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there is a guy that i have known for almost 6 years. I love him to death. Litterally. I cant stand it when I'm not around him. But the thing is. He thinks I cheated on him the last time we went out by sitting on my ex bfs lap. and he thinks that I kissed him because thats what he was told by my evil brother and parents. He doesn't trust me now and I can't get his trust back. I seriously can't stand it anymore. I'm like, about ready to cry just writing this. I love everything about him, the way he laughs, the way he smiles, his sense of humor...just..everything. And I want him back so bad. I can't stand waiting anymore. I have been waiting for a couple of months, waiting and trying my best to get his trust back. It isnt working and I cant stand it! I went out with this other guy to get over him and it didn't work. I can't just forget him because its hard with how long i've known him. and his sister is my best friend. He has me wrapped around his finger. I will do anything and everything he asks for. (not sex tho but he doesnt want that anyway) He doesn't tell me to do stuff and he doesnt know how wrapped up he has me. I'm in love with him but it doesnt matter to him. or anyone else. I'm the only one who cares how bad I have it for him. I have everything he has ever given me, all the notes, all the presents, the pictures, the memories. Its been a couple of months and I still remember what his kiss feels like, I remember how he used to rub my side when he held me. just, everything. how can i get him to trust me again and get him back............fast. or at least kinda fast.

u've got to talk to your parents and brother and get them to tell ur man that none of that stuff was true.. if it wasnt true.. why would ur brother and parents tell him that? just wondering.

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Ok guys I am getting a bit nervous. I have been on my pill for a few months now. I take it the same time everyday, I dont forget to take them. I have 3 days left till I start a new pack and I havent gotten my period yet. When your on the pill should your period start before you start your new pack. If I dont get it by mid week next week I will take a test. But i am wondering if its normal to have not gotten my period yet. The last few months I had it already. Thanks for all your help guys.

thats normal.. but there MIGHT be a chance there is something wrong.. if u dont get ur period within the first week of your new birth control pack.. you need to take a test..

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mk well ima freshman in highschool 15 n well i already have a horrible reputation n i didnt do it on purpose i started off jus kicken it 2 guys (4) n i didnt realise they were all friends n they all fingured me n i gave 2 of thme head. total mistake of my life!!!no 1 talked 2 me for atleast 2 weeks n worst of all the guy i liked which i also kissed doesnt like me that way ne more were good friends n all n we flirt but i rilly liike hiim n i just want a steady boyfriend. but my real question is should i let the rumors cool n then wait 4 sum 1 to ask me out or jus some 1 2 be with by the way i alreadytold him a million times i liiked hiim n i rilly have no clue watso ever wat to do b/c i like him so much

wow.. i went thru the same thing.. bcuz i got drunk at this party and made out with SIX guys.. yeah SIX guys!!! and like ALL the girls called me a slut n stuff yeah.. but lol all my guy friends didn't have a problem with it.. they actually.. liked it.. lol maybe bcuz I only made out with 6 guys lol instead of fucking them or w.e. IdK!! Try talking to the dude you like and tell him u made a huge mistake and you don't know what you were thinking.. and tell him you wanna move up a step with him.. and you would change everything for him.. if he would just trust you n all.. just be urself babe! I hope things work out.. I TOTALLY know where your coming from!!

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I had sex with the same guy as my best friend's sister has. I just didn't know until after I had that she had already been with him. Well.. I talked to the girl he was with a few days later.. and she told me he had an STD. She said he had Herpes in his mouth. She said she was makin out with him.. and he had a sore on his lip and he said it was herpes and not to tell anyone.
She went to a clinic to get checked today. Can u still get herpes from someone if neither of u have open sores in your mouths? And should i get checked? or find out if she has it and then get checked.. I dont want to have to tell my mom i had sex with him, but im still scared i might have it.

Also, my BFF had sex with him the night after i did (eww) and she got checked too.. should I wait see if either of them have it.. or just go ahead and tell my mom and get an appointment at a clinic?

Please only answer if u know something about Herpes... THANKS!

lol.. herpes in the mouth is NOT and STD.. they are caused from stress and stuff like that.. don't worry.. EVERYONE gets herpes on their mouths.. they are just cold sores.. no worries babe.. but if u like.. start gettin warts on ur "stuff" then u got something wrong with you.. Herpes of the mouth are NOT an STD everyone gets them!!!!!!

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i was w0ndering if there is anyway i c0uld get a free ab0rti0n with0ut my parents kn0wing? =( ManDie x0o

no there isnt im sorry.. but please don't get an abortion.. if u are pregnant.. u HAVE to tell ur parents.. bcuz theres no way u can get away with them not knowing.. keep the baby or give it up for adoption.. abortion is not the answer.. u did the dirrty deed.. it was your choice.. dont punish the baby that YOU created bcuz u cant take care of it.. dont kill it please..

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when is the best time to take a prenancey test? i heard 3-4 days after you were suppossed to have you period, 12 days after you have sex, right after, a couple of days before your period is suppossed to start ... i'm so confused!!!

if uve had ur period.. ur not pregnant?

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How long does a girl have her period? like how many days?

every girl is different.. some have them for 7 days.. some 5.. some 3.. just depends on your body..

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Well I have been quite puzzled about this lately....when you're taking the pill, do you have to use a condom to help prevent pregnancy? I don't need it for STD's b/c my bf and I don't have any nor have we been with any other people ever before. So any advice on this matter would be greatly appreciated.

Female, 16

u dont absolutely need the condom.. but.. the birth control does not 100 percent always work.. just make sure ur boyfriend doesnt cum in you if you don't use a condom.. ppl just use condoms and birth control to be extra safe.. personally i dont like condoms cuz u cant feel n e thing.. im on birth control 2.. i just don't let my guy cum in me.. n then everythings all good! sex is so much better w.o. a condom!

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ok well my mom told me last week she thinks its time i go see a gyno. well i dont have a problem with it b/c i am sexually active and i think i might need to go. well im guessing she obviously thinks me and my boyfriend are doing stuff if she's making me go there. well im really scared to tell her so im going to keep it from her as long as i can. my friends have told me that the questions they ask you are confidentail.. well is there any way i can ask the gyno if i can get birth control and they can give it to me without my mom thinking anything like can they tell her she should probably put me on it to regulate my period? i know this is weird but what do u think?

the only way u can get birth control without ur mom knowing is if you go to planned parenthood and get it.. tell ur mom u dont want her to go with you bcuz u feel uncomfortable and for her to just give u the money or something.. lol.. i hope everything works out for u

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what does it meen if a guy gives you beads? my cousin was all talking about how slutty these gurls were because they were sitting by their boyfriends with a whole bunch of beads around their necks. i didn't know but laughed along with her with no idea on what she was talking about. i know it must have somthing to do with sex but what? p.s. please don't delete!

if a guy gives you beads it means you flashed them.. like.. lifted up your shirt and showed them ur boobs.. thats what people do in martigra.. guys gives girls beads for flashing them.. lol

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I'm 14, and I have yet to wear a tampon! All of my friends do it, so I just pretend I do!.. I mean I've stuck one in there before, and it worked and it sticked, but I'm afraid like its going to go further, or I'm gunna try and pull on the stringy thing and its gunna break lose. Do you think any of those things could happen? Pllease help!

awwwe ur so cute.. no no.. nothing will happen.. they are totally okay to use.. and SO much better then them nasty diapers.. tampons ALL the way!! dont be scared.. they can't go further.. and the string won't break!

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OMG all my friends (in my age range ~14~) say its okay and that they dont think its bad to have sex at this age and half of them like, arent virgins!! I just relaized this today but i think having sex at this age is just plain stupid!! Am i weird or crazy? IS it okay to have sex at my age?!!

do not have sex.. just bcuz ur friends are.. thats stupid.. i think ud be cooler if you waited.. 14 is too young.. and VERY slutty.. babe u just wait till u find someone u absolutely love.. then give it ALL you got.. hahaaa

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First off, I'm not sexually active and am pretty much a 'good girl' when it comes down to getting serious and sexual with any guy. The problem is, I have these very sexual, heated fantasies. When I meet a hot guy, and we start talking, I start to daydream about us having sex. I don't mean normal sex either - like rough, hard and in odd places. Is there something wrong with me? These fantasies are taking over my life and mind.

haha your just normal girl.. happens to me alllll the time..

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This may be kinda long, but I need to ask someone. I just started taking birth control pills 3 weeks ago. I think I may be pregnant but, I havent missed my next scheduled period. Since I just started taking the pill, that messes up my cycle for this month. I have other signs of possibly being pregnant. Being on my pills the nurse told me I should be getting my period around the 13th of this month. My boyfriend and I are very sexually active..in fact every night. I know we shouldnt do it, but it is unprotected each time. Is there a way that I could find out now if I could be pregnant..like take a pregnancy test tomorrow and find out? Im really nervous and want to know if I am now. I need to know what to do soon. Thanks.

get about 4 preg. tests and do them all.. just to make sure the answer is correct.. if ur pregnant.. srry babe.. but u gotta talk to ur mommah!

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can a 18 year old get in trouble for dating a 13 year old?

yeah.. and that's nasty.. u can go to jAiL!

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ok i think i have a problem, i love sex so much i cant explain and me and my boyfriend only do it like once a week, and when we do he satisfies me alot in everyway but when we're done,10 minutes go by and im ready for another round, he'll give me like two good rounds but i always want more,and he'll be worn out. am i un normal or somethin cause i feel liek i need it all day everyday what is wrong with me.

haha babe! ur like me.. a freaking NIMFOMANIAC!! which means.. UR ADDICTED TO SEX! haaa.. there's NOTHING wrong with that.. maybe you need to find a man that can handle you! haha..

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me and my bf recently slept together and now i fink i mite be pregnant but im wondering can somebody under 16 have an abortion whitout their parents knowind thanx

NO DO NOT HAVE AN ABORTION! NO THERE IS NO WAY U CAN GET AWAY WITH IT WITHOUT UR PARENTS KNOWING! im srry i just REALLY don't think people just get abortions.. i mean YOU HAD SEX it was YOUR choice.. its not the bays fault.. dont create something and then kill it for no reason! DONT DONT DONT! Go buy some pregnancy tests DUH! are u really that freaking stupid!! GO GET A PREGNANCY test! I'm sorry I know I'm being really mean.. but if you could just understand where I'm coming from.. then.. don't get mad at me! lol.. PLEASE do not kill your baby.. IF your pregnant.. go get about 4 preg. tests and do them all.. just to make sure the answer is right! THANKS!

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I'm 15 n I love my boyfriend with allll my heart n we've been together for a long time n we really want a baby. It might sound crazy but. Dont call me a slut or anything, cuz im not. I wouldnt just want a baby with any guy. I love my boyfriend n he loves me n we feel we're ready to take care of a kid. We'd be able to raise it no problem, we have money n stuff. I just dont kno what people would think. My boyfriend promises he'll never leave me, n I kno he will be there to support me in anything...what do you think..

First of all.. if u want a baby.. you've GOT to tell your parents about it BEFORE you make it.. you might think your ready.. but your really not.. you still have school n all that stuff.. JUST WAIT.. dooo noooot get pregnant.. it will RUIN all of your fun.. you'll never be able to go out with friends as much.. you won't be able to have sex as much.. u'll get really moody.. u won't be able to finish school.. JUST WAIT AND DONT BE STUPID! YOUR ONLY 15 GIRL!! You've got SOO many more years in your life.. who knows.. u might NOW be with this dude forever.. bcuz u'll get older and prettier.. and there are SOO many other guys out there.. DO NOT HAVE A BABY!

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I am 14 and my boyfriend is 18 but we are madly in love ...so we had sex about a month ago and i havnt had my period....we were also protected with a comdom but you know they are only 85 % protective...so i have been looking online about signs of pregnacny and i seem to have none of the signs except of a late period...i told my boyfriend about it and he said to wait till the end of october and see if you get your period..so im gonna wait and then take a pregancy test....but theres a 50 50 chance i might be and if i am...im not shure wut to ..is there any way i can get by this with out my parents knowing ?? is there any way i can kill the baby before its nooticeable...?? ...can i i have an abortion with havniing my parents know and can i have it before it get noticeable? or is there any pill i can take that can kill ??...i know its wrong but i dont know wut to do so plz tell me...thanks!!
~*shadysladys001*~

Take a pregnancy test NOW!!! Take about 4 of them.. just to make sure the answer is correct.. and if you are pregnant.. there is no way u can get by without telling your parents.. do not even THINK about killing a baby.. u had sex.. its YOUR fault if you get pregnant.. If you are pregnant PLEASE PLEASE keep the baby or give it up for adoption please.. you did it.. so please be responsible and do the RIGHT thing.. don't murder the baby! its not their fault.. u created it..

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ok well lately ive really had the urge to have sex. im a female and gonna be 15 soon and i know its too early but i dont know what to do. i dont even know how to have sex but ive been having dreams about it and everything. i dont want to be a slut! please help

please..please..please.. DO NOT have sex.. wait till u have a boyfriend u love.. and wait till your a lil older.. don't worry.. everyone has dreams and urges to have sex.. ohh babyyy trust me.. EVERYONE does.. lol NO SEX!! ITS BAD! lol

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