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whats a milf? (link)
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"Mother I Like to Fuck".
I hope I helped.
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Ill be 18 oct. 27
I work with this girl that is throwing a halloween party and she told me that i deff have to be there and i have to wear a costume. Well i asked my dad if he could bring to the costume shop and he said "why?" I told him that my friend invited me to a party. He said is there going to be parents. Her parents are not going to be there because she is married and only 19. So he said theres going to be alcohol. Iknow there is going to be alcohol and i told him that. But the thing is i don't drink and i dont plan on it till im 21. So hes making a big deal out of me going to this party. Ill be 18 and im old enough to make my own decisions but he just doesnt understand that.
What i dont understand is that he'll let me go and hang out with alot of people over 21 and they are guys at the bowling alley and they drink while they bowl. But hes making a big deal out of this party.
I guess my question is how do i get him to leave the situation alone and stop attacking like im some stupid teenager that doesnt know how to control herself around alcohol or my own friends.
thank you.
*** other questions like this you guys just tell them to show them your responsible by cleaning. thats not what i want to hear.
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I don't think there really is a way to get your father to leave the subject alone. I mean your his daughter, and he's just worried about you.
If I were a parent I would be more worried about the party than the bowling because at parties thats where sex and other bad things happen, and nothing bad is really going to come from bowling and plus, there's a bunch of other kinds of people around you (adults) so if something WERE to happen at bowling, somebody'd notice.
I would talk to your father about it and explain that you're not going to drink until you're 21 and you're just going there to have fun and hang around with your friends. Even try and make a deal with him that if he feels that uncomfortable with everything, he can call you every hour or so and check up on you and listen to see if you're alright and everything and if you don't sound drunk.
Also let him know that this is a good opportunity to show him that you are a responsible adult and that he can trust you whenever you want to go out places.
I hope I helped.
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hey;
this is really random, but what does "BAMF" stand for??
-thanks (link)
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It means "Bad Ass Mother Fucker".
I hope I helped.
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Is there anyway to hide your groups on myspace. Or better yet, delete them all together? Thanks! (link)
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Whenever you go to your myspace home page, just go to "Account Settings", and then near the bottom it should say "Profile Settings" so click on that, and then check off "Display Groups That I Belong Too", and then just click "Change Settings", and they shouldn't show up on your page anymore.
If you just want to delete them, whenever you're on your home page, just go to the far right where it says your network and whatever, and at the bottom under that, it should say "My Groups", and just click on that and all your groups'll show up. Then just go to each one of them and if you want to leave them, go look at their picture and look at the blue buttons, and the top one or second top one should say "Resign", and just click it and you should leave the group.
I hope I helped.
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you know the bar at the top that you type websites on like "advicenators.com" and then you press "go". how do you dlete the websites you've already been at. like for google you can just press earase history. well can you just erase all the sites?
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Well, I have Mozilla FireFox, so I don't know if your internet and my internet look the same way, but you just have to go to TOOLS and then OPTIONS or PRIVACY OPTIONS or there might be a button that says "CLEAR PRIVATE DATA", and then there'll be a couple different buttons or not, so just find the one that says PRIVACY, and the find the word HISTORY, and there should be a button that says CLEAR BROWSING HISTORY, which'll clear out all the sites you've vistied and searched and everything. Also, if you want to keep it that way, there should be a button that says "Remember pages visited for the next [ ] days", so just change whatever number's in there from that to 0 so it never remembers.
I hope I helped.
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i just started to play the guitar & i would really like some advice on some easy & simple things to learn. or some basics that i will need to know.
thanks (link)
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I've recently started taking up the guitar too, and I've found that Green Day songs aren't really that hard to play. Mostly the bass tabs are the easiest part, and it doesn't even matter if you're not learning bass, because it just helps you recognize the nots first of all, and helps you move around quicker, until you're able to learn chords and play at a faster rate. The White Stripes "7th Nation Army" is also a pretty easy song play. But if I were you, if you really want to learn well and get to the first basics, I suggest taking up guitar lessons cause they'll be able to help you out alot better, or at least have a friend who can play guitar also help you out with chords and everything, and sooner or later play songs with you ( that's what me and my friend do ). I hope I helped.
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I was wondering, if your pregnant, can you still have sex? (link)
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Yes, you're allowed to have sex, but not during the last 3 months whenever the baby becoming fully developed, because it can hurt the baby. I hope I helped.
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Okay so I like this boy and I thought he liked me but all he wants to do is have sex. Should I or should'nt I? I always told myself I would never think of things like this I would always just say no, but for some reason I think this is the boy for me and i wouldnt wanna ruin anything by saying no. What should I do? (link)
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If this guy only wants sex from you, why would you want to do it? Sex should be betweeen two people who really care for one another, and it's a very special thing. I wouldn't waste it on this guy. And most guys like these who just want sex with a girl, they'll do it and then never talk to the girl again and just ignore her basically like "you did your job, now you're done". I know this'll come off rude, but there's nothing TO ruin. Just let him know that "no means no". Having sex with this guy isn't going to make him like you or anything. This guy doesn't even deserve you because if he really DID like you, he'd respect your decision. If you're uncomfortable with having sex with him and feel you're not ready, then you shouldn't do it. Like I said, wait for a guy you really care about, and he feels the same way back, and are 100% pyshically and mentally ready to do it.
I hope I helped.
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okay,i know i could go for the normal taking her for a movie and dinner,but i want something different
i thought of taking her hiking,kayaking and ice cream so far.so what other dates are good and different?cause i really wanna impress this gal (link)
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Well, I don't know how many dates you've gone on with this girl, but if it's only one of the first few, I wouldn't take her kayaking or anything. That's a little TOO extravagent, and you might be coming on a little too hard, and she might feel bad you're spending so much on her and everything.
I suggest just taking her somewhere that she's talked about going to, or somewhere that includes her interest. Like, say she loves butterflies. Some places ( I don't know where you live, but ) they have these little buildings where butterflies just fly around and you can take pictures and everything. It'll show your sensitive, sweet side and also show her you're really listening to what she is saying whenever you two talk, and it'll make her happy. And showing her how much thought you put into making the date a great one, will already really impress the girl.
But kayaking and hiking would also be very good dates if that's what she's interested in. Maybe you could even do it somewhat later in the day so whenever you guys are hiking and get to the top of wherever you're climbing, you can look at the sunset and talk and everything.
And ice cream's a good one. Everyone loves ice cream, haha.
So jsut think of what you guys have talked about in previous conversations and take something she's interested in and likes or loves and intertwine that into the date so you'll already know she likes it adn will have a fun time and it's a good conversation starter about her and why she loves it so much and everything.
I hope I helped.
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Well about seven months ago I started talking to this guy I met online on a message board. We spoke for a while and after a few months we liked eachother more than friends.
I told my mum that I talk to him, so she has known for a few months that we are "friends". But she has such a negative view on internet socialising. She makes silly jokes about him being my "looover" which is ok, but some of her jokes are just not funny and I actually think they are very rude about him. He has always been polite about her.
Now, its been such a long time, and we want to meet. In November he has some thing that he wants to invite me to, just one weekend. Yes I know the safety rules, and I am being very careful. I know *alot* about him, even seen his ID card which poves his identity. He keeps asking to let my mum talk to him so he can show her that he isnt going to harm me. He said he'd give her his phone number, address, parents number, and any other details she could want. If for some reason we dont click personality wise, I'll deal with that.
Yet my mum made an indirect comment last night about "I wouldnt let (my name) travel off to meet someone she's never met!". She said it quite strongly. I told him about that and he told me not to panic because she can still speak to him. But I am just so nervous now, I am panicking and I don't have much time. I find it extrememly hard to talk to my insensetive mother, who (and relatives of mine agree) bosses people, will never admit she is wrong and thinks that everyone on the planet shares her views. I don't know how to talk to her. Parents may want to protect their children, but I am nearly 18 and that will make me legally an adult. And If I do eerything the careful way does she have a right to say" I said no and I'm your mother so there", without hearing me out?
How can I show her that he isnt going to be dangerous? Do you think the suggested ideas will work at all? I need urgent help! (link)
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I would sit down with your mother and just have a serious talk with her about this. Just be like,"Mother, I know you're worried about me and what can happen, but believe me, I've looked at this guy's identity card and everything so I know pretty much everything about him. He's told me he's fine with you talking with him and he'll even give you his adress, whatever you need to know. Also, if you'd like, I'll make a deal with you. How about you come along with me to this thing, and meet him and see that he's not a bad guy, and then just leave and let me and him enjoy the rest of the night together and hang out and everything?"
That way she'll get to meet him in person herself and see for herself that you're in good hands and you'll be safe and everything. And let her know you have your cellphone on you so you guys can contact eachother at anytime that you need to.
Even though you ARE 18, she does still somewhat have the right to tell you no, I mean it IS your mother after all. She gave birth to you, gave you life, so no matter how old you are she still has some say in whatever happens to you. Well, no a SAY, more of an opinion. But as long as you're living in her house, I say her rules go, because living with her shows you're not a independent full on adult yet ( don't take that as an insult you know what I mean ), so you're still dependant on her for living purposes and everything, so her opinion on things still does count.
But even so, she should still at least listen to you and hear you out, so hopefully the suggestion I made about her tagging along for a few minutes to meet him herself and everything and get the offical stamp of approval might help, or if you two can come up with some other form of agreement.
I hope I helped.
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Last night my 2 best friends & I went to the moves planned to be with the guy we liked, it was a scary movie so we thought we might hook up with them. Well the guy I used to like could come he was out of state for the weekend so I invited a nother friend who happened to be my ex from a long time ago, 2 years atleast. Well we went to see The Grudge 2 & my hand brushed his in the theratre & he grabbed it, then half way through the movie he put his arm around me & he would pull me close when there was going to be a scary part. I had never felt so right about anything, it was perfect. How he touched me, oh so gently gave me butterflies. Well here is the bad part - he & a good friend of mine just broke up 2 days before this. Its not like he broke up with her, she dumped him & I asked her if she had feelings for him still & she told me no, but I still feel bad. Should I just consider this a one night stand, or should I make it into a realationship ? (link)
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If you really like this guy and think you guys would be good together, then why not turn it into a relationship?
But firstly, to not create drama or anything and just to set the record straight before you pursure anything, talk to your friend about it. Let her know you're sort of developing feelings for this guy, and is she totally sure she's over him, and would it be alright for you to ask him out. If she says she's not quite over him yet, then just let her know you understand and then just wait for her to get over it. Because just going ahead and dating him will be showing her you don't care much for her feelings and it'll just make unwanted drama. And then just explain to him that you really do like him, but your friend is still trying to get over it, so you want to wait awhile. But if she doesn't mind, that's great! :D
He sounds like a really nice guy and everything, so if she doesn't mind you going out with him, I wouldn't pass the chance up.
I hope I helped.
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