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my out of state b/f
alright, i've been dating my b/f for almost a year now, and he lives in texas, and i live in pennsylvania, we talk all the time on AIM, and we talk alot on the phone too, i love him with all of my heart, it's not a question of that, but my rents don't know about him and vice versa, and lately i've been feeling like is this all really worth it in the end when we can be together, or should i break up with him. and i know he really loves me and whenever i talk to him about this, he always says "it will work out in the end, we were meant to be together" and i just don't know anymore...please help!!
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long distance relationships are real hard. i think you should try to move on. on the phone and on line relationships are not really the best.
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Well what i would do is. . .break up with him. YOU GUYS LIVE IN DIFFERENT STATES!!! How do you know that he sin't cheating on you??? I am not sounding mean but i mean you have to move on. Tell him nicely that you don't think taht this is gonna work out, cuz you guys live in different states in all.Belive me he'll understand he might be mad for a couple of days but if he really loves you he'll want you to be happy.
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You've met right? Well sometimes long distance relatinships dont work out all the time but if you 2 are meant to be together then it defenetlly will. Follow your heart and do what you think is right. Dont break up with him if you really love him because you probablly wont get over him easy and it will be hard for you to find someone else just like him. Maybe when you both get older you could find ways to see each other but for now the only way you guys can be together is by AIM and the phone. Thats good enough right? If your parents dont know I mean thats okay but if you feel like they deserve to know then tell theme. I belive that it will work out between you both because if you really do love each other and if you are meant to be nothing will come between that and it doesnt matter how far away you live. Just belive that you both will make it work. Good luck!! ex__oOh ♥
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My advice to you is to just listen and follow to what is in your heart. Sometimes life takes us to places and things in which we have never thought would be true and that's what destiny is. Your future could be with him...or it could be without. I know parents may find it hard to understand long distance relationships because of all the media that has been going around but it's just like what that quote says "Love will always find a way". Long-distance relationships are difficult to maintain sometimes but life is never easy and it is how much you two love one another that will always keep that special bond from ever breaking. What he always says to you isn't something to stall time or anything like that...he says it because that's how he really feels about you. Anyway, just think about it to yourself and always listen to your heart.
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Well long relashionships dont really work out all the time but set off the relashionship now and at the end when he comes back you can get back together if you have not meet no one new.
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