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but theres this kid in my spanish class hes a sophmore and im a freshman. and ever since school started he always checked me out and stuff, and he'd stare at me all the time. every time he'd pass me he'd flick his hair at me. well i just thought that it didnt mean anything, until these past few days in the halls he'd point me out to all of his friends, and they'd be like "oh thats the girl who you like?" (but they didnt know that i heard), so i know that he likes me but he's kind of shy! i like him too and i want to go to homecoming with him but i want him to ask ME so what should i do? i dont want to ask his friends cause thats lame, but im afraid to talk to him. do you think he's embarrassed cause im a freshman?

no,guys don't mind going out with younger girls. But when a girl goes out with a younger guy people tend to talk. but thats not ur question, i dont think he's embarrased the next time he points u off u can smile at him and in spanish talk to him try to start a conversation or when u see in the hall be like hey,wut was our spanish homework? even if u already do know

*hope i helped*

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I can do just about anything with my hair.I can scrunch it, straighten it, put it up just name it and I can do it with my hair but tomorrow is picture day and I don't know what to do with my hair. I was thinking of scrunching it. I also don't know what to wear. Any suggestions?
thanx!

well for my picture day i straightened and we got our ID cards yesterday but the pictures and it looks real cute...and i wore this shirt w. a cute cami under u can wear somethin that u think is real cute

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do u really noe what love is like or wen ur in love?¿ And how do you make a backgroung for ur gj..im a new journerler and i need help

yes u do no wut love is when ur in love..believe i always use to wonder,but now i know and to do a background thingy go to the FAQ's and they shud tell u there

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hey everyone. im manda and im 14 years old. i need to start babysitting in order to get some money. well i just moved into my new house in a new town. i want to make babysitting flyers to take and give to some of my neibors. i just need to know what to put on it. um.. i get pretty decent grades, im responsible, i love kids, i dont mind changing dipers. i am trained in CPR and First Aid and have the cards to prove it. so what should i put on the flyer to make it look appealing to parents n stuff? thanks for ur guys' help!

much love
xoxo
manda

put wut u just told me on a color that will attract eyes and put ur age so they no ur legal to babysit (here its 11) and how much u charge per hour

-hope i helped-

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Okay, theres this chickk that goes to my school. I was haveing such a good day cuz I got my hair cut and I got stuff to scrunch my hair, and I thought I looked soo nice. EVERYBODY was complimenting me, and I've never got any compliments from any of these, like my best friend amanda told me i looked pretty, and I've never been told that i was pretty before so it was really cool. But this one chick, shes supposed to be one of my best friends, says I look really bad, and I'm trying to looklike one of my other best friends named Justine, But i wasn't, because Justine doesn't even scrunch her hair! And my belt had broken that day and It wasn't cuz of me, it was because I wore it like everyday and it was fallen apart, it was my favorite belt, and I like put pins in it so it wouldn't break anymore, and then of course I said. "look at my belt" in front of her, and she said "That's what happens when your fat" and I'm like "Dude your mean" and shes like "Truth Hurts", I dunno, she was never mean before, Do you think she was just mad that everybody was complimenting me and not her??

I rate high..!

nahh i think that girl is just a bitch and not a real friend

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I love volleyball... but i fucking hate my coaches... they are such dush bags... should i quit or should i stick with it? if i quit i would def. play soccer... HELP!!

lol i say play soccer

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there is this guy i like, and he knows that i like him. Well he had told his friends, and my brother that he likes me. Well I wrote him a letter yesterday confronting him about my feelings toward him that i liked him and if anything would happen between us. And his friend told me yesterday that He likes some other girl... But i don't understand because he told all his friends that he likes me. So he wrote me a letter stating: Hey what's up. I have to clear up a couple of issues between us. You seem like a really nice person, but I'm not ready for a relationship. So can we just be friends? I still like him a lot , no matter what, and I don't know what else I should say to him or to write back to him. *i rate* thanks!!

try being friends with him, you never know what could happen...here is what happened to me

2 years ago i met a guy and i liked him for awhile but he hated me and now we're best friends and who knows something might start and it's really to have a really close guy friend because they can help you out with boy problems.

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My boyfriend is very experienced sexually. He's 16 and I'm 15. We've been going out for a while now but have broken up a couple times before. The most important thing is though, is that we love eachother to death. He wants to go farther than what I'm comfortable with right now. I've always been a good girl and haven't done anything really 'sexual' with a guy. He wants to finger me, which I know deep down I am not ready for. How do I tell him this without sounding like a scared little girl or sounding dumb? All my friends have done these things with guys, but I do not want to give into pressure like that.

say no, it's what smart kids say to sex or in your case fingering...tell him you're not ready if he really loves you, he'll understand

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I've noticed on some profiles, people have words that move across the page. Someone told me to type marquee with around it, type what I wanted to say, and then type marquee with around it again, and I did that, but then when I looked at my page..EVERYTHING on my page was moving...How do I get only the things I want to move to move? HELP!

Thanks!

-Nik!

< marquee > what you want here < /marquee > obviously w.out the spaces and you need to put the slash there and there are other stuff on http://www3.buddy4u.com/view/?u=xXx+HTML+xXx&redirect=true#star

hope i helped

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well my best friend and i have been friends for 3 years ok. we have been getting in fights once a week and its driving me crazy lets just say i have been seeing my councler alot for and one day i didnt talk to a single person. well we recently just got in a fight because i was walking with a friend that she doesnt like him at all. i tryed to talk to her but we just got in this big fight and she says she cant trust me because im friends with someone she doesnt like and right now i have alot of problems and when i try to explain to her wat my problem is she just compares it to her life. i dont know how to tell her how i feel with out her getting all mad and crap like that. so can u give me some ideas on how to talk to her. ooo and shes an only child. she can be self concided to if u couldnt tell already.

thats how me and my friend used to be we fought every week for a whole year and than we just stopped talking to eachother and its been a month since we havent.

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ok look there is this girl that i like and she is well one of my best friends i dunno it is just when i am around her i feel so loved and i mean she is really really beautiful and stuff. but tonight i was at her house for a party no occasion just a party and she looked so hot and she cuddled with me well she was cold and stuff.

but the question is how can i show her that i can be a good boyfriend and that i like her more then a friend.

thnx

show how you feel you'd be surprised by our reactions. Most guys don't know it but when a guy tells a girl he likes her most likely she'll give you a chance. And also, most girls go for there best friends too. Well because i do, lol.

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hey guys im ryah

well ok there is this boy Jake that i have dated before but I like him again, only because he calls me every day and is so sweet but it was so randomly that he started calling me, i mean we have been seeing eachother outside of school because we have the same friends and all but like we weren't really close since we broke up, we still kept in touch and talked online and all.i mean i have never really STOPPED liking him but i kinda moved on for a while but the feelings were still there. well anyways when we do see eachother OUT OF SCHOOL (keyword lol b/c we just act like friends in school which is odd) we are all over eachother and makeout and stuff, thats the farthest its gone since but he has mentioned to do other things. well anyways us doing all this stuff makes me attracted to him even more. i just don't know where to go from there like i would want to date him again officially you know, but i just don't know what exactly to say to him about i can't straight out say 'i like you, so let's go out' but i don't know what to say!!

Sorry it was long :(
Thanks if you help me :) I need it lol

lol well i like a guy named jake lol but we do these things IN SCHOOL lol not out but umm i'd say just be like soo you wanna go out sometime?

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how do i keep myself from gettin rele bored on the internet? Can anyone give me cool sites like this one or some horse rpg'z to keep my busy. xo

www.hellz-angelz.cjb.net

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This weekend I went a party at a friends. Me and this guy hooked up. I don't really like him in the way that he likes me. No since we kissed and stuff he thinks I do like him - in the way he likes me. What should I do? I don't want to hurt his feelings, but I have to tell him I don't like him. What should I say? Thanks a bunch for the help.

you dont like him but u kissed and or made out with him? how would you feel if someone didnt like you but they kissed and or made out with you?

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wat are good sites for quotes besides fire hot quotes?

www.hellz-angelz.cjb.net

www.quote-a-licious.cjb.net

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Okay well met this guy on the internet .. and we've been talking for about a year now . and i really think im in love with him ..and we talk about our fellings for eachother.. and he feels the same things for me as i do him ..He has never saw my pic befor .. bur he said it dosent matter if im Ugly or..pretty .. he said all that matters .. is the way he feels .. and he said ..that it WOULD NOT CHANGE anything if i was ugly .. well what i want to kno is .. if i should just cut it off with him because i kno were never going to meet i mean we might .. he lives in flordia and i go there every summer but ..i dont want my feeling for him to get any stronger then what they already are for him .. what should i do ?

15-Taylor-Gender:Female

first of all online relationships are messed up. "He has never saw my pic befor " ..he has never SEEN my pic before.. second of all i met this guy thru his sister n he lives in nj n i live in ny n he saw my pic n stuff we talked all summer but i met other guys from my community. You don't love him..you think you do .. you dont even know the guy...

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Is it wrong to like a guy, and love another? Does that make me a hoe?...lol I give advice, but every1 calls me a hoe b-c of that!! But after u r done reading this then check out my site...sExY_LiL_BoO_BeCkY

-*Thanks a bunch!*-

-bEcKy-

well i love a guy and like abut 5 others and people call me a hoe but not cuz of that cuz how i ACT around a bunch of other guys then i guess i make it seem like im interested when im really not. so not its not wrong

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Sorry it's long, but I need some help

Okay, no offense to this kid, or anybody out there, I'm just describing him.

There's this one realy geeky, kind of overweight kid (I'm a few pounds overweight too, so nothing against him) Well he likes me, and he does whatever he can to talk to me. I know he's trying to be nice, and his best friend said he liked me, but I have a boyfriend, and he doesn't seem to understand that. Today, we were waiting in the commentary during school, and he came up to me and started to act like a real loser (he's a loner with only a few friends) but he made all my friends leave, and when I tried to walk away, he'd get in front of me. I'm stuck sitting next to him in 1st period, I have tried talking to the teacher, and I told her I felt like I was being sexually harassed, because he has tried touching me, but she wouldn't really liste, because she knows hit too well, and he just wouldn't do that type of thing, so I can't move seats, I've tried talking to an administrator, and everything, the only thing I haven't done was talk to him. I'm not sure if he's mentally challenged, and I don't know how to say anything without being mean, He never said he liked me, but you can just tell, and his friends have asked me if I'd go out with him

How do I get it in his brain, I have a boyfriend, and I DON'T LIKE YOU!! I don't want to be friends, I just want him to leave me alone!!

omg thats really harsh,yeah i know what you mean i liked this kid but he didnt want to go out with me but im not geeky or overweight or anything so yeah but since this isnt because hes geeky or overweight tell him u have a boyfriend and to leave u alone

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Okay im the starting Varsity quarterback for my high school football team. We have practice 4 days a week and every other saturday from 4 to 6:30. I have also been in choir and all the school plays with mainly leading parts for my whole life, and its never been a problem interfearing with football before but now this year the play practice is going to be every night that football is except tell 7!! (and not every other saturday) I know the choir/play director very well and she wants me to do the play so bad, and my coach asked me about it when i talked to him.. HELP!?!???

well would you rather be the starting Varsity quarterback player? or the main leading role in a play? your pick

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I'm so sorry if it's long....

i am in love. I know it, and I can feel it. I talked to the same guy for 2 years. He lives 45 minutes away and it kills me. i see him almost every weekend, but I suffer through the week without him. It's all I think about .He's all I wish I had. It makes me miserable to be without him. Does anyone else have this feeling? This feeling when the phone rings it just might be him, or when you see his face again you just fall in love all over again? My mother tells me I'm too young to be in love. 16 is just a beginning, she says. I believe love has no boundries. I just want to know, how do you feel your in love? Express yourselves...because I know everyone loves someone.

yes,i feel the same way except my friends and family tell me he's not worth it because he's 17 and im 14 and i've liked him for about 6 years he broke my heart,he played me like i was a toy and now he wants to get with me,i know he's going to play me again my mind is sayin yes but my heart is saying no. All his ex-girlfriends are heart broken he can't keep a girl for any longer than a week but his smile gets me. That's how I feel and I know that everyone loves someone too.

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