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well i havn't used this site in FOREVER!!! but i use to give people advice every single day i love it and i hate it when i can't help the people.

well i'm 14 years old i'm short lol 5ft 1in. i have brown hair and brownish goldish eyes. i have some freckles but they fade out in the winter.

on the weekends i like to hang out with as many people as possible. i usually go to the movies bowling the mall or anywhere else that is fun. but of course if i'm there its gunna be fun!!!


well i don't no what i am i dont' like to label myself but i would have to say i'm out going crazy hyper loud. i dress preppy and skaterish depends on my mood.

my fave color is pink it deff. describes who i am.

well thats all i can think of right now so i'll talk to yawl lata

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WHY THE FUCK DID MY BAND GET RIPPED UP! FIRST OUR BASS AND DRUMMER WHO WAS LIKE MY BROTHERS MOVED! THEN I BREAK MY ARM AND RIP A LIGAMENT! NOW I MIGHT HAVE SCYST! GAHHHHH! oooo and i have mono. hehe the kissing deises

lol dude i wish i didn't no who asked me this because now its hard but trust me useually things like this mean something. i don't no why ur band go messed up you arm will get better and scyst you don't no if you have it yet and mono thats kinda funni but that will go away. PLEASE TRY AND GO 2 CAMP

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well me and my b/f have been goin out for like a little more than 2 months i like him so much and he likes me alot to ... i think... wel anyway me and him and my friend and her bf always hang out on weekends and this weekend my bestfriends bf told me that my bf wanted to make-out with me i kinda do to but he always says stuff like this just never stuff that "intense" i guess u could call it... well everytime we do hang out my bf never acts like he wants to kiss me or anything and i dont kno if he does or not...how would i tell if he does? (sry if its kinda confusing and thats its really long)

ok well you can't really tell with guys now a days. if you want to make out with him then tell him and hell tell you if he wants to make out with you. don't make out until you have kissed though. i hope i helped sorry if i didn't.
airhead

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what is an aviator? or the aviator? something of the sort... someone said it and i feel like an idiot

isn't that a movie like a plane movie?

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is it okay to wear a black hat (like the french type of hats) when you're wearing a black dress, black sandals, and nude tights? and the dress is like 3 inches above the knee...

yeah but it may be to black and if u do wear it make sure its the same color as black

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Ok, my head hurts really bad. Its not a headache ( I know when I have a headache) and Its kind of a weird feeling, like my head is a melon and everytime I lay down or bend over, my head feels like its goign to fall off. My nose is all stuffy and I have no idea if I am getting sick or what. What do you think this is, the flu? What should I take (over the counter) to help me get better? Thanks

its either a sinus infection or a miagrane take sinus tanyonl how ever u spell it and zertec thats a pracription.

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How come you have one goose, two geese, but if you have one moose, wouldn't it be two meese?

lmao thats probley the stupidest question i have ever had to answer. its got something with language and i'm not good with that its just how u pronounce it. and if every plural word was like goose and geese then dog would have to be deg and thats not right so its just how it is.

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Okay well I used to have this really good friend, and he was really nice to me until one day I decided to call him and this is what I said,
me:hey!
him:hey.
me:whats up?
him:nothing really you?
me:nothing...
him:okay..
Me:So are you still going out with lauren or whatever her name is?
Him:yea
Me:cool...
him:Why r you acting like such a bitch?
me:What? im not?
him:yeah you kind of are
me:um...no not really
him:ok whatever.
---hangs up---

Then after that day he totally ignored me! He doesn't really go to school cuz he's home schooled so I never see him, but we used to be bestfriends...well to me he was. I was able tell him anything, and now he's being so rude to me. Oh, that's not all that happened. About 2 weeks ago I finally IMed him and was like..
Me:why do u hate me so much?
Him:cause...i do
Me:um ok? well, I didn't do anything to you.
Him:okay...

Then after he ignored me again!
I finally IMed one of my friends and told her wut was going on, and she IMed him and asked him why hes ignoreing me and all that stuff, and after he apologized. Now he's being mean to me again! Just now I IMed him and said hey! And he's like why are you talking to me? and i'm like why not? and he never responded. What the hell's going on, why does he hate me? I did nothing to him so what's he getting all mad about!?! Help I rate high.

{Oh, and yes I tried talking to him so don't say, "try talking to him" cause it doesn't work...just so yall know.}

hmmm well this sounds similer to what someone did to me. i was going out with this guy and we broke up but then started to talk again. then all of a sudden i IMed him and he was like why are you talking to me. i was kinda confused. i stoped talking to him for awhile but then one night i got on and he was on and i didn't talk to him but he IMed me and was like hey and acted like nothing was wrong. so i went along with it. about a month passed and he did it again. it was like everytime he got a g/f he wouldn't talk to me. so maybe thats it. and well he is a guy and guys are weird. just give him space and time he will come around trust me.

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hi i live in michigan and over spring break my best friend and I are going to los aggeles, california! we're realllllly excited any everything but we're worried bcuz some of our friends are jealous and we don't want them to feel bad. what should we do?

thanks

ahhhh you shouldn't do anything. they shouldn't be jelous have fun i mean come on its los angeles!!!

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how many finger do u suggest for a girl who has been fingered but only once?????i need to know asap

start with 2

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Today i found out from alot of people that my boyfriends been cheating on me with this girl that i absolutly hate and wen i asked my boyfriend about it he sed it wasnt true and they are lying to me, but i dont know wether to trust him or not because he has cheated on me before and tryed to hide it but i found out and idk why but i let it slide (plz noone give me a lecture on that). His bestfriend even told me that which is why im questioning him but he keeps on saying its not true. I dont know what to do, should i break up with him even though hes saying it not true or should i stay with him? someone please help me! btw me and him are both 15 and weve been together for 10 months, and we also dont go to the same school. thanks for your helf

hmmmmm well you don't really know if he is because you don't go to his school. if everyone is saying he is cheating on you then you should spy on him some how. i know its wrong. even his best friend told you hes cheating on you. thats kinda weird i would find out some way. if i was you i would dump him. because something like that happend to me about a year ago. i was going out with a guy and he didn't go to my school but i new his cousin because he went to my school and i new a lot of peeps at his school and i found out hed been cheating on me with one of my best friends from his school. i didn't let him know i new and i just dumped him but he found out that i new and that pissed him off not at me but at his friends who told me. but i mean i had a right to know and you do too.

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Hi,
I'm 5"7, aged fourteen and weigh ten stone (which is 140 pounds I think). I know this isn't majorly overweight or anything, but I feel fat and would like, if possible, to gradually get down to nine stone (126 pounds). I wouldn't mind if this took, say a few months.
I exercise regulary but find it hard to stop snacking between meals. Has anyone got any tips into how to stop this?
Or any other gradual-dieting tips.
Any advice would be very much appreciated :-)

i think that if you like don't buy as much stuff at the store then you won't have anything to snack on so then your body will know that you don't need that stuff and it will shrink and you won't eat as much and you will lose weight thats what i have done and i have lost 10 pounds in a month. so next time your mom or dad goes to the store tell them not to get a lot of snacks if you get any snacks make sure there health and low on calories.

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ohk im really scared! i think i MIGHT be pregnet. but see i did not ever have sex! ever! but i KIND of did anal.like it went it half way. can u get pregnet from anal? and like i always get my period before my mom, but she got hers today and istill dont have mine and im like really scared

no u cant get pregnent from anal

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hey i can't for the love of me figure why we have so many different social relationships. i don't even understand why goths r considered scary i mean i have friends who r goths and they r awsome...help me out!! thnx :)

i don't know why either. its they way we dress i think.
preps- wear north face and stuff from aero, american eagle and abercrombie.
punks- wear skateboarding stuff like pacsun hot topic buckle and other places.
goths-wear lots of black and weird stuff.
nerd/geek-wear starch cloths that are way to small for them.
dorks-where whatever they like.
poor kids- wear what they can aford.

people judge to much on the money and clothes. the preps think they rule everyone and everything. its not true. they dont get 2 no us first. me i'm a little bit of everything. i dont judge people.

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ok well when i was younger i had an agent and i did small tv things, and i remember it taking up a lot of my time. ITs been awhile since i have done n e thing involving tv and broadway, and now my dad thinks its a good time to start up again. I have been re hired and everything but when i talked to my agent she says i would probably have to quit a lot of my activites. I am involved with a lot of things right now and i dont no if its the best for me to do this. I really want to act right now and do this again but i dont want to regret it in the long run.

Plex Help

ahhh you won't i mean come on i would rather be on tv than be doing other activitys that won't get me any money. in the long run you can be an actor in movies. get rich and famous have a great life.

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i just told one of my best friends kelly im bi and now she is acting weird around me. I imed her and shes like ummm hi and im like whats wrong and then she says well idk how to act around u anymore, and im really hurt, she treats me like im not wanted, not intentional, but it still hurts, what do i do be honest

maybe she thinks you like her since ur bi. say this to her: if you think i have a crush on you i don't so you don't need to act diferent around me i'm still the same person.

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okay this might sound a little stupid...but i ahve a best friend and i love her with allll my heart but lately she;s been getting like tons of BF's and crap and this might sound a little stupid buutt i was feeling kind of jelous because she kind of "stole" the guy taht i REALLY like... and she knows i like him but she flirts with him ne ways... i've tried speaking to her about it but she just got into a fight about it (and i HATE fighting over boys!)the one thing that REALLY bothers me is taht she goes through guys like they dont even matter to her, and i know this might sound stupid but i think she;s trying to get with the guy i liek to amke me jelous....what should i do?!?! i;ve already tried talking to her but no matter what she doesnt give a damn!!..lol please help =(
thnx . xoxo Ariella*

you get the guy before she does. flirt with him. behind her back not infront of her. she not a very good friend if she does that kind of stuff. she shouldn't use guys like that.

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my friend has kissed my very "friendly" friend and we have gone out a couple time and we still kiss occasionaly...but we havnt made out. the friend that has kissed him said he is the best kisser..and she has kised a lot of guys and said he was the best. i know he wants to do things with me but i get really nervous. should i just let him go for it? cuz i am very "blonde" and i tend to mess things up.a nd this is really important to me. my girl friend said she would teach me how..but i dont know what to do.


HELP!! I RATE HIGH!!

hehehehehehehe i like this question because i am the same. my friend tought me how to kiss it was a disaster. try and make out with the shower wall if its tiles it helps i mean it i know it sounds reaaallllllly stupid but it works i'm not kidding. i use to suck at making out but not anymore i'm like realllllly good now. my friend didn't help she just made me laugh because she was like puck ur lips like this and like kiss your hand or whatever its stupid. you will only mess up if your nerves and try to hard. just go with the flow. he will understand if your not the best at first because its like your first. every person makes out diffrently you have to get the flow of the person you are making out with and move along with him. hope i helped
airhead

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hey i had my period and i dont wanna tell my mom. but how do i get the pads and tampons and stuff? and how do i explain it when i get cramps and stuff


help meeeee

you need to tell your mom sweety. shes there 4 u.

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okay well i reall hate living at my house..my mom has told me she dont want me here and my step dad has also i've been cryin for the past two nights and the only comfort i've had was my boyfriend he's the greatest well my friend toni wants to runaway and she one my best friends and she asked if i'd go with her...well i've gave this so much thought and i really want to but the reason i wont is cause of my boyfriend well he asked me to marry him and i said yes.. but he kinda felt bad after he told me cause he said he cant do it right now or anything cause were only 16..well i know were young and everything but my friend toni said we should run off and get married..though bout that also but i dont wanna do that then like get caught and his grandma or my mom can get it undone anyways which i know my mom won't cause she really could care less.. but like can anybody gimma advice on how i can try and stand my parents.. ill rate high if its good.. and i also need advice on if you think i should marry him.. i love him more then anything we been through alot together like his mother's deather me havin a miscarriage me havin my airway disease my mom losing her baby and jus a whole bunch of other stuff and i know he will always be there or atleast i think he will.. he hasnt gave up on me yet in the past year and a lil bit longer..and dont tell me im too young cause i know that but lota people get married young and things work out..much luv and thanks ahead of time for anybody who helps..

yeah well don't run away thats stupid. i think you should marry your boyfriend. if your mom doesn't want you there and neither does your step dad then ask your boyfriend if his parents would let you live with him. i mean your old enough too pick where you want to live. and your mom can't stop you and if you take it to court just tell the judge that your mom said she didn't want you there. the judge will do whats best for you just dont' run away and marry that other guy your in love with your boyfriend marry him.

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i am 13/f, and i know this sounds really gross. but can you have a pimple on your (down there). when i was putting on my jeans the other day it started to hurt. and when i got out of the shower there is this big bumb down there. its kind of white on the top. which to me looks like a pimple. what can i do? i'm scared. how can i get rid of it? I RATE 5's!!!

ps. i am not a virgin, but its just now showing up and the last time i had sex was 3 months ago.

well i would go to the doctor. because sometimes it takes awhile for a diseas to show up. like aids you can have aids for like 5 years and not know it. so go to the doctor. thats what i would do.

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