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Hostility?
Last night I was talking to my friend on AIM, and he was telling me about his weekend -
him: its been fun
me: yah cool man
him: do you have hositlity towards me?
me: ahahah what
him: forget it
Then he signed off. Wtf do you think I did to make him pissed off? I don't know I did. I wasn't TRYING to be unfriendly in the least bit..ugh.
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Several times, I've had a friend over while I was talking to someone on aim and then my friend would start talkin to the person and say weird things. Things like that. If it was him, I don't know why he'd say that but I doubt it was him.
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Well this is the problem with the internet - things can come off the wrong way because you don't know how the person's exactly saying it, so it can be taken whatever way.
Whenever you said "yah cool man", he might've thought you were being sarcastic or something and didn't really care.
I would suggest trying to IM him again or call him or something and just be like,"Hey, do you want to explain to me what happened the other night? I would never have hostility towards you. Did I do something to make you mad?" And just talk to him about it. Like I said, it might've been taken as a huge misunderstanding.
And also, just think of something pervious that might've happened where you possibly could've come off hostile or in a bad mood. Maybe that's what upset him and caused all that.
I hope I helped.
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