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I am so in love with my girlfriend. She is amazing and everything I need her to be. But this summer I have the choice to move away to Philly with my father (which I been wanting for years) to get away from my mother. And I will be getting paid to play basketball there. But my girlfriend will still be here and I don't want to leave her cause I know we would have a great future together if I stay and I know things won't be the same even if I do come and visit a lot. What do you guys think I should do? (link)
i think you should go with your dad. You are talking about your future! i know you love your girlfriend but come on worry about you!!!!!!!!!!!!!1


I have a 12 yr old cuzin who i'm really beginning to get worried about. The thing is, she's starting to get into this whole emo look by dressing up in all black and stuff and the worst part is that she even told me that she's started cutting herself. I really don't understand why she would do this because my aunt and uncle treat her with kindness and respect. The problem is that she's always so negative towards everyone and my aunt tells me that she doesn't have a single friend at school. I try to help her but she simply brushes me off and i don't know what to do before this case gets seriously worse. Please help! (link)
you have to tell someone. get her help immediately. i know it's hard. your throat will feel dry and you'll feel dizzy but telling could save her life! they can put her in social groups and get her counciling. she needs your help right now more than ever!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


why is it so bad for a white person to say nigga ? is it ohk for a spanish person to say it ??? i mean black people do say it to each other ... and they're aloud to call white people wiggers and white people spicks ? ummm .... (link)
i seriously think it's all retarded. and a wigger is seriously supposed to be a white woman dating a black man. I just think it's respect. okay well i don't know how you can call that respect haha.


I like this guy, Jared. He is my friend, but i dont know how i can get him to like me that way. Im a very out going person and well usually, thats how i get my guys. But he is different. I dunno its just all so frustrating. PLease help!!

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i was once in the same situation. I thought it would be a bad idea after a while because after i go out with someone i have a hard time talking to them again. It might ruin you friendship.


Im 14 and just broke up wit mu bf. We broke up because i heard he told another girl he liked her and they where hanging out together. She asked him if he had a girlfriend and he said no. When i found this out i broke up with him and he told one of my friends he hated me, i took that very badly because i did nothin for him to feel that way but he said he said that because he was upset about the situation because i did not belive him and belived someone else. but i feel like i cant depend on him to tell me the truth becase he lies alot. so now we are not together and it is really hard to try to get over him because i lost my virginity to him and i love him still so much. He tells me he loves me too and is so sorry but i dont kno if it is the right thing to do if i get bac wit him i dont want him to think im easy so what should i do??? (link)
you should say you have to take a break. sort out all your details.


ok i went out with this one guy that i really liked a lot, but we broke up becauce he said eh didnt like me in that way, i was really upset but we are still good friends and all, but now he keeps saying that he wants to make out with me and he wants to like do stuff with me, i dont get it. (link)
he is obviously just using you. He is being a pervert. Don't hang out with him alone! He's just taking advantage of you.


alright, i've been dating my b/f for almost a year now, and he lives in texas, and i live in pennsylvania, we talk all the time on AIM, and we talk alot on the phone too, i love him with all of my heart, it's not a question of that, but my rents don't know about him and vice versa, and lately i've been feeling like is this all really worth it in the end when we can be together, or should i break up with him. and i know he really loves me and whenever i talk to him about this, he always says "it will work out in the end, we were meant to be together" and i just don't know anymore...please help!! (link)
long distance relationships are real hard. i think you should try to move on. on the phone and on line relationships are not really the best.


now that its summer and really hot out. i sweat a lot, especially on my face. does anyone know what i can do to prevent my make-up from smearing or any good cover-ups/foundation/concealers that will out-last the humidity and weather? thanks. i will rate you good. =) (link)
i use lancome mascara it works really well and mine never smeared in the hot weather. i'll check out different types but that works good.


My bf told me he wants to do "stuff" i said ok.. but i dont wanna look stupid by not knowing what some stuff means.. whats cum?.. whats dueshcing?.. what does "motion in the ocean" mean?.. and how do you eat someone out?.. we were talking earlier n i just agreed with everything he said! Please help!
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it means he's making a move on you. he's trying to get u in bed with him.


Okay, I asked a question a while ago saying that I went to the movies with my guy friend & that there were hints that he liked me. Well, I got alot of great answers so thanks to everyone.

I've decided I want to tell him that I have feelings for him. If I don't, I know it will be on my mind ALL summer. Anyone have an idea on how I could go about doing that? (link)
go on something like a walk with him and just start off with small talk and then just move in and tell him how you feel.


Heyy im already in 10th grade and im only 5'0!! I dont want to be this short anymore!!! Is there any Way i can Grow @ least 3 inches! (link)
my cousins frend has been soOo short for lyke ever but she really grow u will to there isn't a way to grow though sorry


heyy well i have a cousin who lives in another state..well when i went there to see her around christmas i met some of her friends when we were wild because of christmas and stuff and got their sns. and we talked on aim for a long time and wanted to meet in person the next time i went there. soo...somehow my cousin found out and she really hated me and thought i was trying to steal her friends. well, whatever..me and her friends met in person at a mall. it was SO awkward, like no one would talk for like an hour or 2. but whats funny is that one of my cousins friends..lets say her name is Alex..liked me on aim and i liked her too..but it was so awkward in person. should i want to see them next time i go there, and my cousin still hates me..what can i tell her? thanks (link)
you should meet up with them all sometime and walk right up to yer cuz nd go hayy! before you talk to any of themm. try to start a conversation she's yer cousin she's family, can't b replaced!


I wanna change
Im so sick of "me", I've had boyfriends but nothing worth mentioning. I wanna stand out, be worth lookin at, and I wanna be happy with myself.

1.I have deep blonde hair *almost a light brown* with some lighter highlites.
2.Im 5'2" I weigh 108
3. My hair is shoulder length, framed in front
4. I have a zit problem, my forhead is covered, and my nose has a few blackheads

I'll rate high on any good comments on how to become " The New Me" (link)
nobody has to change! i reccomend olay gentle foaming face wash for zits. it seriously works. my mom uses it. then use noxema that's what i use to keep my face clear. u can also go to a dermatologist. if you change too drastically people will seriously think your a wannabe. i swear i've read books. nd just think about it.


Everytime *it never fails* after I eat I get a stomach ache, and there not normal small pain ones, they hurt like crazy. I've been to the hospital and they've found nothin, they think its all in my head. Im afraid to eat sometimes because the pain is so bad and Im always stuck layin in bed for hours. I eat pretty healthy food, im normal weight and I excercise alot, does anyone else no what my be going on? *Im 13 and some doctors think it could be growing pains .. but would they hurt this bad and how do i get rid of them?* sry for the length but I'l rate BUNCHES! :) (link)
ew it's not in your head! they are retards. try exercising a little before you eat. make sure you eat a well balanced diet. hope i helped!


Ok heres the deal my brothers 8yrs old and oh yea please dont make fun of me for this. Ok anyways he is in to slipknot and i dont think its just a phase he is going thought anyways he bought a mask off ebay to be like slipknot and he wears it all the time! and tommrow my boyfriend is comming over and he is going to be wearing that stupid mask please tell me what to do to get it off him i hid it from him but im sure he will find it soon is this just like a phase he is going thought or like idk help please
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pay him to leave lol, send him to the movies or something.


My guy gets mad when I'm with or talk to any other guy who I'm just friends with. What do I do? (link)
that stinks. if u don't u don't have trust you don't have anything. i swear it's just soOoOo annoying.


im a normal girl. but i want to go preppy
i need some websites to help me be more popular cause friendz arent that helpful in these kinda questions. ill rate high for tips and websites and good facial ingredients.. i already know ALOT of Facials but i want to try something new so please help me out.
REMEMBER: i want websites on how to be preppy and popular, and i want gr8 facial ingredients, and lots of tips. thankz in advance. (link)
im preppy!

you still like should like stay you. I don't know much about facials because i just wash with noxema every single night and it works reeally well! blemish free i sware. i always go to bath and body works for everything have you checked there yet? i don't know any websies i usually just know wuts preppy because it's like plaid, RIBBONS, light colors, etc.

what really is great is setting styles. I always look at louis vuitton and stuff to find tha hottest new trends hope i helped!


ok i have a bf thats my age. but i REALLY like this other guy who is 2 yrs older than me. i think he likes me too. he doesnt kno that i have a bf though so if he asked me out nd im still w/ my bf, wut do i do?

ps-i think the older guy would b a much better bf! (link)
nobody can answer this question but you. you need to meassure the pros nd cons. i hope you make the best choice.


How can someone say they love you they are sorry for hurting you and yet tell you they are leaveing you all in the same sentence. I am 42 years old female. Some friends of ours at the time told me he was sleeping with our friends wife. he denies everything and says they are liying.. but he continues to work for them everyday.. he has gotten where he acts as if he don't care about anything anymore.. (link)
ewwww he's cheating on you if he does it once he'll do itt again. try opening upp tha relationship if that doesn't work get rid of himm!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


Ok, so you're familiar with the concept, there's this guy i really like and well we talk sometimes but mostly he teases me and I'm pretty sure they're just jokes, he can be pretty sweet too. Recently, I found out we both have the same birthday, which is this summer, and we're both going to the same water slides, so we'll probably see eachother there. I also have his address and phone number. I'm too shy to tell him that I like him during the school year, but I think writing would work. If so, what should I write? I don't want it to be too corny. And should I write to him or will he be creeped out because he didnt give me his address? Is it a bad idea to call him and say happy birthday? Just so he knows I'm thinking of him? (link)
saying happy birthday would be tha hottest thing to do! it's lyke breaking the ice

i think emailing him will be great as long as you don't go i love you or something like real quick. not till he answers at least. dont move to fast.




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