MelLeDisko answered Sunday October 15 2006, 1:54 pm: Well, I don't know how many dates you've gone on with this girl, but if it's only one of the first few, I wouldn't take her kayaking or anything. That's a little TOO extravagent, and you might be coming on a little too hard, and she might feel bad you're spending so much on her and everything.
I suggest just taking her somewhere that she's talked about going to, or somewhere that includes her interest. Like, say she loves butterflies. Some places ( I don't know where you live, but ) they have these little buildings where butterflies just fly around and you can take pictures and everything. It'll show your sensitive, sweet side and also show her you're really listening to what she is saying whenever you two talk, and it'll make her happy. And showing her how much thought you put into making the date a great one, will already really impress the girl.
But kayaking and hiking would also be very good dates if that's what she's interested in. Maybe you could even do it somewhat later in the day so whenever you guys are hiking and get to the top of wherever you're climbing, you can look at the sunset and talk and everything.
And ice cream's a good one. Everyone loves ice cream, haha.
So jsut think of what you guys have talked about in previous conversations and take something she's interested in and likes or loves and intertwine that into the date so you'll already know she likes it adn will have a fun time and it's a good conversation starter about her and why she loves it so much and everything.
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