My bf told me he wants to do "stuff" i said ok.. but i dont wanna look stupid by not knowing what some stuff means.. whats cum?.. whats dueshcing?.. what does "motion in the ocean" mean?.. and how do you eat someone out?.. we were talking earlier n i just agreed with everything he said! Please help!
HyperactiveMiss answered Friday June 10 2005, 10:35 pm: Well for one thing, if you don't know what those things are, you definitely shouldn't do them!!! By golly.
And if you can't even talk honestly to your boyfriend without being embarrassed, you guys aren't THAT close to begin with...so I don't think you should do "stuff". And you sound young, being oblivious to these kinds of things, so at least wait until you KNOW you're ready and you KNOW what "stuff" is. lol.
Next time you talk to your boyfriend, just be honest and admit you don't know what things are.
PS That "stuff" your boyfriend is talking about has to do with SEX. Which definitely puts you at risk for pregnancy and STDS. If you get HIV/AIDS you can NOT be cured from it. Many people with it suffer horribly and die young. You can't exactly "cure" yourself of being pregnant either. If you have a baby it will be your responsibility for LIFE. Which will ruin your education, yoru future, and you won't get to do "stuff" once you're too occupied with a baby. And even if you got an abortion, you will still always have the memory of killing your baby just because you were irresponsible.
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