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im 13 and a male and some girls pick on me at school what should i do?
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Girls at our age can be reall mean. I mean most of us are eather in bad moods all the time or just make fun of people to make themselves feel better. You defenetly should not let them do that. And you should not let them see that it bothers you because if they see that they will do it even more. There are some situatiations that you can deal with this and its to eather ignore them or just say something back to them that they will feel embarresed about so they have nothing else to say. Dont let them control your feelings at all! You honestly dont deserve to be treated like that at all so just say something back and they will stop eventually. ex__oOh ♥
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Girls can be really mean sometimes, especially at this age. You don't deserve to be picked on & you shouldn't give them that power over you. Keep in mind why people ridicule others: to make THEMSELVES feel better. I don't know how you're currently handling the situation but whatever you do, don't let them see that it bothers you. Bullies of any sort, whether it's physical or verbal (in your case), thrive when the victim is-- acting like a victim. My advice is to not show that it's bothering you. Just laugh it off. They'll loose the thrill of it & just stop. Good luck & if you need anymore help, let me know ♥
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Man, I know foR a FACT that those RetaRded giRls aRe in *NOOOOOO* position to Ridicule YOU!! Tell them that when they fix THEIR flaws.. you'll pay attention to THEIR suggestions!! And who caRes what they think oR say!?! I undeRstand it MAY get annoying, but the only opinion that should matteR is that of youR family and fRiends!! If *YOU* aRe happie with the way *YOU* aRe, then TO HELL with eveRyone else!! Hope this helps!! =D
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You should not let what they say get to you. The more that they see how their insults and jokes are working, the more it encourages them. I suggest talking to a school counselor, teacher, principal, or parent about this because keeping this inside will only hurt you more.
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it's prob. b/c they like you! plain and simple, b/c girls don't USUALLY pick on guys for no reason, it's usually b/c they like you
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